Getting Bribed

[doktored]

Right, this one is a real dilemma. Some of you may know that I recently hooked up with a girl, and I really fancy her. The only problem is her brother is bribing me. About 20 mins ago he invited me into the bathroom for what he said is a 'secret' so I walked in and he begun talking;

"Show me how long your dick is hard or I will tell my parents you had sex with my sister when they get back"

I had only one option and I thought at least he isnt asking me to suck him off, so i pulled my pants down and got a boner, he stared for a bit, then he turned around and must have done the same, as when he started walking towards me he had a very large erection (must have been about 8 inches and he's 13), he put his dick beside mine and started walking towards me until it got to the point where my dick was touching his chest, then he got out a ruler and compared girth and walked off.

Now here's my problem, what do I do, I can't tell anyone otherwise I have to break up with my girl and do you reckon it has anything to do with a sleepover he had yesterday. He was asking everyone what a tumour is, do you reckon he thinks he has a tumour?

[byee]

Oh, Clarkey, I so wish I could have offered some advice before you did this!

He didn't bribe you, he blackmailed you. This was extortion, using the threat of something in order to get you to do something else that you otherwise might not agree to do. Frankly, this type of coercion is unacceptable, and the only response is refusal on your part.

I'd tell him that what happened was totally outrageous and if he attempts to interfere in your relationship that he's in for big trouble. Make sure you are very calm when you say this, but look him right in the eyes so he knows you've got his number here and mean business.

Next time (hopefully there won't be one!), recognize that people use extortion b/c they know they are powerless to really do very much to influence you (or on your case, your relationship), that's why they have to resort to such shenanigans in the first place. Hold your ground.

[doktored]

Oh my god Sam, you helped me too much, I followed your exact directions and told him it was out of order. He said he was sorry and was worried because people were calling him a tumour dick so he wanted to "compare to see if mine was different". I've told him that he is huge for his age and to come to me for help next time and he said he will never do it again. Also on the plus side, he has said that he will never tattle on me ever and said that because I have always been nice to him he feels really guilty.
Thanks Sam, much rep!

[byee]

Thank you Clarkey, My day is now complete! I'm glad my words helped.

You handled it well, good onya. And, it sounds like you learned something a long the way.

[Patchy]

This would be better in relationships and dating

[rsc4life]

Now I'm not sure here, but I think his actions could be considered sexual harassment, so nothing works better than threatening to call the cops...

[serial-thrilla]

hmm, this seems pretty ridiculous. If this is in fact true, i wouldve called his probable bluff.