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chelsay13
September 22nd, 2008, 05:33 PM
ok, i've been with my boyfriend about 5 times in the last 2 years. we care about each other A LOT. He's always been there for me and stuff. We feel strongly about each other. I'm not usre abou LOVE, but a very stong like.

Anyway, i have had thse fantasies about us having sex and masterbating. I know we like kissing. We just have problems finding somehwere to kiss. so my questions are...

1.)what do i do about these fanasies? do i tell him about them? how do i control myself from feeling like this?
2.)where's a place that we can "make-out" without being bothered or seen? Ive heard the family restrooms are good...what do you think?

Sugaree
September 23rd, 2008, 06:32 PM
1. You can't really do anything about them. They are caused by your hormones and it's natural. If you want to try and stop them for a short time then try to think about something else or even do something else to take your mind off of it. You should only tell him if you are comfortable telling him. He probably has thoughts like this about you too. It wouldn't be uncommon if he does!

2. Most people like the restrooms but that may still be a bit too public. Why not meet in your room or his room if you are allowed or even go to a movie and when the lights are off then you can I suppose.

DarkWingedAngel
September 23rd, 2008, 06:53 PM
^ that atcualy is a good time i did that
or if he has a pool it works as well