Bj

[Freshprince]

Ok im in 8th grade..ive kissed a girl made out blah blah blah..i wana bj but i dnt really know how to get one i mean im popular in my school nd i think i look good any tips or w.e thnks

[thesphinx]

I would suggest waiting until you are in a relationship.

[southcarolina]

personally I think you're too young for sexual activity (besides j/o), but the choice is yours.
But don't just go for the "slutty" girls because just of your sex drive, I suggest you find a girl you like, start going out and ONLY when you're BOTH ready get into sexual activity, and always wear a condom (besides for a b/j) to prevent pregnancy and stds.

[Dubs]

GO FOR IT!

Got the chance, take it.

Like Nike would say, Just do It.
Be protected though.

[pontiacdriver]

Ok im in 8th grade..ive kissed a girl made out blah blah blah..i wana bj but i dnt really know how to get one i mean im popular in my school nd i think i look good any tips or w.e thnks

While sexual activity can happen within and outside a relationship simply engaging in a sexual act without being in a meaningful relationship with someone is really empty. Sexual activity has a ton of responsibility, and one of the biggest parts of sex is the emotional aspect of it. Girls view sex in a much more emotional way than boys, and a girl giving you a blowjob will no doubt expect a lot from you in return emotionally. Keep in mind that in a blowjob that you are the one getting all the pleasure while the other person has to do all the hard work. Basically, if you cannot deal with the emotional aspects of sex, then you really should stick to masturbating for the time being.

While it is great that you are popular don't let "fads" or "fitting in" override better judgment. You have to ask yourself how your sexual activity will affect your partner, yourself, and your relationship with your parents. Sexual activity definitely falls into the optional category, and there is no sense in doing something just because everyone else is doing it. It takes a lot more strength to stand up for yourself and not follow the crowd than it is to simply jump on the bandwagon. Finally, if you are being pressured to engage in sexual activity by your friends, then always remember that your sex life is your business and no one else's.

Because you are in 8th grade my hope is that STDs will not be much of an issue for you for the time being. However, if your sexual partner is older than you or once you get older yourself, then you cannot ever discount the risks of oral sex as STDs can no doubt be transmitted from that form of activity, too. There are risks associated with oral sex as much as there is with vaginal and anal sex.

Long story short, we cannot make your decisions for you or lecture you on morality, but as a piece of friendly advice it is recommended that you wait until you are older when you are more mature mentally so that you can make the best decisions possible instead of letting the hormones of junior high dictate your actions. Basically, think with your big head instead of your little one.

[byee]

I would suggest waiting until you are in a relationship.

Simple, accurate, direct, to the point.

Sex outside a relationship feels good the way a sneeze or taking a good crap does. If that works for you, why not just masturbate, it's much easier and far more gratifying, as at least you know what you like.

[Patchy]

I reckon this is more suited in relationships and dating

2 day redirect.

[Sugaree]

GO FOR IT!

Got the chance, take it.

Like Nike would say, Just do It.
Be protected though.

Yeah, just take the adivce from a shoe company about a blowjob :roll:

IMHO, you need to wait until you're with someone you love and not just to get one.

[A.J.]

Umm...good luck? Seriously you cant just want a BJ you gotta earn it. It took me 14 years to get one, But your a little young to be trying. Just get a girlfriend but dont force anything on her because its rude/makes you look creepy. And im sure there are plent of guys in 8th grade who want head.

[dmeek7]

i want it and im a freshman

[Falk 'Ace' Flyer]

Just walk up to a slutty-looking girl and say "blow mah whistle, bitch!"

Or you could just be normal and wait for the chance to come.