Is it ok....

[DrDrDrDrDr]

ok so, this one time, im over for the night at my friends house. now, my friend is a girl, and im a boy, so its kinda weard, cuz were boath 14

no, in the middle of the night, im still lying awake, and i feel somthing going down my pants, i open my eyes, and theres my friend, with her hand down my pantsshes rubbing my penis, and it feels good, so i pretend to be asleep, and then she pulls down my pants

then, while shes rubbing my penis, she puts in he vagina!!!!!!!!!!!

it feels sooooooooooooooooooo good, so i didn't wants her to stop

now understand that i did kinda like her, and so i wasent 100% frequed out.

now, i pretend to wake up, and she jumps back, but i say, its ok, ive been awake, and then we keep doing it.



what i want to know is, is it ok???
i mean, i couldent tell, but i could have releced sperm into her! she could get pregnent!!! i am realy worried, and every time i talk to her about it, she says she isn't! i mean! i didn'd even have a condom on!

oh ya, and her parents wheren't there, so we weren't worried about being discovered

[southcarolina]

It's nod bad to be having sex when your'e a teenager, but make sure she is on birth control and you wear condoms to prevent pregnancy and std's.

[DrDrDrDrDr]

it happened a month ago, and she didn't use birth control and, as i said, i didn't have a condom, so should there be sighns of pregnancy, just in case?

[theOperaGhost]

Well, it really wasn't a good thing, first of all, she thought you were sleeping, second, you didn't have a condom on...well there you go. Don't let that happen again. Always use a condom.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

If you didn't ejaculate (basically, if you didn't have an orgasm; you'd know if you did) then chances are she won't get pregnant. As long as her period keeps happening like normal, you're good. If she's not very regular yet, it should just keep happening with its usual amount of regularity. That is, if it's common for her to skip one occasionally, or to be a week or two earlier/later than expected, she shouldn't freak out if that happens. If either of you are seriously concerned, there are always pregnancy tests at the store, which you don't have to be any specific age to buy.

And, as Jared said, don't let accidents like this happen again. If you're gonna be having sex, use a condom and have her seriously consider talking to her doctor about birth control. If you're too embarrassed to buy condoms, or she refuses to talk to her doctor, then the two of you need to sit down and decide if you're really ready to even be doing this.

[Θάνατος]

Well there is sperm present even in your precum. So there is a chance, next time you two should use a condom or have her go on birth control. It takes up to 4 weeks or a missed period to be sure if she is pregnant.

[Oblivion]

If you didn't ejaculate (basically, if you didn't have an orgasm; you'd know if you did) then chances are she won't get pregnant. As long as her period keeps happening like normal, you're good. If she's not very regular yet, it should just keep happening with its usual amount of regularity. That is, if it's common for her to skip one occasionally, or to be a week or two earlier/later than expected, she shouldn't freak out if that happens. If either of you are seriously concerned, there are always pregnancy tests at the store, which you don't have to be any specific age to buy.

And, as Jared said, don't let accidents like this happen again. If you're gonna be having sex, use a condom and have her seriously consider talking to her doctor about birth control. If you're too embarrassed to buy condoms, or she refuses to talk to her doctor, then the two of you need to sit down and decide if you're really ready to even be doing this.

Agreed
Also, I didn't see it in there [But i may have missed it lol], but its also not OK that she had sex with you when she thought you were asleep.
If you really had been asleep, it would have been a more severe case of rape than just minors-having-sex-rape [forgot the actual name :P]

[byee]

I'm not sure I believe this, but here goes, anyway.

"Is it OK?" You have to decide if having sex right now with this person is right for you and her. The answer would seem to be (at best) that neither of you are exactly ready for this, or totally comfortable with it. Most people are actually awake for sex, they interact with each other. And they consent to it. What you had (if I believe this) was 'None of the Above'. It was pure, detached experimentation. That's different than sex.

If you choose to do this, make sure you have a condom on.

[Nihilus]

Don't have unprotected sex agian.
Having sex when your a teen isn't the greatest idea.
If you have sex agian Use a Condom.

[A.J.]

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[jma94]

Yeah, this does sound slightly bogus. But if it's not, I'd say no. This is defiantly NOT okay. Her touching you when she thought you were unconscious? That's a TOTAL invasion of privacy. Even if you didn't mind. That's not okay for her to be touching you like that whilst you are unconscious.

[DrDrDrDrDr]

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this is not spam!!!

[Antares]

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Anyways, I think that it is not ok. For one, she was being very secretive. That's not a good sign. If she wanted to screw she should have been forward about it :P lol jk but seriously it is not ok. You were unprotected and you have no idea what she has so it was not a good choice. You could have gotten an STI or something, so don't have sex without a condom.
As for the pregnancy portion, I think that she is most likely not pregnant. You say you can't remember but usually the orgasm would be the thing you remember most vividly. SO chances are you didn't orgasm which means you didn't ejaculate which means shes probably not preggers.

So next time, don't do that. It could become a nightmare.;)

[broadwaydude]

dont worry about the sex part u should only be worried about std and pregnancy but besides that ur going to have to calm down or ur going to like go crazy

[Neverender]

ok so, this one time, im over for the night at my friends house. now, my friend is a girl, and im a boy, so its kinda weard, cuz were boath 14

no, in the middle of the night, im still lying awake, and i feel somthing going down my pants, i open my eyes, and theres my friend, with her hand down my pantsshes rubbing my penis, and it feels good, so i pretend to be asleep, and then she pulls down my pants

then, while shes rubbing my penis, she puts in he vagina!!!!!!!!!!!

it feels sooooooooooooooooooo good, so i didn't wants her to stop

now understand that i did kinda like her, and so i wasent 100% frequed out.

now, i pretend to wake up, and she jumps back, but i say, its ok, ive been awake, and then we keep doing it.



what i want to know is, is it ok???
i mean, i couldent tell, but i could have releced sperm into her! she could get pregnent!!! i am realy worried, and every time i talk to her about it, she says she isn't! i mean! i didn'd even have a condom on!

oh ya, and her parents wheren't there, so we weren't worried about being discovered

she may be pregnant. or she could not be. but you were probably cumming or precumming after she started rubbing your dick so when she put it in her vagina, she had the chance of getting pregnant, and she still may be. so don't do it again without a condom on.

[DarkWingedAngel]

i would techonacly call that rape
because she thought you were asleep
but as long as you were ok with it then i guess your fine
but not useing a condom that has its backfires
so becarefull in the futer

[Barin]

alli wanna say is why dontthese things happen to me?:confused:

[kipper]

talk to her if you think you really like her become her boy friend oh and keep a condom around you never now when you might need it

[Zephyr]

Please don't bump old threads.

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