confusion

[electric7rocker]

so when my parents got divorced i stayed living with my mom
but lately shes been driving me crazy
so i moved in with my dad about a month ago
and i like it there because we never fight and we get along so much better

but im even more unhappy
i miss all of my friends and i cry myself to sleep almost every night.
but i know i dont want to move back in with my mom
so i want to get my dad to move back here, in like an apartment or something...
but his job is back there, and so is the shit face he cheated on my mom with and im afraid hell choose her over me
and i know his job is important to him
but i just dont know what to do anymore
like i feel like i should be more important to him than his job
but its always hard for him to find work
and i feel really selfish
but im not happy

and i dont want to tell him im cutting anymore cuz
yeah duh

but i just dont know
please help me

[JoshDude]

Well you should be more important than his job. But, he will need to concentrate on his job if he is to provide for you too. If you go back to your mother's, try and work things out? Otherwise ask if you can move back with your dad. Sorry, Im not very helpful. Perhaps you could try and make some new friends?

Recently I moved interstate in Australia and lost all my old friends. But I made new friends that are just as good, if not better than my old ones. My new friends kept me from missing my old ones, and it seemed to work well.

Goodluck.

[electric7rocker]

once i move back to my moms i cant move to my dads again

[electric7rocker]

seriously please help me

[Triceratops]

I have been in a similar situation.My mom and dad had split up and I had a choice whether I wanted to live with either one of them. I don't get on so well with my mom but I got on well with my dad. But the problem was the fact that my dad lived in a different town away from my school and friends etc but my mom lived really nearby to everything and it was just too complicated. So I chose to stay with my mom, and whenever we argue I just go up to my room and listen to music, draw, read or whatever and completely ignore her. So if your mom annoys you, just stay out of her way and find something else to do like hobbies you enjoy or something.

I'm really sorry if this sounds harsh but sometimes some things are just not meant to be. Maybe there isn't much of a way of convincing yuor dad to move into an apartment nearby. Life is tough :( But there is always a way out, you just have to rely on fate.

Best of luck :)