Crossdressing fetish

[Lennonism]

I have never put on a woman's clothes, and I think that people that do are weird, but I like to fantasize that I'm being forced by the mother of one of my friends to wear her daughter's clothes. I don't think other people crossdressing is hot, but I like to imagine myself walking around the house in my friend's clothes while her mother watches me.

I've heard that a lot of serial killers and such got their jollies from dressing up as women, so I'm worried. Am I a freak or something? I don't think that people who actually crossdress are hot, but I like to imagine myself as wearing women's clothing. Am I crazy for getting turned on by that sort of stuff?

[BeautifulSilence]

General Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

I have never put on a woman's clothes, and I think that people that do are weird, but I like to fantasize that I'm being forced by the mother of one of my friends to wear her daughter's clothes. I don't think other people crossdressing is hot, but I like to imagine myself walking around the house in my friend's clothes while her mother watches me.

I've heard that a lot of serial killers and such got their jollies from dressing up as women, so I'm worried. Am I a freak or something? I don't think that people who actually crossdress are hot, but I like to imagine myself as wearing women's clothing. Am I crazy for getting turned on by that sort of stuff?

Well, everyone's into different things, some are attracted to crossdressers, whereas others like to crossdress, and some don't like it at all, but have to respect that people are comfortable with what they like :)

Fantasizing about your friend's mother is, in my opinion, quite common, if you get aroused by thinking about wearing girl's clothing while being watched by an older woman, than so be it. It's not a thing everybody does think about but it's not odd to have a little fantasy of your own.

You're not a freak, you've nothing to worry about and you're definitely not crazy. Just be sure to control yourself when you're around your mates mum, nd her daughter's clothes ;)

[pontiacdriver]

There is really no logic to fetishes, and some fetishes, such as foot fetishes, may have something to do with the way one's brain is wired. My guess is that you are someone who likes to take risks and is an original thinker. My thought is that you are curious as to how the opposite sex is like and that your curiousity is being projected onto women's clothing. I think that many people out there have some sort of fetish, and as long as your fetish is not harmful to yourself or others, then there is really nothing wrong with it. As a result, I don't think that there is anything wrong with you or that your interest in women's garments is a sign of your becoming a serial killer or being some sort of sociopath. You simply like women very much and feel closest to the opposite sex by being around their clothing.

My final word is that it seems like you have a slight crush on your friend's Mum, and perhaps you are seeking her approval or love in some sort of way. Maybe there is some attribute in your friend's Mum that you wish that you had in your own Mother thus causing your attraction to her? I would channel your feelings towards your friend's Mum in a positive way as getting to know her and being nice to her so that you get the attention you seek from her as well as having a good relationship with her.

[byee]

wow, laura's been on some streak lately!

Yeah, as long as it's in your head, it's harmless. Fantasies serve a really importatnt function, they reduce tension, provide gratification, and are totally harmless and private! Have a good time.

Serial killers are weird people, normal folks don't go around murdering lots of people for kicks, ya know. So, it's not at all surprising when some shrinks get a hold of them, they discover that sexually they're into some really weird stuff. What would we expect, though? Dr. Spock?

[Lennonism]

There is really no logic to fetishes, and some fetishes, such as foot fetishes, may have something to do with the way one's brain is wired. My guess is that you are someone who likes to take risks and is an original thinker. My thought is that you are curious as to how the opposite sex is like and that your curiousity is being projected onto women's clothing. I think that many people out there have some sort of fetish, and as long as your fetish is not harmful to yourself or others, then there is really nothing wrong with it. As a result, I don't think that there is anything wrong with you or that your interest in women's garments is a sign of your becoming a serial killer or being some sort of sociopath. You simply like women very much and feel closest to the opposite sex by being around their clothing.

My final word is that it seems like you have a slight crush on your friend's Mum, and perhaps you are seeking her approval or love in some sort of way. Maybe there is some attribute in your friend's Mum that you wish that you had in your own Mother thus causing your attraction to her? I would channel your feelings towards your friend's Mum in a positive way as getting to know her and being nice to her so that you get the attention you seek from her as well as having a good relationship with her.

Thanks. First paragraph helped me out a lot...I'm not into my friend's mom, though. She's a lot older than me. I just pick people I know in real life because I like my fantasies to be something that will never happen, but something that COULD happen, if you can understand that. It could be anyone making me dress up for all I cared.

[A.J.]

Having a fetish dosent make you a serial killer. Unless it is something directed to that. There is a difference between cross dressing and being a physco.