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BlackenedSilver
September 15th, 2008, 04:58 PM
I dont know if this is in the right section. :rolleyes:
But...
I just told my Bf about my S/h.. and I expected him to dump me because of it.. (I think I got that idea from my best friend who dumped his Gf when he found out she was self harming) But he didnt, and for we were just sat for ages and he was holding me, and would randomly ask me a question about it.
But it was the most amazing feeling, I could have just fallen asleep in his arms, and he just kept saying that he loves me & that he is there for me. :wub: It was just great, I could have sat there forever with him, but time stopped that.
I just thought I would share a nice story! :D

Atonement
September 15th, 2008, 05:01 PM
Well if you think that this has more to do with how amazing your BF is and not mainly about self harm, then I'd say its right.

Anyway, I am happy to see that you have that form of amazing support next to you whenever you need it. I am happy for you. :)

thesphinx
September 15th, 2008, 05:47 PM
Good for you!

DaretoFallup
September 15th, 2008, 06:13 PM
Thats good to know that he loves you enough to stay by you and support you :)

Nihilus
September 15th, 2008, 06:15 PM
That's so nice to here! I hope more moments loke that continue to happen to you!

dmeek7
September 15th, 2008, 08:39 PM
that is nice to hear....these type of things makes me want to go and do something like that for my gf

Gumleaf
September 16th, 2008, 12:02 AM
i honestly think any person who dumps their bf/gf because they self harm, is very shallow. if they really like you, they should be offering support above and beyond that normally expected from a bf/gf and dumping someone when they open up like that is disgusting. obviously you have found yourself a good bf there. :)

trn19
September 16th, 2008, 02:52 AM
You're very lucky.

Rutherford The Brave
September 16th, 2008, 05:45 AM
You're very lucky.

Lucky? No, she is blessed. It is such a great thing, some other guy might have taken off. But he truely loves here. For that she is no tlucky, she needs him and he will stick by her.

BlackenedSilver
September 16th, 2008, 12:54 PM
Thanks! I do feel very lucky.. or even blessed with him! XD
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Gavin
September 16th, 2008, 02:24 PM
That's really nice of him and thoughtful.

please help me 69
September 22nd, 2008, 04:18 PM
thats nice of him and if you feel like you need to s/h any more you can just talk to him about it