Ejaculation in general...

[NYJets]

I am 15 years old and ive never cum before....... besides wet dreams... i get them every 2 weeks or so. im 5'8 and im pretty developed.... everytime i tried to jack off i would become chafed and lose my boner... when i got oral sex from a girl i didnt not ejaculate at all.... what should i do to experience the first time

[arron3]

u should use lotion or lube first to see if u can ejaculate on ur own

[pontiacdriver]

I am 15 years old and ive never cum before....... besides wet dreams... i get them every 2 weeks or so. im 5'8 and im pretty developed.... everytime i tried to jack off i would become chafed and lose my boner... when i got oral sex from a girl i didnt not ejaculate at all.... what should i do to experience the first time

It is clear that you have the ability to ejaculate in light of your wet dreams, but you are simply having trouble making yourself cum consciously.

Specific methods on how to masturbate are not allowed to be discussed here, and you should visit www.jackinworld.com for detailed descriptions on how to jack off. However, the following should help you out when you masturbate:

1) You may need to use some sort of lube to reduce friction between your hand and penis' shaft when you masturbate. Generally, anything that you can use on your skin that is not medicated are good options for lube. Household items that can be used as lube include creams/lotions, baby oil, or vaseline. Stay away from soaps, hair care products such as shampoos, or any other type of liquid skin cleaner as those items will cause irritation in your urethra and dry out your penis' skin.

2) Relax when you are masturbating, and don't focus on getting an orgasm; simply enjoy the sensations.

3) Try different ways of masturbating by alternating your pace by going slow or fast. Using different hands might also help your situation.

4) Only masturbate when you are aroused, and clear your mind of other things when you masturbate and only think about things that get you horny. A cluttered mind is a major obstacle to enjoying masturbating, and also only masturbate when you are assured of privacy.

[dddog]

why are you having oral sex at age 15

[Gavin]

why are you having oral sex at age 15

It's up to him if he wants that, not you. :rolleyes:

[Θάνατος]

It's up to him if he wants that, not you. :rolleyes:


I agree with Gavin here. It is his choice to have oral sex or not.

If you want to be able to ejaculate then you need to keep going until you do. You might want to use as someone suggested that u use lotion or a lube to keep it from chaffing. Good luck i hope you have your first orgasm on your own.

To answer your question about not having an orgasm with oral sex most people don't have one the first couple of times they have oral sex.

[NYJets]

Thanks guys.. for the advise

[waterplayer]

Have you tried using a luricante, or looking at something while you jack off

[CoolBri94]

Yeah you might want to try using a lube or looking at something while you j/o, it might be easier

[Neverender]

I am 15 years old and ive never cum before....... besides wet dreams... i get them every 2 weeks or so. im 5'8 and im pretty developed.... everytime i tried to jack off i would become chafed and lose my boner... when i got oral sex from a girl i didnt not ejaculate at all.... what should i do to experience the first time

chafed? what does that mean?


and perhaps you dream about somthing like a possible fetish or somthing that you don't know consiously. but hears some advice, clear your mind when jacking off, imagine its someone else sucking your dick or jacking you off etc. maybe that'll work

[NYJets]

How long does it take to reach orgasm.....? what should i expect to happen if im doing it right

[CoolBri94]

How long it takes can depend... some people are able to cum really fast and others can take a long time (I have a friend that takes at least 15 mins). You should expect a really good feeling and if you can ejaculate, a messy area unless you do it in the shower :)

[geniusrocksoutloud]

youll need to wait a lil bit

[supercharm100]

okay, i get confused sometimes... when people say they use lube to masturbate, what exactly is lube?

[BJagHalo]

okay, i get confused sometimes... when people say they use lube to masturbate, what exactly is lube?
It's like vasaline.

[MisterAndrews]

Lube is a substance that stops the friction between your hand and your penis so your hand can slip up and down it. Some people think it makes it feel nicer.

Some people used an oil based lube like vaseline or johnsons baby lotion.

[Requin]

Old thread guys. Please check the date. Thanks. :locked: