My first experiment

[elizabeth_0901]

My sister and I take showers together, and recently we have been trying new things, like we have kissed, and we have masturbated together in there, I was wondering if this was alright. I know it is kind of weird, but I get aroused when we do.

[iJack]

Your sister? No, its not. Stop

[Patchy]

Firstly if you don't mind me asking how old is your sister and how old are you?

I wouldn't really do that since if someone caught you or found out it could land the older one into some serious problems.

[elizabeth_0901]

I am older I am 13 she is 12.

[ZombieCrunch]

Thats really not a good idea, Particularly for your age group.
If you want to experiment, Then Find another curious girl around a similar age.
This could be classed As " Incestuous " And would cause problems in family life and in the eyes of the law ( Im sure about the laws over there so If Im wrong about the last one, ignore it ).
I would have to will you to stop.
Im not saying don't experiment with girls, Im saying not to do it amongst family.

[Patchy]

I am older I am 13 she is 12.

Ok thats not a huge age gap then.

But yeah if someone did find out it would be a hugeeeee embarrassment even more than doing it with a thread.

I agree, find another curious girl and try it with a non family member

[byee]

I have to agree here that continuing this behavior is not a good idea. When sexual things are done in families, things can get uncomfortable b/c new feelings get stirred up with the new experimentation which can interfere with your relationship.

Curiosity is normal, but satisfying your curiosity with a member of your family risks these complications. Sexual things are private, keep them that way. If you need to explore these things with another girls, find someone outside the family to do it with. That way, if anything uncomfortable gets stirred up, you can choose to end that relationship.

[Sapphire]

The fact that you are asking if this is alright shows that deep down you know it isn't.

Maybe you should consider showering, washing and dressing separately from now on as this will help keep the boundaries defined.

[Nihilus]

Um no its not alright. you should stop.

[Close102]

that really is not okay to be doing. i mean yes it's not a big age gap but if you get caught when your one year above the law and she is one year below then you could get in some huge shit with the law not to mention your family. just find someone else dude (preferablly: a)outside your family, and b)someone your age.)

[dmeek7]

u really shouldnt be doin this stuff...but there are stuff that matters...like..is she a full sister,half, step, or just so good of friends that u call each other sisters......all this stuff makes a difference

[elizabeth_0901]

I am going to stop, thanks, but I have another question, How might I ask a friend to masturbate together, or whatever. Just some advice would be great.

[dmeek7]

well first of all....it depends on how curious this person is...u could like give signals like getting naked in front of them lets things go from there....or...u could touch then on the leg or something to show them

[The Pretender]

It's defanatly not alright I'm afraid. Just do what basicly everyone else has said but at the same time make sure you don't get cought with them. (There's a lot of homophobic people over there and I don't know what the law is in your state but I do beleive that being gay or bi-sexual can land you in some pretty big trouble in some states..) and of course don't take things to far. Also if you can't find anyone then you could just try new things with yourself but be carefull.

[dmeek7]

yeah like what mattloaf said....try new stuff with urself....like masterbation or stumulation and its not against the law for u 2 girls to masterbait NEXT to each other and not WITH each other

[Antares]

It's defanatly not alright I'm afraid. Just do what basicly everyone else has said but at the same time make sure you don't get cought with them. (There's a lot of homophobic people over there and I don't know what the law is in your state but I do beleive that being gay or bi-sexual can land you in some pretty big trouble in some states..) and of course don't take things to far. Also if you can't find anyone then you could just try new things with yourself but be carefull.

Homosexuality is not outlawed in the US. What are they teaching you guys over there? lol
The most "trouble" she could get in is with her parents. Unless she starts having sex with her sister she is fine. If she does start then she would be committing incest which is illegal in most states. Even then she is a minor and no real trial would be held most likely.

[Sapphire]

Incest is defined as sexual relations between family members which is what is happening here, just in a rather mild form.

[Antares]

Incest is defined as sexual relations between family members which is what is happening here, just in a rather mild form.

So far, I wouldn't count them as having sex though so she's still in the clear.
How far she wants to go is her choice but she should know that she is near the brink of what is legal or not.

[Sapphire]

So far, I wouldn't count them as having sex though so she's still in the clear.
How far she wants to go is her choice but she should know that she is near the brink of what is legal or not.

Having sexual relations doesn't just mean that they are having sex. It means that they engaging in sexual activities with each other.

[Nighter]

.... (There's a lot of homophobic people over there and I don't know what the law is in your state but I do beleive that being gay or bi-sexual can land you in some pretty big trouble in some states..) ...

Did you mean the USA or Georgia specifically?

Because I live in Georgia, and around where I live there isn't much homopobia, next to none....

But yes, the incest could land you in trouble in our great state of Georgia...

Consider the risks to what you are doing.

[elizabeth_0901]

is it okay to masturbate with friends?

[Gumleaf]

is it okay to masturbate with friends?

its ok if both you and the person you do it with are both very comfortable with doing it. the only warning i would give you is that doing this sort of thing can make your friendship change and make it feel weird between the 2 of you. i'm not saying this will happen, but its quite common that this sort of thing can happen between friends after being intimate like that.

[The Pretender]

Homosexuality is not outlawed in the US. What are they teaching you guys over there? lol
The most "trouble" she could get in is with her parents. Unless she starts having sex with her sister she is fine. If she does start then she would be committing incest which is illegal in most states. Even then she is a minor and no real trial would be held most likely.

We don't get told this, it's just that I don't really know for sure. :)

[philip374374]

stop dont do it anymore thats a big no no.

[Gumleaf]

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