Should I have sex?

[elizabeth_0901]

My boyfriend and I have had oral sex, but I am not sure if we should become more serious. What do you think?

[Mzor203]

If you are not sure, that is a great indicator that you are not ready for sex. Before you are, you should be in a very important relationship, and not be unsure of your decisions. You should also be able to properly address issues such as condoms and birth control. Once you KNOW you are ready, and can use protection, that is when you are truly ready.

[iJack]

Easy, no.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Why are you asking us? Not to be offensive but only you should know. By the looks of it though it seems you are not ready. Which is fine, but please be safe and be protected. Also do not make a decision like this until your absolutly certain.

[byee]

I follow greatness x 3 here!

All three, great advice. If you're so unsure that you need to ask, you're probably telling yourself that you're not ready.

Oral sex is a lot different than vaginal sex. Not only is it physically a lot different, but emotionally, too. Typically, when people are ready for the 'next level' bith people really know it, they can acknowledge it. Until then, work on enjoying eachother and being with eachother in ways you're already comfortable with.

[BeautifulSilence]

Why are you asking us? Not to be offensive but only you should know.

That's right, we can't tell you what to do or think. But, you're seeking our advice, so here's mine:

When you feel like you want to have sex, you need to think. Losing your virginity (is for most) big deal, your first time should be with someone special, right? That you can trust? And you love, and they equally love you back, yeah?
Well, I reckon, if you have a special thing with someone you love, NOT having sex isn't going to make it any less special, am I right?
That plus all of the risks / consequences of sex, should give you your answer.
I'm not telling you not to have sex. I'm suggesting that you keep it special, by keeping it relatively innocent. But you don't have to listen to me.

I DO WANT YOU TO CONSIDER THIS. THINK VERY HARD ABOUT WHAT BOTH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WANT. IF YOU DECIDE THAT YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE INTERCOURSE, BE SAFE AND USE PROTECTION.