Cumming

[Lonewolf4211]

Is it possible for you to not have to cum? I don't really want to cum, and religon is a factor too.
I know wet dreams are (somewhat) okay, since you can't exactly control it, but honestly. :confused:

[superperson]

oh course u dont have to. i dont because its just 2 noticable and im a christan. and cumming would be against my beleive.

[The Batman]

Just don't masturbate and you won't cum.

[pontiacdriver]

Masturbating definitely falls into the optional category, and you don't have to jack off unless you choose to do so. You might have to deal with an occassional wet dream here and there due to your body needing to expell excess semen, but you definitely don't need to masturbate to get sexual release. Avoid anything that arouses you, and try your best to keep your mind off anything sexual. If you are not masturbating due to religious reasons, then you really should consult with someone in your religion or some tracts published by it to see how folks of your faith abstain from masturbation.

[Dubs]

Is it possible for you to not have to cum? I don't really want to cum, and religon is a factor too.
I know wet dreams are (somewhat) okay, since you can't exactly control it, but honestly. :confused:

oh course u dont have to. i dont because its just 2 noticable and im a christan. and cumming would be against my beleive.

Holdup, so you can masturbate, but you can't cum.

What's the point?

[southcarolina]

That's ok. It's normal to not masturbate, my friend who's older than I am doesn't

[superperson]

well actually if i asked any1 i no that if they masterbated then they would yell or laugh at me. im just saying its not so normal to masterbate just because most poeople on this fourm do.

[CaptainObvious]

well actually if i asked any1 i no that if they masterbated then they would yell or laugh at me. im just saying its not so normal to masterbate just because most poeople on this fourm do.

Incorrect. The statistic that almost everybody masturbates is absolutely true. Lifetime incidence should be very close to 100%. If your friends deny it, assuming you are in puberty most of them are lying. Lots of people lie and say they don't masturbate - very, very few actually abstain entirely.

Now, there are lots of other things that seem pretty normal here (single sex experimentation, including oral and anal sex being a good example) that are not so normal in the real world, but masturbation is definitely not one of those things.

[southcarolina]

yeah, most (like 95%) people masturbate

But, you can stop right before you cum

[Oblivion]

Hold up people.
Most people masturbate, probably 90%+ of guys, but its fine if you don't
But saying you won't cum if you don't masturbate is untrue.
Since your body always makes more sperm, your body still needs to get the cum out, so that's why wet dreams happen.
Cumming [not necessarily masturbating] is completely normal, so I think you must be mistaken about your religion being in the way ;)

[silentc0re]

Hold up people.
Most people masturbate, probably 90%+ of guys, but its fine if you don't
But saying you won't cum if you don't masturbate is untrue.
Since your body always makes more sperm, your body still needs to get the cum out, so that's why wet dreams happen.
Cumming [not necessarily masturbating] is completely normal, so I think you must be mistaken about your religion being in the way ;)
I agree,
mostly every body masturbates in there life
Yeah and i 100% agree what Shattered said use some common sense listen to this

"If GOD knew everything he would know that people would masturbate"- Xxa415bxX

[Lonewolf4211]

My point is that self-excitement is not allowed, so can I avoid it?

[cjdude]

im confused, sorry.
do you mean that you dont want to jack off, or you dont want to cum, whilst jacking off?
haha, sorry again.

btw, whats your religion?

[Dale]

okay let me get this straight, studies have proven that masturbation doesn't only increase the chance of fertility, but also relieves stress. There is no bad part of masturbation. Animals do it (lol the kangaroo video =P), its natural, healthy, and pleasuring. Hey i would rather masturbate than rape someone (if you think of the fact that raping is illegal and morally wrong as well as a sin), i think god would also agree to masturbation more then rape, well according to the 17 pages of the bible i read at a hotel.

[Oblivion]

okay let me get this straight, studies have proven that masturbation doesn't only increase the chance of fertility, but also relieves stress. There is no bad part of masturbation. Animals do it (lol the kangaroo video =P), its natural, healthy, and pleasuring. Hey i would rather masturbate than rape someone (if you think of the fact that raping is illegal and morally wrong as well as a sin), i think god would also agree to masturbation more then rape, well according to the 17 pages of the bible i read at a hotel.

Just because someone doesn't masturbate they are a rapist?
No.
Also, we aren't here to change his religion, just to help him with his problem.

To OP, you can always choose not to masturbate.
Wait til marriage for sex, or heck, never have sex. No one will force you. [Well unless your raped, but hopefully not]
Never do anything you feel is against what you believe in, or you just plain dont want to do.

[normanford]

i dont think that religion should govern this area of life...
i mean more than 90% of us do it
but if you want to avoid self-excitement then don't masturbate
but if you do, then, you have to get yourself out of the moral dilemma
but hey, this forum's here to help