View Full Version : Need some Help Here.
TannerE
September 20th, 2008, 06:53 PM
Hey everyone, just here to talk about myself for a bit, First off a little backrough, I have had Chronic Depression for about a year now, Im currently on Medication and I live in Canada, currently in Grade 11, Stuff has been a bit rough lately, School has been imensly hard, I get picked on usually every day, I have only had one Girlfriend (Grade 9) It lasted about 2 months, after that I find it really hard to Ever ask someone out, its no use really no one seems interested in me at all, I see everyone at Highschool In love, it seems to be everyone els accept me, I mean im not Terribly bad looking im 6'2'' and I weigh about 185lbs, Blue eyes & Blonde hair, Im leaning it towards my personality, but I also have alot of friends, Im not to sure anymore, just wanted to get someone els's opinion on this.
thesphinx
September 20th, 2008, 09:28 PM
About being picked on, Ignore it. do you have a good group of friends?
About having a girlfriend it really doesn't matter when you get one most of the relationships in high school don't last anyway.
But hey if you see an opportunity for someone you like, go for it!
trn19
September 21st, 2008, 10:54 PM
Don't worry, you'll find someone. I can promise you that.
I'd say you have bigger problems than that, if I may. Like the bullying. You need to sort that out. Stand up for yourself if you can. Let those assholes know you are a far better person than them and they are just cowards. You need to have self confidence to do this, of course. If you have problems with that, you should ask your psychiatrist for help.
Anyway, you can PM me if you feel like talking.
Good luck.
Ultraviolet
September 21st, 2008, 11:20 PM
Perhaps you could look into getting a tutor for your studies? Or you could make a study group with your friends or even online with virtual friends to make studying more fun.
The bullying is a horrible issue. It creates such damaging effects to individuals' mental health. Hope it's not too serve. What do you do to try and prevent the bullying? Just so I could try to suggest something that you haven't done or thought off, less frustrating too.
You know with the girlfriend thing, don't worry many people your age haven't even had a girlfriend at this age not that it makes it any easier. However when that door closed on your ex girlfriend of two months another one will open up. It might not be now, nor in a year time but one day there will be an opening. But whatever you do, don't try to push yourself into a relationship because you think you need it. Do it because the time is right and the feelings are there. :D
Hope this helps, best of luck.
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