Tips for Asking Someone Out!

[Gumleaf]

Tips for Asking Someone Out!


There are few things in life are as exciting as the prospect of a new relationship. It can be a scary thought sometimes while at the same time lifting your spirits and giving you a better look on life. While the initial attraction is rarely love, what it has is the promise of love to come and that can be very exciting. But the question that remains, and is what often frightens us the most, is how to move on from the initial attraction to the dating stage.

The answer is not simple. First you have to be ready to put your heart on the line by letting the other person know you are interested. There are different ways that you can let the other person know you are interested, whether it be in an obvious or subtle way. A good place to start is with some innocent flirting. It doesn't have to be anything major, maybe just complimenting them, and if your crush seems receptive and appears interested, then the next step is to ask him or her out.

Asking someone out can seem like a big deal, but really it doesn't have to be like that. It can be something simple like, "lets eat lunch together today" if you want to start off slowly. Or if you are feeling more confident or adventurous, you could try something more like, "do you want to see a movie with me on Saturday?" Once you have put your feelings out there in the open, you will soon know if the other person is interested as well.

If they say "no" it is pretty obvious that they aren't in to you the same way that you are in to them. Although this might be a bit disheartening and feels like a kick in the guts, it is ok and you should not see it as a fault with yourself. Unfortunately it is the risk we take in asking somebody out. But you shouldn't let a rejection stop you from asking somebody out in the future. Remember, because one person doesn't return those feelings, it doesn't mean that everyone else is the same.

Sometimes they may answer with "I'll think about it". If that happens, don't try and prejudge what their answer will be and try not to get too paranoid about it all. The waiting game can be very annoying, but most likely your crush didn't see this coming, and they will need time to sort out their feelings. The worst thing you can do here is rush them into giving you an answer. Ideally, waiting for them to make the first move in giving you the answer is the way to go, but if its been an extended period of time since you asked them out, then it would be worth just casually asking them again. Remember, an "I'll think about it" means just that, so you need to be patient.

But if they will say "yes" then you will have a chance to at the very least, to get to know your crush a bit better. The best relationships start by being friends and getting to know each other. So take advantage of that, you never know where this will lead. Maybe you will find that you are better off just being friends? That might hurt a bit, but think of it in a positive way, at least you have a new friend to share good times with. But maybe you will find that you are both well suited together and you end up dating and sharing a meaningful relationship together. It's the happiness you have when you find someone to share a relationship with that makes this all worthwhile.

When it comes to the crunch, if you want to date somebody you have to ask. Sitting around looking at someone you like and hoping that it will come together nicely on your lap will not get you far in the love game. Take the chance, remember you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. You don't want to look back in the future regretting that you didn't get to know a certain person or asked them out. Remember, you have everything to gain by asking someone you like out including, maybe, love!

[Mzor203]

Nice Stephen. It's even capitalized! :D

[Gumleaf]

Nice Stephen. It's even capitalized! :D

when i originally typed it out it was in a word document which capitalised it for me, so a bit of cheating there. lol :P

[Michael94]

how do you ask someone out when you like them ???

[Michalalay]

haha yeah i heard it on the simpsons right but anyway.. haha

i go to this girl, serious face and everything right im like

"Sarah.. i think we need to call heaven"

shes like.. what?! why?!

so i look to my left and then look back at her right and again proper serious go

"I think an angel's gone missing"

upon which she slaps me round the face and walks off.....

phsstt

[Halibut]

Very well said!!!

[Scottishboy8]

I like this girl in my class but she likes my mate but he dos not like her :s
Can anyone help me?

[Luckz]

if you like someone go and if he/she does not like you then go away.........

[Stevo 69]

Nicely said! Great advice! but i got a bit of a problem, 2 days ago I asked out this girl who ive known for ages, we were texting for hours, then i asked her out (not the best way i know but it was the only way to ask her at that moment). She hasn't replyed in any way and it's really bugging me now and it's making me not sleep.

Does she not feel that way about me? Any advice would be awesome

[Gumleaf]

Nicely said! Great advice! but i got a bit of a problem, 2 days ago I asked out this girl who ive known for ages, we were texting for hours, then i asked her out (not the best way i know but it was the only way to ask her at that moment). She hasn't replyed in any way and it's really bugging me now and it's making me not sleep.

Does she not feel that way about me? Any advice would be awesome

well there could be any number of reasons why she hasn't replied. and even though she hasn't, don't necessarily jump to the conclusion that its because she wants to say no. i think the best thing you can do is go and talk to her in person, or at least talk on the phone. that way you will know what she is thinking and it will put your mind at ease.

[Stevo 69]

Right, she finally did reply! She said she had no credit on her phone so she couldnt reply, which I can understand. The bad news is she said no, but I can live with that it was just not knowing what she would say is what got to me.

She only said no because she enjoys being single and she said that it's not an overal no, she still might in the future!

Gumleaf, cheers for advice tho you helped me calm down

[ECGBUnni]

thanks for the reassurances, i wanna try to start something with this one guy and just reading this helped me calm down.

[Lifeguard18]

Thanks so much this can help me better

[ILOVEYOU]

I LOVE HER, i dont know how to start relationship, is it good to write "I Love You" on a Paper for her? :)

[Requin]

No. I think some girls will find that a little....what's the word??? 'Desperate'?
Nope I can't think of the right word. The best way to tell someone you love them is to the face.

[ILOVEYOU]

well, thanks :)

[Haru Taki]

No. I think some girls will find that a little....what's the word??? 'Desperate'?
Nope I can't think of the right word. The best way to tell someone you love them is to the face.

oooohhh...i didnt do that...i told her i loved her over myspace....lol xD....but she knew....are boys really this obvious???!!! or is it just me....:rolleyes:

[Ladysman]

Good advice;)

[Chase6242]

haha yeah i heard it on the simpsons right but anyway.. haha

i go to this girl, serious face and everything right im like

"Sarah.. i think we need to call heaven"

shes like.. what?! why?!

so i look to my left and then look back at her right and again proper serious go

"I think an angel's gone missing"

upon which she slaps me round the face and walks off.....

phsstt

hehe

[Faroz]

I want to ask this girl out but I need some like lines what should I say?

[lesher]

@Faroz : "like lines"? You mean, "what to say"? Or something else?

I've also got question. If I rarely meet this girl, and only can meet her only for few minutes, how am I supposed to say if I want to ask her out?

And also... I can't just ask her to be alone with me, right? It's gonna be awkward IMO

Btw, that girl didn't know that I liked her

[Faroz]

@Faroz : "like lines"? You mean, "what to say"? Or something else?

I've also got question. If I rarely meet this girl, and only can meet her only for few minutes, how am I supposed to say if I want to ask her out?

And also... I can't just ask her to be alone with me, right? It's gonna be awkward IMO

Btw, that girl didn't know that I liked her
Ya I cant just go to a girl and ask will you go out with me...
If I say something good and with style I would have a higher chance she would say yes.
And for you easy just find out what her last class is and go meet her after school but you should spend more time with her until she gets to know you more. Then she would at least know you when you ask her out

[lesher]

Well, you've just answered your question, no? If not, maybe you should just talk about normal things, so she isn't suspicious of you. After she's into you, ask her out nicely...

That's what exactly what I really want to do :wub:, but she always tends to hang out with her friends. When she's with them, I'm really not sure I can get closer to her...
I'm very shy after all >_<

[Faroz]

Well, you've just answered your question, no? If not, maybe you should just talk about normal things, so she isn't suspicious of you. After she's into you, ask her out nicely...

That's what exactly what I really want to do :wub:, but she always tends to hang out with her friends. When she's with them, I'm really not sure I can get closer to her...
I'm very shy after all >_<
ok.. what ever so like
-will you go out with me?
lol don't be shy ask her before she says yes to someone else my situation is different we have the last 2 classes together so she knows me

[lesher]

It depends on what she likes.
For example:
-Some girl like a brave, straightforward man who talks to the point. So, you should say "Do you want to have some coffee/tea/whatever with me?"
-Some girl like a man who flirt with her nicely first. Well, use your own imagination for this :)

So... I think it depends on how deep you know her...

Thanks, btw for your word! "don't be shy ask her before she says yes to someone else"

[Faroz]

It depends on what she likes.
For example:
-Some girl like a brave, straightforward man who talks to the point. So, you should say "Do you want to have some coffee/tea/whatever with me?"
-Some girl like a man who flirt with her nicely first. Well, use your own imagination for this :)

So... I think it depends on how deep you know her...

Thanks, btw for your word! "don't be shy ask her before she says yes to someone else"
Thanks lol
I think im going to take her to see fast and furious next weekend is she says yes

[lesher]

Good luck Faroz!! Support you!

[Jamesweb]

Tips for Asking Someone Out!


There are few things in life are as exciting as the prospect of a new relationship. It can be a scary thought sometimes while at the same time lifting your spirits and giving you a better look on life. While the initial attraction is rarely love, what it has is the promise of love to come and that can be very exciting. But the question that remains, and is what often frightens us the most, is how to move on from the initial attraction to the dating stage.

The answer is not simple. First you have to be ready to put your heart on the line by letting the other person know you are interested. There are different ways that you can let the other person know you are interested, whether it be in an obvious or subtle way. A good place to start is with some innocent flirting. It doesn't have to be anything major, maybe just complimenting them, and if your crush seems receptive and appears interested, then the next step is to ask him or her out.

Asking someone out can seem like a big deal, but really it doesn't have to be like that. It can be something simple like, "lets eat lunch together today" if you want to start off slowly. Or if you are feeling more confident or adventurous, you could try something more like, "do you want to see a movie with me on Saturday?" Once you have put your feelings out there in the open, you will soon know if the other person is interested as well.

If they say "no" it is pretty obvious that they aren't in to you the same way that you are in to them. Although this might be a bit disheartening and feels like a kick in the guts, it is ok and you should not see it as a fault with yourself. Unfortunately it is the risk we take in asking somebody out. But you shouldn't let a rejection stop you from asking somebody out in the future. Remember, because one person doesn't return those feelings, it doesn't mean that everyone else is the same.

Sometimes they may answer with "I'll think about it". If that happens, don't try and prejudge what their answer will be and try not to get too paranoid about it all. The waiting game can be very annoying, but most likely your crush didn't see this coming, and they will need time to sort out their feelings. The worst thing you can do here is rush them into giving you an answer. Ideally, waiting for them to make the first move in giving you the answer is the way to go, but if its been an extended period of time since you asked them out, then it would be worth just casually asking them again. Remember, an "I'll think about it" means just that, so you need to be patient.

But if they will say "yes" then you will have a chance to at the very least, to get to know your crush a bit better. The best relationships start by being friends and getting to know each other. So take advantage of that, you never know where this will lead. Maybe you will find that you are better off just being friends? That might hurt a bit, but think of it in a positive way, at least you have a new friend to share good times with. But maybe you will find that you are both well suited together and you end up dating and sharing a meaningful relationship together. It's the happiness you have when you find someone to share a relationship with that makes this all worthwhile.

When it comes to the crunch, if you want to date somebody you have to ask. Sitting around looking at someone you like and hoping that it will come together nicely on your lap will not get you far in the love game. Take the chance, remember you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. You don't want to look back in the future regretting that you didn't get to know a certain person or asked them out. Remember, you have everything to gain by asking someone you like out including, maybe, love!


During the dating experience, it is wise for a shy person to relax. In case you feel yourself becoming nervous, take a long and deep breath and then start pouring out your emotions. When people are shy for their entire lives, they are generally self confident regarding their shortcomings. It is a good dating strategy for shy guy not to worry much about expressing the views to other person as the latter is actually tensed about his or her looks, hair or dressing.
There are highly useful dating strategies for the shy guy on World Wide Web that can help to overcome the problem of shyness. As tough as it is for the shy people, it is imperative to make an eye contact while on a date

[sabotaged111]

Nice post, also very well presented:D

[The Joker]

I don't know, I like a girl. She and I are thirteen, our birthdays are 3 days apart. Now, we are both in Grade 7. Wouldn't I seem a little weird to be pouring out all my emotions at this age?

[lesher]

I don't know, I like a girl. She and I are thirteen, our birthdays are 3 days apart. Now, we are both in Grade 7. Wouldn't I seem a little weird to be pouring out all my emotions at this age?
Well... IMO, it really depend on yourself. If your mental is prepared enough, then it's okay! (although teenagers age 13 with mentally mature are very rare)
Oh, and some other my reason for not recommending you to pour out your emotion yet:
1. Are you prepared for anything, especially rejection?
2. If she knows your feeling, there is a chance that she will get confused because her feeling isn't developed (maybe, this is just my guessing...)
3. If she'll become your girlfriend, would you date her for years, waiting for the marriage? (In case that you both are very faithful to each other and never broke up)

But then again, if you insist, you can always talk your feeling to her :D. I know the surge of that feeling, trust me :)
And if you don't understand my writing, you can always PM me!!

[The Joker]

Yeah, number 2 was my worry, that she wouldn't be mentally mature to accept the feelings I have for her.

[lesher]

You're very sure about her mental maturity is worrisome?

[The Joker]

Well, I'm not sure at all. At times she acts very mature, at other times she doesn't.

[lesher]

That is surely confusing... I think you need to check on her closely... Watch and try to memorize the time when she is acting mature and "childish".... And her emotion too if you can.. Maybe you should open a new thread?

[NeoKitai]

Here's something for people who are in love with someone from their own nationality, but are from a different one than where you are. (For example: Portugese people in America. No offensive material.) Try telling them that you love them in your original country's language. That's how I'll try to get a GF. Results will be posted.

[Modus Operandi]

Great guide!!!!!

[zoom zoom]

well if u want to ask him or herouo i used a simple line. i find if u use a complex line u might lose them. so i used a simple one. My girlfriedn kept on saying we were best friends. so the day wheni asked her out i said " do u know how we are really good friends?" and she "yes?" theni said " well I was wondering if me and u could be more then good friends?" and yes she said yes. and that was on October 15th and we r still going strong

[lesher]

Hmm, asking out for lunch in my country is something that's not any average people would do except they're already in relationship... I think I need a different approach

Oh btw : Can you give some example about "innocent flirting", "normal flirting", and "heavy (or something like that) flirting"?

[Zeavix]

oooohhh...i didnt do that...i told her i loved her over myspace....lol xD....but she knew....are boys really this obvious???!!! or is it just me....:rolleyes:

we are very obvious as to girls they are hard to know

[FunnyHaHa]

asking someone out is always tricky...it is always safe to just ask if they are going to a party of event at school and tell them youll see them there...that way it wont be awkward

[tyler_52]

Just say it, "Do you want to go out with me?" if they say yes then score! and they most likely will since they would say yes because you had the guts to say the words... dont mumble the words dont say it quietly ... but dont say them loud, make sure you know them too, if you ask them out too soon thell say no for sure, i know this from a girl that told me... she said she liked him too but its was too soon and she didnt really know him..
Anyway, if they say no then you should keep a straight face and just say, okay.
AND HERES A BIG TIP ... GIRLS WANT WHAT THEY CANT HAVE!!

[FunnyHaHa]

yeahh thats a good point...girls definitely want anything that they aren't allowed to have right then lol

[rosa]

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[Mrred]

I really like this thread! Awesome!

Okay maybe I'm just weird but (too someone who wants "lines") I think the relationship probably won't be good nor succesful. Personally I wouldn't want to date a girl that I can't talk to and have aucquired conversations with if I had to rehearse what I was gonna say or remember topics to bring up. If you have to do this and you are happy with it then that's just you and good for ya. I look at alot of relationships of the more "popular" crowd At my school and they don't talk to eachother hardly ever and when they do it seems aucquired. I just wouldn't be happy like that. Just my opinion :)

[JasonClark]

Nicely said! Great advice! but i got a bit of a problem, 2 days ago I asked out this girl who ive known for ages, we were texting for hours, then i asked her out (not the best way i know but it was the only way to ask her at that moment). She hasn't replyed in any way and it's really bugging me now and it's making me not sleep.

Does she not feel that way about me? Any advice would be awesome

embarrassingly, i asked my girlfriend out in a similar fashion.
i was going to ask her out after school (as i hadnt seen her all day) but i lost my chance. so, like a fool i asked her on msn (in a lame/cute sort of way haha) anyways she had to think about it. so the next day, i simply asked if she had thought about. she had but didnt know yet. so the next day i asked her out again. she said yes.

so, try asking her out in person?

[Love.Hate]

i only get boyfriends that are players (go out with every1 for the sake of it) i feel like im not good enough for anyone else. my best friend is so pretty and always goes out with really fit boys but no one ever looks twice at me.
How do i get noticed... its so unfair why are some girls born really pretty....
and just to have a nag i have to say my frekles dont help :(

is it just me or does anyone else feel like this?

[ItsMyTime2009]

Right in our area people ask people out if they think someone likes someone. However the person i fancy says no to everyone else but im almost sure they like me can anyone help!

[Tommie]

Never do a "line" to ask a girl out. they just sound cheesy,
My best bet would be to spend some time with her/him then when you think the time is right, put your feelings on the line and say how you feel and ask them out. it can only go two ways

[Shipley]

What's the best way to ask out a girl that you realy like and what is the most efective way to ask her out

[Iamthe dark lord]

yea i need help im a smart guy but im sorounded by stuped people :( so knowone understands me im also heavley bulleyd and hated probley coz i m a weird kind of person im a goth gamer and i know people who wont even talk to me so its very hard to get a date (ive never had a date or gf)and have been rejected by every one ive ever liked hell ive even been kicked in the gut insted of a simpul no has evey body got eney thing that can help me

[Jess]

I rather have someone ask me out.

[Nelson]

Great work :) thanks

[HillBillyWilly]

What's the best way to ask out a girl that you realy like and what is the most efective way to ask her out


Well when i asked my girlfriend out i had already known her for a long time (a great way to start off) Then I started to walk next to her in the hallway, making sure no one else could hear me, and I simply said: Hey, would you like to go out with me? She said yes and afterwords I realized that even though I found myself shaking before, it wasnt that hard to do.

So i guess the best way to do it is to ask them alone and pop the question. :yummy:

[PuppetPrince]

LOL , Well i knew the girl i wanted to go out with would say yes. But i did one just randomly after the movie ended. Not one of my best . But it was a yes. Anyways I would just reccommend to say it freely . Maybe using a stuff animal and put a note inside ? Just be creative and always be yourself i guess.

[swj90]

don't be a wuss and just be yourself. being genuine means much more than acting like something else to impress someone speaking from personal experience

[trina]

Tips for Asking Someone Out!


There are few things in life are as exciting as the prospect of a new relationship. It can be a scary thought sometimes while at the same time lifting your spirits and giving you a better look on life. While the initial attraction is rarely love, what it has is the promise of love to come and that can be very exciting. But the question that remains, and is what often frightens us the most, is how to move on from the initial attraction to the dating stage.

The answer is not simple. First you have to be ready to put your heart on the line by letting the other person know you are interested. There are different ways that you can let the other person know you are interested, whether it be in an obvious or subtle way. A good place to start is with some innocent flirting. It doesn't have to be anything major, maybe just complimenting them, and if your crush seems receptive and appears interested, then the next step is to ask him or her out.

Asking someone out can seem like a big deal, but really it doesn't have to be like that. It can be something simple like, "lets eat lunch together today" if you want to start off slowly. Or if you are feeling more confident or adventurous, you could try something more like, "do you want to see a movie with me on Saturday?" Once you have put your feelings out there in the open, you will soon know if the other person is interested as well.

If they say "no" it is pretty obvious that they aren't in to you the same way that you are in to them. Although this might be a bit disheartening and feels like a kick in the guts, it is ok and you should not see it as a fault with yourself. Unfortunately it is the risk we take in asking somebody out. But you shouldn't let a rejection stop you from asking somebody out in the future. Remember, because one person doesn't return those feelings, it doesn't mean that everyone else is the same.

Sometimes they may answer with "I'll think about it". If that happens, don't try and prejudge what their answer will be and try not to get too paranoid about it all. The waiting game can be very annoying, but most likely your crush didn't see this coming, and they will need time to sort out their feelings. The worst thing you can do here is rush them into giving you an answer. Ideally, waiting for them to make the first move in giving you the answer is the way to go, but if its been an extended period of time since you asked them out, then it would be worth just casually asking them again. Remember, an "I'll think about it" means just that, so you need to be patient.

But if they will say "yes" then you will have a chance to at the very least, to get to know your crush a bit better. The best relationships start by being friends and getting to know each other. So take advantage of that, you never know where this will lead. Maybe you will find that you are better off just being friends? That might hurt a bit, but think of it in a positive way, at least you have a new friend to share good times with. But maybe you will find that you are both well suited together and you end up dating and sharing a meaningful relationship together. It's the happiness you have when you find someone to share a relationship with that makes this all worthwhile.

When it comes to the crunch, if you want to date somebody you have to ask. Sitting around looking at someone you like and hoping that it will come together nicely on your lap will not get you far in the love game. Take the chance, remember you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. You don't want to look back in the future regretting that you didn't get to know a certain person or asked them out. Remember, you have everything to gain by asking someone you like out including, maybe, love!


Dating (http://www.sixsingles.com/) is really an art... it takes skills and practice. But even if you've mastered the art, you still have to work on it to have a lasting and happy relationship

[lagiacrus]

yea i need help im a smart guy but im sorounded by stuped people :( so knowone understands me im also heavley bulleyd and hated probley coz i m a weird kind of person im a goth gamer and i know people who wont even talk to me so its very hard to get a date (ive never had a date or gf)and have been rejected by every one ive ever liked hell ive even been kicked in the gut insted of a simpul no has evey body got eney thing that can help me

I am the same as you. Smart, Surrounded with dumbs, lightly bullied, kindof hated because i am wierd, gamer (not goth).

Just be yourself. Find a girl with simmular interests.

[Trackstar29]

Good guide.

[xRAPiiDG4MERx]

I want to ask this girl out but I need some like lines what should I say?

if i was you, i would give her some compliments, if you get some in return, she likes you, or is just being polite, if not, she is playing 'hard to get' which sucks for guys, but shows the girl how far the guy will go for her, or she doesnt like you. and just try to find some common interests, there will be some and talk about them, but dont drag it on. ask her about herself, what she does in her spare time, and then say, wanna hang out some time. good luck guys and girls

[Dan_UK]

Here's one for y'all

There's a girl I'm reasonably good friends with, and I have pretty strong feelings about her, to me she is pretty much the perfect girl, I couldn't think of one negative about her, she's has similar interests to me, such as in music, and is very friendly and nice so even if I was shot down she wouldn't be too harsh about it

However:

1) she's 3 years older than me
2)I can't just ask her out because she generally doesn't like going for the normal "dating" thing
3)She's been with someone fairly recently who everyone knows to be a complete dick, although when asked a day or 2 ago she said she isn't with him
4)She's moving about an hours distance away in september

Tips?

[Haydzzz]

If i wanna ask someone out i kinda just try and become really close freinds with them and if they dont try and become closer with me i dont ask em out.

[shellyagal]

"Love is in the air, everywhere I look around, Love is in the air, every sight and every sound." Try out if the other person loves you the same way as you do. You can send an anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter Search. Your identity will only be disclosed if your crush feels the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box- crush:your email: email of crush 1 : email of crush 2 : email of crush 3 then click Enter. Let the magic of love begin.

[steve1234]

"Love is in the air, everywhere I look around, Love is in the air, every sight and every sound." Try out if the other person loves you the same way as you do. You can send an anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter Search. Your identity will only be disclosed if your crush feels the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box- crush:your email: email of crush 1 : email of crush 2 : email of crush 3 then click Enter. Let the magic of love begin.

Trouble with that is, wouldn't they pretend they like you back just so they can see who it is? I know I would be very tempted. :D

[Jennifer's Ashes]

I LOVE HER, i dont know how to start relationship, is it good to write "I Love You" on a Paper for her? :)

Honestly this is a little late.. But being a girl (and also a hopeless romantic) I would find that to be the sweetest, most sensitive, romantic thing a guy could say. You probably already asked her out but just for advice to others...

[Mutantslayr]

I find it a whole lot easier if I just ask them

[calvin123]

thanks it seems very useful hope it works for a moment I'd forgotten how to go about it as I was away from the dating game a while.

[lindsay_summer]

I don't know about other girls, but if someone wants to ask me out he has to be more clever than "maybe we should hook up". I had my fair share of drooling idiots and it's enough. When you're in high school, it's ok, but now I really think that I've matured and I'm looking for something a little more sophisticated in my personal life.

Like, there's this guy I met on a student video site, matchvenue.com (http://www.matchvenue.com/) and we've been talking for two weeks already. He's really smart and yesterday he asked me out in a very cool way. He asked me out while playing his guitar in front of his webcam. How can you say no to that? Oh and he's really handsome.

[dormiles]

First of all, i wanted to say hi to all the forums users.
As a very shy person myself, i hate to ask someone out directly, it's simply killing me if i hear negative answer.
I usually just use some sweet Facebook apps, like Forever Friends (of which i'm big fan, feel free to join our Forever Friends Cute Bears facebook page).
Just check it out on FB, saved me a lot of nerves when asking people out ;)

EDIT: typos ;)

[Kakka123]

good advice :)

[The Cali Kidd]

Idk sorrry

[The Cali Kidd]

I would just say don't do it

[Costanza]

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[Punannannan]

What you should do is find something that you have in common and discuss that.
Also don't approach her with your friends around you or she might seem intimidated.
On the other hand try not to approach her when she is with her friends or when she seems busy. Make sure you look at her face, but don't stare. Try and keep your voice calm, and make sure your body language gives the impression that you are open to discussion. Finally try not to move to fast, this could establish a relationship quickly but it might not work out in the long run.
Maybe you could say something like : Hey, I (insert topic here. for example music that she likes.)If you aren't busy, maybe sometime we could (see a concert, movie?)
It sounds like you are kind of shy, but most girls seem to like a little bit of that in a guy.
It shows that you take the date seriously, but you are not so shy that you won't be able to communicate effectively.

[UnknownError]

I asked my last ex out over msn. :L
And we broke up over facebook. :P

[danstheman24]

Great advice ther!! :D (on the very first page) I only recently started going out with this lovely guy whom I like alot! He's gay and I'm BI.

How we ended up going out/in a relationship over MSN Live was kida funny lol
We're meeting each other on Thursday and i said to him as I was going over the arrangements again... "And you going to see me Thursday of course" I thought and then I said "Ahh SEE ME dont sound right!" He said "Well it could be right if you want ;) I'm lonely these days and I want a bf and I like you" at that point I said YES, so now we're out :D

Cheers,
Dan.

[jack straw]

Well... so. Theres this girl. and lately everytime I think about her its just... Well I'm sure yall know the feeling. But every single time we see eachother, I always manage to make an ass of myself in some way. I know for a fact that she thinks I'm a bit of a crazy guy, when it really couldnt be anything further from the truth. When I get nervous, my natural defense is stupidity. How can I get her to see a different side of me? Its rare that we see eachother, our families are friends but shes a year older than me (Freshman In college, I'm a high school senior) and even though I see her family alot shes only there at the most inopportune times.

[pinball002]

Nicely said! Great advice! but i got a bit of a problem, 2 days ago I asked out this girl who ive known for ages, we were texting for hours, then i asked her out (not the best way i know but it was the only way to ask her at that moment). She hasn't replyed in any way and it's really bugging me now and it's making me not sleep.

Does she not feel that way about me? Any advice would be awesome

dude dont worry about it. she is probably still deciding.

[theoburray]

Sometimes they say "yes" yet this eventually turns into a "no" because of a lack of commitment to said date. Happened to me :(

I think girls judge way too harshly on how a guy asks them out and thinking 'if he does it this way' then he obviously isn't a good fit, it's easy for them 99% of the time they are the ones being asked out. I'd love to see a shift in the world and somehow girls are the ones asking guys out instead, then they'd know how it feels.

I'm just saying generally by the way. When I asked this particular girl out I know I was confident and even though I had nerves in me, I didn't let them out during the conversation (bascially done this by keeping the conversation flowing and not letting it stop)

[Steven.Lockman]

Great Tips.
I hope that it will be help me.
I will try this tips in my life.
Go ahead...

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[John-_-]

Lol, The way my first (And last) Relationship started was after we went to the cinema, we talked over msn and she said, You like me don't you?, SO i was like, Yeah >.>, And she was like, I knew it! i like you too, So i asked her the question then we started dating. >.< Lmao. :)

[Riser]

You explained well.

[joshuarose_69]

wat if shes someone u dont know and probably out of ur leuage?

[joshuarose_69]

wat if shes out of ur leage and a stranger

[RCT109]

dont use any lines
ask her to linch and ask her there while being ur self
and it wouldnt hurt to play for the meal

[Dobby248]

Right, she finally did reply! She said she had no credit on her phone so she couldnt reply, which I can understand. The bad news is she said no, but I can live with that it was just not knowing what she would say is what got to me.

She only said no because she enjoys being single and she said that it's not an overal no, she still might in the future!

Gumleaf, cheers for advice tho you helped me calm down

Dude, if she says "no" that just means that she isn't your type. It's ok I bet we have all had someone say no to us before. If she says no then there's got to be another girl out there for you. This is a life lesson, if they don't like you back then forget about them, (or just put them in the back of your mind)and go find the girl that's right for you!

[Dobby248]

In November I liked this girl that was a "popular" (first let me give you some back round info, I have a lot of friends but am considered a "middle class guy") so before thanks giving break I decide to ask her out, (we have an event called the the turkey trot, grade levels 3-6 or maybe it's 4-6 I forget can participate, its a mile, four laps around our field) right before it started I asked her out. (I know bold move right) so since I'm considered a "middle class guy" she said "no" (I think she didn't like me a lot either) so I was mad at my self and got all frustrated, (I think it helped me run faster and better cause I wanted to get out all the anger.) and that night I looked back at how I had reacted and I felt stupid. So that night I got over her. And now I like another girl, but I'm not sure if she likes me.

P.S. I'll use your tips to see if she likes me or not.

[kai99]

being romantic with him (her) is a great step already

[makememoo]

I'm very shy and like to ask people out online a lot. Flirting online anonymously is great to get things going and make me more comfortable.

[TaNei]

Do not think, execute lol

[corey5289]

i just ask a girl out like u whanna go to the movies (watevr day) once u do it ur first time its pretty easy

[LaxinBros]

would asking a girl out to homecoming be too "adventerous. i should just ask her if she wants to go together to homecoming or ask her out normally then if she says yes, ask her to homecoming?

[CuriousO_oDude]

would asking a girl out to homecoming be too "adventerous. i should just ask her if she wants to go together to homecoming or ask her out normally then if she says yes, ask her to homecoming?

I think you should ask her out before homecoming->> to see if she really is your type:)

If all goes well, you can then ask her to homecoming; if things didn't turn out the way you hoped, at least you found out before the dance, which could have been embarrassing:)

[Hajara22]

if youlike someone just ask. worst they can do is say no... yes its devistating but it happens its part of life...

[Zarakly]

I KNOW ONE



Are you a speeding ticket because you have fine written all over you

:D

[josh cassano]

ask her out no questions asked

[Levy]

Be all demanding.

[zombicupcake]

Don't overdo it ( as in don't make everything look overly dramatic) and MAKE SURE you are confident (:

[SirLancer]

would the girl change her mind if u get a friend to do it for u

[rockNroll]

would the girl change her mind if u get a friend to do it for u

Don't have a friend do it. I repeat, DO NOT have a friend ask someone out for you. That shows that you can't speak for yourself.

[Blake13]

I am don't go to same school but will in high school. Any suggesions

[Drew007]

There's this girl at school that I like and I want to ask her out any ideas?

[Clevdawg]

There's this girl at school that I like and I want to ask her out any ideas?

Ask and see if she want to get something to eat after school sometime and if you and her enjoy it, pop the question

[the_man_jake]

So earlier this week i asked my friend to a dance coming up next week (their a girl) and she said she's not going... what do i do?? Should i ask her onto a date?

[BaronessJamison]

direct is best

[Devonb97]

Be blunt about it, go for it! :D

[Miss_rachel97]

How do you know if someone likes you??

[sweet heart]

i like a dude and he likes me but i dont know if i should ask him out because my mom dont like him what should i do

[SydRoosters]

Cheers for the advice, Stephen :cool:

[FreeFall]

i like a dude and he likes me but i dont know if i should ask him out because my mom dont like him what should i do
First, is there a reason she dislikes this guy? Is he sort of a bad character? In trouble a lot and just does bad things? If he's a bad person, listen to your mom.
If he's a great fellow and your mom just doesn't like him for any reason, you're the one that will be dating him not your mom. But remember to respect your mom, or your first date with him could be your last date for a good while.
Second, only you really get to decided who you call your boyfriend as long as the guy says so too.

[dyliwilli123]

just be yourself!

[bigbrapp]

The way I see it, if you like someone, just GO FOR IT! The worst that could happen is she/he says no.

[Elcofan]

So I want a girlfriend but I don't no if anybody likes me back

[Elcofan]

Is it weird if Im afraid to tell my parents

[dechuss]

There is a girl that i like that i go to school with and i don't know how to ask her out or what to say. It is made more difficult by the fact that I know that she likes my best friend but I know that he does not like her. Should I just ask her out or should I tell her that I like her, and what do I say.
Thanks in advance Dechuss

[Nathan Numberless]

Don't say 'U W4NN4 G0 0U7' Be more specific. First start conversation. About her intrests. Compliment her. Make her laugh. 'hey, I really like spending time with you, you wanna go for a walk / movie / to the dance / in my bed [joking].

[Elcofan]

I'm afraid to let my friends no who im dating lots of people don't like her but she is cool

[AussieWog97]

There's this girl I really like and she knows that I like her but I don't know what to do. I am not really built so I don't know if she'd want to. Should I ask her out? And even if I do no one ever does anything when they are going out when you are my age. Advice/ ideas would be appreciated!

[braydon123]

There's this girl I really like and she knows that I like her but I don't know what to do. I am not really built so I don't know if she'd want to. Should I ask her out? And even if I do no one ever does anything when they are going out when you are my age. Advice/ ideas would be appreciated!

I say you should ask her out because worst case scenario is that you are just in the same position now (if that makes sense).

[MrJoel]

Still scared to ask out this girl i like

[Jakejjj]

Nice Stephen nd just don't be afraid if you like them ask them out

[stoner13]

i feel so lonely i can't gf i don't ask ppl out but idk i feel so alone all i want is a gf to cuddle with n stuff

[clueless_one]

Wow, really helpful.

[NUGGETMAN1]

I want to ask this girl out but I need some like lines what should I say?

Just talk to her when she is alone, and say something liike: "Hey, I just wanted to talk to you. I don't really know what to say, so here goes. Would you like to go out with me?"
Girls like that stuff, just be honest and don't try to sugar coat it.

[NUGGETMAN1]

I want to know, how long does the waiting game usually last? I asked a girl out two days ago, and she said she didn't know whatto do. what does that even mean?

[ethan 27]

very good advice!

[Reanne]

You have to remember anyone getting asked out will feel flattered. Imagine if someone asked you out... it would feel good knowing that someone wants to be with you.

So remember asking someone out is making them feel good, so make someone feel good next time you want to ask someone out ;)

That said... there are no guarantees that they will say yes or that they like you enough to go out, but if you don't ask, you will never know and could regret it later in life.

The secret is to be confident... I know a lot of people think they don't have confidence in themselves, but they need to treat it like asking their grandparent a question... like it's no big deal. The reality is they will say one of three things... Yes, No or Maybe.

If you can ask with a smile and have the thought like I don't care what they say... you will have your best chance.

The good thing to know is that if they do say yes, they think your ok and those who say No... obviously don't have as good a taste in people as you thought... so either way you win and find out what they are really like. :)

[Albino Nega]

Watch Saved By The Bell, any scene with Zack Morris/AC Slater and a girl..... use their lines! They work!

[Jean Poutine]

And tips for the date :

1- be cool
2- touch her
3- look her in the eyes

100% works guaranteed.

[xyzB4D-W0LF]

My problem is having too much content to share I guess. I have hundreds of songs, a bunch of pictures, too many to hear in even 2 days from sleep 2 sleep (over 20 hours of music) too many pix to share (overload flickr every day) too loud or too long winded, my hair's too long (but screw that that's my appearance)

I just have problems with people understanding me, cause I'm too advanced one way and too little inexperienced the other way, and I have adhd so it's always too much this that anyways, and when I leave out my hyperness, and I take my meds, I'm too not-me
(and I guess that's enough for you to base a reply off of.)

[Distinctlatte]

How do u know if a girl likes you?????

[chezhans]

haha yeah i heard it on the simpsons right but anyway.. haha

i go to this girl, serious face and everything right im like

"Sarah.. i think we need to call heaven"

shes like.. what?! why?!

so i look to my left and then look back at her right and again proper serious go

"I think an angel's gone missing"

upon which she slaps me round the face and walks off.....

phsstt

That is equally the most hilarious but the worst thing that can happen to ANYBODY! I should know that...happened to me four times (not lying)

[CyrustheGreat]

i have a bit of a dilemma; there is this girl in my class that i like, and i also like her friend, so it would be awkward to ask one out then the other right?
What should i do?!?

[uaebabes121]

Grow some
Manage your approach.
Get to know her a little first
Tailor your request to the situation
Be strong, brave and coherent
Be specific.
Divide and conquer
Be realistic

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[Sethm]

This helped!

[PorkyMan8]

I read this to late... :( but my qustion can still help me. how do you get a girl to not think your not disgusting and weird when you haven't been in 2 years (in public).

[PorkyMan8]

You have to remember anyone getting asked out will feel flattered. Imagine if someone asked you out... it would feel good knowing that someone wants to be with you.

So remember asking someone out is making them feel good, so make someone feel good next time you want to ask someone out ;)

That said... there are no guarantees that they will say yes or that they like you enough to go out, but if you don't ask, you will never know and could regret it later in life.

The secret is to be confident... I know a lot of people think they don't have confidence in themselves, but they need to treat it like asking their grandparent a question... like it's no big deal. The reality is they will say one of three things... Yes, No or Maybe.

If you can ask with a smile and have the thought like I don't care what they say... you will have your best chance.

The good thing to know is that if they do say yes, they think your ok and those who say No... obviously don't have as good a taste in people as you thought... so either way you win and find out what they are really like. :)

Surprisingly true. I got asked out once, and I felt like Wow! everyone doesen't hate me! I still said no.

[RyanCrest]

i have a bit of a dilemma; there is this girl in my class that i like, and i also like her friend, so it would be awkward to ask one out then the other right?
What should i do?!?

Ask the one you think is most likely to say yes

[jak926]

How do u know if a girl likes you?????

If we knew, we wouldn't be having this conversation.

[ogsteez]

nice..

[teen.jpg]

Ahaha that's funny. Nobody wants to date me! :D

[TheLivingLie]

hey, in year 6 (grade 5?) i asked out a girl and she said yes, we went to the movies and stuff. then i went to secondary school (high school?) and she went to another, we stayed in touch and now im in year 9 (in 2 days) (grade 8?) nad i realised that we have done a lot of stuff together, but a number of times she has gone, is this a date? and i go, kinda, lets call it a get together, and she agrees with me. i never dumped her and she never dumped me, so are we still going out???

[Slippers]

That's nice advice, and true of course. I just wish I could conquer my sheer anxiety when asking out a girl. I've never had a proper girlfriend before as a consequence of my pathetic attitude. I've kissed girls before when they have demonstrated interest but geez it's really hard and sometimes lonely as well.

[HBtheKing]

mr enemyzone here........... need to change evry1 impression about me

[WeAreOneRepublic]

I feel that this could have more information...

[user_of_epicness]

gosh it is so hard, thinking about what might happen if it doesn't go the right way Does anyone have any tips of what to say? have chat open in another window w/ her. Is chat a bad way to ask someone out? :confused:

[jcs5943]

just be yourself, personally i would prefer someone to ask face to face it shows that they are committed, but if it doesn't go the right way its not meant to be maybe in time things will change

[equestrian]

No doesn't always mean they're not into you. Sometimes they are just scared, not ready to be in a relationship, or their parents won't let them (especially in middle school and grades 9+10).


Make sure the other person is comfortable. It can be just as awkward being asked out as it is asking someone out.

[othees]

Just ask to do stuff and see what happens

[MaryLee]

Those are pretty good tips

[RavleIncarnate]

Wow... If only I discovered this site sooner... Now I'm sad.

[amkirby10]

It's always the approach, man... Just even starting to talk to a girl is the hardest part, at least for me.

How do I confidence? :what:

[heyitshay]

haha yeah i heard it on the simpsons right but anyway.. haha

i go to this girl, serious face and everything right im like

"Sarah.. i think we need to call heaven"

shes like.. what?! why?!

so i look to my left and then look back at her right and again proper serious go

"I think an angel's gone missing"

upon which she slaps me round the face and walks off.....

phsstt

Nice love cx

[mctrader07]

Ok, so you asked her out and now no response. This is what you do. Text her about other topics like what happen in school. play it cool act like it never happened. She will come around an talk to you about the different topics and it smooths over. What is good is she knows you like her in the back of her mind. Dont bring it up again she will come around.\\
Let me know

[Shailene]

Depends if she knows you well already or not - hate to say it but if you've already been relegated to the friend zone, probably not going to happen. Guys in general, don't wait forever to make a move. Girls like a nice guy but not one who lacks confidence. In a nutshell, be honest, flirty (not inappropriate) and confident.

[Cjk_20]

This is very useful! thanks!

[Bumblebee]

Hey, did you fart? 'Cause you're blowin' me away.
No seriously though, I would say, "Since I met you, I liked you a lot, and those feelings turned into the fuel that keeps me going in life, so I would be honored and blessed, if you would go on a date with me." Now, if you LOVE her, or feel slightly different, then you can substitute the words in YELLOW, if not, you can say that exactly. Although I've never asked anybody out, I have two older sisters who said that would work 90% of the time. So, if you say what I shared, PM me with how it went, Good Luck!

[Dwemer]

thanks for the tips :)

[Hermes96]

if you like some one and can see a future longer than 6 months go for it

[hockeyboy18]

be yourself, most important

[Syeuenevhuwi]

Always ask someone out face to face or you're pretty much asking for rejection

[Dat_cool_dude]

hey, in year 6 (grade 5?) i asked out a girl and she said yes, we went to the movies and stuff. then i went to secondary school (high school?) and she went to another, we stayed in touch and now im in year 9 (in 2 days) (grade 8?) nad i realised that we have done a lot of stuff together, but a number of times she has gone, is this a date? and i go, kinda, lets call it a get together, and she agrees with me. i never dumped her and she never dumped me, so are we still going out???

That's going out bro.

I have a crush on one girl in my classes who is my friend that I like. We often mess with each other like if she gets close to me in line or something I'll go ewww cooties as a joke and she does too. But here's the twist: One of my good friends at the school also likes her. I'm afraid that if I ask her out my friend will be mad. What do I do!?!?!

Posts merged. ~Elysium

[TheLivingLie]

Thx everyone, but answering the Q above, I'm in that situation too, but my friend is a lot closer to the girl I like but I'm actually cool with it, cause she is out of my league, but in your case u should either talk to your friend generally and if he is cool about go ahead, but if u don't ask, u can pretend he didn't know

[ninja789]

for any guy
most of this stuff would work on me :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wV2KC50rui0

[charmynyankawaii]

I like this girl in my class but she likes my mate but he dos not like her :s
Can anyone help me?

That's complicated what about you try just telling her straight out and then telling her "It's okay even if you don't like me but please consider going out with me for a month. I'll try to make you like me during that time!" If she doesn't like you after that month then it's best to (sob sob) find someone else. If a guy told me that then I would fall straight for him if he's also a Chopinist lol!

[emilyly]

how do you ask someone out when you like them ???

I faced same problem sometime ago (I'm girl!!!). Anyway, I decided to try. I asked my mum first if it's ok for a girl to ask somebody out. She said that I can try and pretend it's kind of friends' meeting. She even told me to look for some guides for teenagers. I kept an eye contact, then tried to get in touch and when I saw it's a right time I said I must go for a walk with dog but it's so dark and I'm afraid and I need a bodyguard, so he said he will go with me :D I think you must be funny to ask somebody out :yes: I found some guide for you, look here http://howikis.com/Ask_Someone_for_a_Date . Maybe it will help you :yes:

[jenjenjordi]

Hey everyone, I'm new here and I have a crush on a girl and I don't know what to do.
I've labelled the details in this thread www virtualteen org/forums/showthread.php?t=206814

[cunny7]

Well i don't have a problem being a lesbian girl, But i do when it comes to fancying a girl in class and knowing she is not gay like me or even how to approach girls in the first place i don't know were to start or even what to say?

[fitnessfun]

Good advice. Thank you!

[johny1996]

I would like to share my opinion also..

- Establish a relationship. But don't overdo it, like thinking about a friend-with-benefits relationship.
- Compliment her. Use your brain. You can compliment her on something you truly like about her.
- Start a ball game. No, not literally! Be a little far away and look at her, admire her.
- Chat with her. Ask her if she has any pets and find out some interesting things. Make sure she knows you inside out as well.
- Just be yourself. If you try to be someone else and if there is some leak or you get busted, you will probably make her feel like you are fake.
- Move in closer. Look into her eyes, look lost in her world for a second.
- Ask. When the time comes to ask her out, wait for the opportune moment. Trust your instincts; they will tell you when the time is right.
- Be confident, but not cocky. The difference is there, and very noticeable for girls.
- Be perceptive. If you see any facial expressions, like an eye raise, make sure you say, "it's okay if you say no."
- If she says no. Just back off for awhile, leave her to cool down, but don't give up hope completely. Some girls like it if you try again.
- If she says "I'll think about it", it's not a good sign, although she could just be nervous, or caught up in the moment, and she's being careful not to make a stupid mistake. Don't bug her about it, let it go a few days - if she doesn't bring it up again, it's a no.
- Don't ask her out as a dare or as a joke. This can really hurt a girl's feelings. Be sure that you are doing it because you want to, if you don't you could really become known as a jerk.
- This is the most important rule. Always remember to make a good impression on her when you ask her out.

[chess123]

I have a small problem well I've been thinking about asking one of my closest female friends out except I work all the time and so does she. But here is how I was thinking about doing it
1) I would ask her to join me to a movie just as friends and if she accepts
2) tell her I will pick her up
3) once I have picked her up ask her what movie she would like to see and on our way to the theater just talk about every which thing. [ we would be able to have a decent conversation the closest theater is 45minutes away.]
4) and in the middle of our conversation bring up the fact that we are both single and we have known one and other a long time. And then mention that I have had feelings for her for a while.
5) and then I would as her if she would like to be my girlfriend and if she says yes just spend our time at the movie like any other new couple and if not spent it like two friends.

How do you think she would like it. And would some of you girls on here like it if some on did that for you.

[Kalashnikov95]

I want to ask this girl out but I need some like lines what should I say?

"Damn girl, is it just me or does this cheesy pickup line really stink?"

"Will you be the Japan to my Godzilla?"

"Come dance with me and let us fall into the pit of debauchery!" (+1 for rhyming)

[Kalashnikov95]

I have a small problem well I've been thinking about asking one of my closest female friends out except I work all the time and so does she. But here is how I was thinking about doing it
1) I would ask her to join me to a movie just as friends and if she accepts
2) tell her I will pick her up
3) once I have picked her up ask her what movie she would like to see and on our way to the theater just talk about every which thing. [ we would be able to have a decent conversation the closest theater is 45minutes away.]
4) and in the middle of our conversation bring up the fact that we are both single and we have known one and other a long time. And then mention that I have had feelings for her for a while.
5) and then I would as her if she would like to be my girlfriend and if she says yes just spend our time at the movie like any other new couple and if not spent it like two friends.

How do you think she would like it. And would some of you girls on here like it if some on did that for you.

I don't think asking her out while in the car on the way to the movies is a good idea. She might get freaked out and assume that you'll rage if she says no, and being enclosed in a car with you, she may be afraid to convey her true feelings toward you. Also, it would be kind of hard for me to watch a movie with someone who rejected me 30min ago

[mitchgreen26]

Thanks for the useful tips! A lot of men blame lack of dating success on looks, money, power or popularity but the truth is you can learn how to talk to a woman. Apparently, talking to a woman shouldn't be hard. Since they make up about half the population, you should be conversant. Here are some situations, as well as ways to speak with women (http://personalmoneynetwork.com/moneyblog/2013/02/06/how-to-talk-to-a-woman/) confidently and charm.

[philliplukas]

has anyone else noticed that by asking a girl out you are giving her the power to make or break you but society has already made it the normal for the guy to make the first move so girls always have the upper hand in relationships

[Uranus]

Great advice!!

[DeadPoteto]

Well put :)

[gads]

This is excellent advice.

[maniamsmart]

I've actually linked this to one of my friends, and they found it really helpful, so thanks.

[amgb]

I've never asked a guy out so this will definitely be good advice:)

[tret123]

Sometimes you have to be a man and go head first

[rex103]

The way my friend did it was find a time when you will be in the same place, preferably something on a regular basis such as a class or an extracurricular activity, then start conversation. She is probably more likely to say yes if you already know eachother and are kind of friends. When you're ready just casually ask if she wants to go somewhere with you.

[hitman73]

I just do it without thinking first.

[Charles Appiah]

what she says she likes you like a brother

[ally-mai]

what she says she likes you like a brother then don't make a big deal about it but let her know that if she changes her mind...
(But not in a cocky way).

[Karson]

I just ask. I've never used any line because they're all corny. And it's never the line anyway. If a girl doesn't like no line will work and you'll look like a dork for using it.

I just say hi and make some miner small talk, and then ask if they'd like to go to the mall or movies or the latest dance or whatever.

[CLS02]

You and some of the guys in here are silly. You are making this way harder than it REALLY IS. I have never been on a real date (yet), but maybe that time is not too far away for me.

What would impress me the most, and it would be like super nice to keep things simple and very clear, is if the guy would just ask me to go for a burger or pizza, then maybe a movie. EVEN if his parents had to drive us and all that.

I'm serious. If the guy is clean, nice to me, and doesn't fall over his own shadow, then I will say yes. Of course. Going on a date does not mean going steady. Right?? So don't make it a major big deal.

I won't care if his family has money or not, and I won't care if he isn't super popular. But I don't want him to stink or be dirty. I want him to treat me nicely and not get me in trouble. And I want him to smile and actually TALK to me.

[ethan-s]

So, how does one flirt with a girl? How to get started? Some good questions to ask?

[gemma 2000]

Just ask

[ProudThread598]

I'm in a little predicament. I'm in 7th grade, and like this girl in 8th grade. I'm pretty sure she likes me back, and I've already told her that I like her. Multiple friends say that she can't decide if she likes me as a friend or a crush. What do I do?

[lemondrop]

I'm in a little predicament. I'm in 7th grade, and like this girl in 8th grade. I'm pretty sure she likes me back, and I've already told her that I like her. Multiple friends say that she can't decide if she likes me as a friend or a crush. What do I do?

ask her out :)

[ProudThread598]

ask her out :)

How should I do it? My parents think dating in middle school is a waste of time. It's true, but I've liked quite a few girls in my life, but she's different.

[lemondrop]

How should I do it? My parents think dating in middle school is a waste of time. It's true, but I've liked quite a few girls in my life, but she's different.

just have a nice conversation with her and ask her if she likes you and if she says: YES. Then tell her that u feel the same and invite her to a cinema or somewhere to hangout use your imagination ^.^ show her some cool places

[ProudThread598]

just have a nice conversation with her and ask her if she likes you and if she says: YES. Then tell her that u feel the same and invite her to a cinema or somewhere to hangout use your imagination ^.^ show her some cool places

I have super overprotective parents, and I can't go anywhere

[lemondrop]

I have super overprotective parents, and I can't go anywhere

settle down with them and tell how do you feel and etc. Explain them that you really like her and etc. Or just...invite her to your house and introduce to your parents? So they maybe will feel more confident about the person that you like/dating ;)

[ProudThread598]

settle down with them and tell how do you feel and etc. Explain them that you really like her and etc. Or just...invite her to your house and introduce to your parents? So they maybe will feel more confident about the person that you like/dating ;)

Well, I got rejected:(

[lemondrop]

Well, I got rejected:(

sometimes this might happen also , next time you'll succeed

[Drew Alex]

I still get pretty nervous asking a girl out for the first time. After the first date it gets easier.

[Tim987]

Thanks for the advice

[ThomasD]

Say hi, introduce yourself. If she didn't want to take you'll soon find out. If so, forget about her.