What constitutes cheating?

[Elokyn]

I'm pretty sure this belongs here...I was thinking about it today...someone at work was telling me he's married, but she goes out and has sex with whoever she wants and he does the same and the only rule is that if you bring someone home you have to share 0_o I thought it was disgusting. I asked him...what's the point in being married if all you're going to do is cheat? Given permission or not it's still adultery it's still cheating! his reply? I can't be alone...

Anyway, I was just wondering if it was just him or if it's just me. What are your views as far as a relationship is concerned about cheating? How far is too far? When have you crossed the line?

[redcar]

i think if you are going to be in a relationship with someone the least you can do is be with them and them only, its just respect. even if they both agree to sleep with other people its not a proper realtionship then and i would consider ti cheating. well all i nkow is that when i get in to a realtionship i wouldnt be happy with that carry on.

[nwshc]

If it is agreed between the two parties, i say it is not cheating. It is human nature to bang everyone outhere. We are not suppost to stay with 1 person with the rest of our lives. Some people understand that, and agree that even though they are with different sexual partners, they still both love eachother.
Some people like to swing, adn some don't.

[kolte]

what if sombody is in a relationship, and loves sombody else as well, but they don't do anything.

[nwshc]

what if sombody is in a relationship, and loves sombody else as well, but they don't do anything.
There ya go.
Great question.
Is screwing someone else the same as not screwing your loved one at all?

I have to tell ya, if I wasn't going to get any, i would not marry that person.

[redcar]

what if sombody is in a relationship, and loves sombody else as well, but they don't do anything.

very good point. i think thats the exception to the rule. if that person loves the other person more than i feel they should act on it because otherwise they would live their life with a piece of them missing always saying what if, and regretting it.

[Elokyn]

I think it's fine if you love someone else..but tell your spouse or bf/gf whatever....atleast let them know...don't cheat on them if you're gonna do something about it.

Also I believe that if you're in a relationship and you actually love someone else that way, then you don't really love the person you're in a relationship with...my opinion

[ThePhantom]

it depends how they put it... wait never mind they are both sluts, your not alone elokyn