How do I ask?

[venomscurse]

a friend of mine to be a friend with benefits? I have a small crush on her, and shes one of those girls that has done a lot of dirty things, but i dont want to ask her plain out, like "hey, you wanna be a friend with benefits?" do u have any advice on asking her?

[Sapphire]

If you want to be a bit coy about it then maybe bring up the topic of sex/sexual activities one day while you two are hanging out together. This gives you a chance to bring up the topic of friends with benefits to try to get an idea of whether she'd be up for it without coming straight out and asking her.

[byee]

Well, I'm not sure it works that way! It's not like you get something like that just for asking.

I think different people have different ideas about sex/sexual activity and when it's approrpiate or not, and when to do it. Everyone has their own standards about these things. Your wannabe friend obviously has some experience, but it's likely in the context of some kind of relationship. You'd need to get involved with her and allow the relationship to advance to whatever level she establishes as OK for her to be sexual.

This isn't entirely honest, though, getting involved with someone just to have a sexual experience with them. Better you should select someone you have some other, more substantial interests with. There's also the chance there that your sexual needs might be addressed, but in the contex of a more substantial reltionship. That would make it more satisfying as well.

[waterplayer]

just ask her

[Green_Fan]

let thing happen slowly, first star to talk whit her about sex alot, then tell her about your insecurities, your sex life, and about this girl u have a crush on, and she'll be yours, i say it becouse a friend of mine did it whit me