i know you've all seen this before but....i still have to

[silentorspoken]

heyy everyone....sooo i need some help...

....i'm 17. i have this..."boyfriend". i quote that because he's older than me and mom n dad would never let me date him. so we have to try to sneek around to see each other. i haven't see him in 8 months (almost 9) and it's really depressing, as you can imagine. we've been 'together' for about a year. and even though he hasn't seen me in 8 months, he still loves me, misses me, and is very loyal to me. i love him so much, and we're trying to meet up as soon as possible. we talked about possibly having sex....now.....i know that it's been a while and we're just lusting for each other, but i think i really want to. he did not pressure me into this at all. it was my idea and he agreed that he thinks we might be ready. i can see myself being with him for a long time, and i think i'm ready to.......

any suggestions? :confused:

[liveandlearn]

I am assu,ing because hes older that hes 18 or above. H is leggaly an adult so he has to be carefull and you do too. If you realy love him and you both REALY feel ready do it. Use protection i cant stress it enough! Imagine what could happen if your parents found out...

[Underground_Network]

If you TRULY love him. If you TRULY want to be with him forever, go ahead and have sex with him. Sex is the ultimate intimacy, the ultimate way of showing someone you love them. Its a form of pleasure, but also a form of love. Just be sure that you're ready, the repercussions for having sex before you're ready are plenty and can cause you to stress out/get depressed/etc. Are you sure you're TRULY ready? Are you sure this won't be a mistake? Are you sure he loves you as much as you him, and vice versa? Are you sure you're truly meant to be? Are you sure you'll have no regrets? Are you sure you're the only one? Are you sure he's not taking advantage of you? If the answers to all of these are yes, I'd say you're ready, and that it certainly won't be a terrible thing. Just keep in mind that you're parents might not be too happy with it, so if you go through with it, try and keep it discreet.

[Sapphire]

I would advise you to wait. If you see each other this irregularly then you would probably be better off spending the time you do have with each other talking, cuddling, laughing, kissing and all the other appreciative, lovey-dovey stuff that couples do. If this relationship is for the long term then it won't suffer by you both waiting for a time when you are freer to see each other to have sex.

Btw, how old is he?

[Beautiful Obsession]

well how much older is he? if u havnt seen him in 8 months i'd think alot about having sex now. If your parents found out wot wud they do?
maybe talk to them and say how much you love him. theres not alot they can do if ur in love?
just make sure ur ready and if u change your mind at ANY point tell him. GoodLuck x

[Requin]

Okay, this is getting ridiculous Hollie. STOP bumping old posts. Read the rules for gods sake!

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