I know you get this alot

[Vennassa2]

but im soo confuzed...

ok, im 16, and i used to like alot of guys, but i only like non-hairy guys, not the ones who have hairy arms, or mustaches, or any hair at all.

but, i have a crush on a really pretty girl at my school, shes beautiful and has a great personality, and weve even made out a couple of times. Anyways, im not sure, am I lesbian? bi? im confused, because i only like guys who have legs like girls, and same with their arms etc.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Your curious sweetheart, alot of girls are. But that may no be the case, you could be a lesbian but you really do not have to worry. Just stuck to what makes you comfortable and if thats being a lesbian than thats fine.

[byee]

Only you know what this means, but your sexuality isnlt just about whatever turns you on, it's more than arousal, it's about emotions, too, the emotional attachment you feel, who you look to for comfort and love and acceptance, how you experience yourself and others of both genders.

You might want to ask yourself what it is about masculine hairs that turns you off. Typically, as boys go thru puberty, they develop hairs, the ones you seem to find so unappealing. Why is that? What is it about the signals of masculinity that is unappealing to you?

Adolescence is new, and all those changes take a while to get used to, in the guys, too. So, it might be a good idea to have a few friends who are boys and get used to being around them, their masculinity, and their hairiness. With time, you might either get used to those 'guy things', or at least become more aware of where these issues might come from so you can address them more directly.