She asked me to stop, for good

[ShatteredWings]

and i'm really conserned.


Cause, i'd like to be able to keep it...

But... i don't feel like i can. it's tempting, even now, and i'm pretty calm at the moment.


this.. this is bothersome. It's something i'd LOVE to be able to do. but i dont wanna disapoint anyone
:confused:
I'm not sure if there's a point to this, but it seems more fitting here, rather than in twpr

[DaretoFallup]

Does u remember the time where u told me about different outlooks or ways to express urself *poke*

[ShatteredWings]

Hm. yeah.
you're right. there should be better outlets, no?

[-Silence]

Why do you want to keep self harming?
Do you realize it will just get loads worse in time?

[ShatteredWings]

i dont.

its a question, of being able to keep it. forever. breaking promices.. yeah.

[Sapphire]

Don't make any promises other than that you will do your best. That is all you can promise because it is a hard thing to stop and you are going to slip up occasionally.

To give yourself the best chance of stopping making sure that you have a good system of support (people you can be with/talk with when you feel the need), viewing slip ups as part of recovery and finding more beneficial ways of expressing and distracting yourself will all help you.