masturbation and me

[confusedandsad]

I tried to masterbate but nothing came out Im 16 and every time I have sex I wear a condom and nothing is ever in the condom when im done would it be safe to have sex without one:mad:

[virginmary333]

me too! an sometimes it hurts real bad owee :( help me plz! x

[DrDrDrDrDr]

you're probably not done with puberty, give it another few years. puberty goes into the 20's, sometimes past 25, you might just be a late bloomer, as the expression goes

[virginmary333]

and also what's a foreskin ? =S

[confusedandsad]

but my girlfriend is threatning to break up with me if by the end of the week I cant cum on her leg should take viagra

[virginmary333]

yeah! my bro used it an it really works I'm not joking...

[waterplayer]

and also what's a foreskin ? =S

its the skin around the head of your penis

[pontiacdriver]

If I understand your situation right, then you have never ejaculated before? If that is the case, then it is really not a big deal as a lot of guys do not start ejaculating as late as 17. Have you had other signs of puberty (i.e. height, hair, body mass increase, etc)?

As for your using condoms if you cannot cum, don't ever stop using condoms as you will be able to ejaculate sooner or later, and you don't want to find yourself in a position where you can accidentally get your girlfriend pregnant. Even if you cannot cum condoms still protect you against fluid borne STDs. Basically, don't stop wearing condoms no matter what.

As for your girlfriend threatening to dump you unless you can cum, that is very shallow of her, and to me you both must not have a very strong relationship if she is going to dump you over something over which you have absolutely no control. In a relationship partners should accept each other completely and totally and any shortcomings that are beyond the control of the person should be overlooked if there is true love. If this girl is going to dump you because you cannot ejaculate, then she is the loser in such a situation as she is going to loose out on a good boyfriend. To me, your not being able to ejaculate is actually a good thing for your girlfriend in the sense that you can have multiple orgasms and stay hard indefinitely unlike a guy who can ejaculate who has to deal with refractory periods.

Finally, there is nothing you can do to accelerate semen production other than to wait and be patient.

[southcarolina]

Don't ever have sex without a condom until you're married. If you're 16 and can't ejaculate semen, I would definitly see a doctor.

[Neverender]

I tried to masterbate but nothing came out Im 16 and every time I have sex I wear a condom and nothing is ever in the condom when im done would it be safe to have sex without one:mad:

no. as there may be a little sperm inside the vagina from your dick. and 1 is all it takes to end your life with a kid. also, maybe this is the first time you will cum, inside a girl without a condom. play it safe and alway wear one