Tips for Asking Someone Out!

[Jason Mark]

There's a girl I want to ask out, and I'm a little nervous. I figure all I can do is be myself. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

[Jakeosaur]

I want to ask this girl out but I need some like lines what should I say?

Don't put the pressure on yourself of 'asking her out'

You should not use lines. Just talk to her. Ask her about her day. Ask her about herself. Be interested in the answers. Genuinely try to find out about her as a person. Find common ground on things you like doing, or maybe even just something she likes doing that you are intrigued by and see if she wants to do it together.

[ProudThread598]

There's a girl I want to ask out, and I'm a little nervous. I figure all I can do is be myself. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
You should always be yourself because if you fake it, she'll find out.

[gemma.2000]

Just dont use cheesy. Chatup lines. Haa

[Trevor.]

Tips for Asking Someone Out!


There are few things in life are as exciting as the prospect of a new relationship. It can be a scary thought sometimes while at the same time lifting your spirits and giving you a better look on life. While the initial attraction is rarely love, what it has is the promise of love to come and that can be very exciting. But the question that remains, and is what often frightens us the most, is how to move on from the initial attraction to the dating stage.

The answer is not simple. First you have to be ready to put your heart on the line by letting the other person know you are interested. There are different ways that you can let the other person know you are interested, whether it be in an obvious or subtle way. A good place to start is with some innocent flirting. It doesn't have to be anything major, maybe just complimenting them, and if your crush seems receptive and appears interested, then the next step is to ask him or her out.

Asking someone out can seem like a big deal, but really it doesn't have to be like that. It can be something simple like, "lets eat lunch together today" if you want to start off slowly. Or if you are feeling more confident or adventurous, you could try something more like, "do you want to see a movie with me on Saturday?" Once you have put your feelings out there in the open, you will soon know if the other person is interested as well.

If they say "no" it is pretty obvious that they aren't in to you the same way that you are in to them. Although this might be a bit disheartening and feels like a kick in the guts, it is ok and you should not see it as a fault with yourself. Unfortunately it is the risk we take in asking somebody out. But you shouldn't let a rejection stop you from asking somebody out in the future. Remember, because one person doesn't return those feelings, it doesn't mean that everyone else is the same.

Sometimes they may answer with "I'll think about it". If that happens, don't try and prejudge what their answer will be and try not to get too paranoid about it all. The waiting game can be very annoying, but most likely your crush didn't see this coming, and they will need time to sort out their feelings. The worst thing you can do here is rush them into giving you an answer. Ideally, waiting for them to make the first move in giving you the answer is the way to go, but if its been an extended period of time since you asked them out, then it would be worth just casually asking them again. Remember, an "I'll think about it" means just that, so you need to be patient.

But if they will say "yes" then you will have a chance to at the very least, to get to know your crush a bit better. The best relationships start by being friends and getting to know each other. So take advantage of that, you never know where this will lead. Maybe you will find that you are better off just being friends? That might hurt a bit, but think of it in a positive way, at least you have a new friend to share good times with. But maybe you will find that you are both well suited together and you end up dating and sharing a meaningful relationship together. It's the happiness you have when you find someone to share a relationship with that makes this all worthwhile.

When it comes to the crunch, if you want to date somebody you have to ask. Sitting around looking at someone you like and hoping that it will come together nicely on your lap will not get you far in the love game. Take the chance, remember you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. You don't want to look back in the future regretting that you didn't get to know a certain person or asked them out. Remember, you have everything to gain by asking someone you like out including, maybe, love!

To summarize this just act Confident and try to be patience. Most relationship don't happen a minute after someone meets. JUST BE YOURSELF AND REMEBER THAT THERE'S MORE FISHES IN THE SEA :)

[ceto2]

i know someone very well and want to ask him out but need some tips ect as we chat manly every other day or two as he on line too. part of me isnt sure about some things.

[Leena_2003]

Hey guys, I am not experienced in the dating game, but for me, if I like a guy or think he's a good one or cute, I will try to show it in some way, like smiling or keeping eye contact or talking a bit, maybe just some kind of small contact like a playful punch or standing/sitting quite close, things like that. If he is really interested in me I hope he will take the courage to ask me out to my face. I know most will probably do it with a text, but for me it will be way more romantic if done in person.

[VirtUalAwsomeD4N_]

Good advice, Thanks

[Sheaman17]

Be cool and yourself

[Sheaman17]

Take rejecting lightly

[Sheaman17]

Love yourself

[Sheaman17]

Always be respectful of whoever you ask out

[tvishtvish22]

Hahah what an interesting thread, nice :D

[ska8er]

Pickup line
My Mom thinks Im Gay-U want to help me prove her wrong?