is this normal?

[ltlime]

hi, my name is martin, and im 12, il be a teen in a few months, and id just like to ask, is this normal? when i was 10, i never used to look at girls and what ....what they hold, such as bum breasts ect, but, over the past few months, ive found myself doing this....looking at kyle, my friend, looking at a girl. looking at the clock, looking at a girl, and even when i dont know im doing it, im looking at a girl..is this normal? or it just part of puberty?, any tips?

EDIT: while on the bus to lock eil on a school trip, i was dared to kiss the boy next to me, i did, does that make me gay?

[Sapphire]

Don't worry about it. This is a perfectly normal part of growing up. The opposite sex becomes more noticeable and more important to us as we make the transition from kids to teenagers.

No, doing things like that and experimenting doesn't make you gay.

[Requin]

Right, are 12 year olds allowed on vt?
Welcome to puberty, isn't it great!
When you start puberty, a chemical called 'hormones' start to be produced by your body and they fly about your body through the bloodstream and start to create you into a man. That's the basic thing of what happens, and these hormones are what changes your body into a man. They make hair grow, you grow taller, your penis gets bigger etc etc.
You will start to become more sexually emotional and also become more interested in girls, or boys. Eithers fine.

And the kissing the boy thing was fine, your only 12 and immature, that's not offensive by the way, and so long as you don't do it again then it's fine.
And no it doesn't make you gay, you have to fancy a boy physically and emotionally for that to happen.

EDIT: Oh yeah, you'll be 13 soon, soz dude.

[byee]

Yes, you're normal. It sounds like puberty has started for you, and the hormones cause you to become more aware of, and interested in girls. A lot of other changes will soon follow, all normal.

Kissing a boy doesn't make you gay, even liking it. However, since you don't like the feelings that this stirs up, you might not do it again.

[Patchy]

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