View Full Version : Should I go out?
Lennonism
September 13th, 2008, 02:01 PM
There's this girl I know that looks pretty good, and I don't really know her well, but she acts pretty nice, and I'd like to get to know her more, or maybe ask her out, but should I? I mean, I know I'm not in love with her anything, I just thought she might be nice to get to know...even if I do end up asking her out, we'll just eventually break up. What's the point of dating if you're not in love?
Rutherford The Brave
September 13th, 2008, 02:16 PM
That is a great question. Some people find comfort in dating people solely for the fact that they have someone to call their own even if they do not love them. Love is something that you have to build up, you do not just get it the second you start dating someone. If you really want to get to know her, than talk to her. Introduce yourself maybe sit next to her if you can, then become friends with her. That way you will have a relationship, and if you do not in turn want to ask her out, then you will have a friend :).
byee
September 13th, 2008, 04:02 PM
LOL! You ask them out BEFORE you fall in love, silly! It takes a while to get to know them and decide if you have those feelings, that's the point in asking someone out. there's something attractive/interesting about them, there's something appealing about them that intrigues you, so you ask them out to explore those initial feelings and see if you're really into them.
Sounds like you've got the first part, the intrigue, the attraction. Now, you need to get to know her a little bit better to decide if there's something deeper there between you.
rsc4life
September 14th, 2008, 09:30 AM
Instead of just asking her out, why not talk to her? Ah, talking, useful stuff that.
Falk 'Ace' Flyer
September 14th, 2008, 09:57 PM
Just talk to her. You don't need to be in love to date. Dating comes first.
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