Something Wrong or......?

[NightHawksr71]

I thought this was the best spot for this, sorry if its not

Well in the past few weeks I have noticed I couldn't really feel many emotions except for Anger, Frustration and boredom. The other day I was talking to someone(don't really like them but don't hate them either) and I just got the sudden urge to hurt them badly out of nowhere I just wanted to hurt them or kill them it was strong enough to make me punch them softly a few times but I didn't hurt them I managed to control it this only happened once though but it was yesterday. Also I noticed I don't really feel like being around people and just want to go off and do my own thing and having to be with people frustrates me. I also don't really care whether the teachers at school tell me off or congratulate me on something, and I generally don't really care what people say/think about me and I can't really trust many people anymore.

well sorry about the long post. and thanks for listening.

[Mzor203]

It sounds like you could possibly have anger management issues. Either that,or there is something deeper at play here.

Firstly, you have really got to supress these feelings.They could be a serious hazard to you and the people around you, your friends, loved ones, etc. These feelings and emotions may have arisen from anywhere, it really is hard to tell, but they have to be stopped before t gets out of hand.

You should start by talking to someone you really trust, like your mom or dad, about it and see if they can help you. The support of family is always helpful, no matter what you are dealing with, and this will be no exception. If they can't help you, though, it will probably be time for some professional help.

A professional psychiatrist will be able to help you get to th bottom of these feelings and try to find out what it is that it compelling you to feel like hitting people. This will be extremely helpful in getting rid of or treating this problem, and I recommend it if can not get your anger in check quickly.

Now, as you probably can't get to a psychiatrist right away,let's see if we can't figure out why you are acting this way.

First, has anyone provoked you recently? Has anybody made you really angry or aroused deep emotions?

Has something upsetting happened recently? Or some event that has affected you negatively in some way?

Are there any particular people who you are feeling angry towards, or is it just a general thing?

Answering these questions should help find a cause.

[NightHawksr71]

No it was only this one guy once, Maybe It was just me wanting to take out everything on him. Usually I'm a quiet person I don't really get all that angry, which is why It surprised me because it is so out of character. I'm not angry at anything else, and nobody has really provoked me. Nothing really upsetting has happened recently. And I'm still at a loss as to why it happened, and why I don't feel many emotions anymore. Thanks for your answer but I don't think it is a Anger Management issue as it was only that one person yesterday and nothing has happened since.

[Mzor203]

Hmm, okay. That does make things a little more complicated.

It's hard to tell why you felt angry towards that one person, but if it was just a one time weird thing, it should be all right, unless you start feeling the same way towards more people.

As for your lack of meaningful emotions recently, I think it's probably boredom that is causing the others. You just need something to do to get yourself excited and ready to go, be that a hobby, a project, anything.

Also, very unlikely, but my brother has food allergies to a lot of things, and sometimes symptoms are grumpiness and angriness at people. It is not very likely, but still a small possibility.

[The Batman]

Sounds to me that your going through mood swings which comes with puberty.

[byee]

Listen, mood swings that lead to these intense feelings and urges might not be a normal part of adolescence. Try to figure out 1) when they started, and 2) what might have caused them.

Lastly, it's important to be aware of those urges, and try to control them, esp. the ones that are physical.

Someting is causing these changes in you, try to uncover why.

[NightHawksr71]

Well it started about 3 weeks ago. And I can't think of anything that happened then. though my memory is pretty bad. And I have been doing stuff I like. Riding my bike, talking to friends, fiddling with my computers but I still don't feel anything then either. I can't feel sympathy for when friends get hurt or go through something bad in life. Its kinda like limbo.......

[byee]

Hmmm....sometimes it's more difficult to determine what the cause could be. Stress lurks in a lot of things, maybe you can think a bit about it. Are you using any drugs, btw?

In the mean time, let's hope it passes as mysteriously as it began! So, be aware that you've got this 'stuff' inside that causes you to want to do some not so nice things, and watch for the warning signs that it's coming. Then, do something different, so you don't.

In short, use your awareness to control your urges.

[NightHawksr71]

Hmmm....sometimes it's more difficult to determine what the cause could be. Stress lurks in a lot of things, maybe you can think a bit about it. Are you using any drugs, btw?

In the mean time, let's hope it passes as mysteriously as it began! So, be aware that you've got this 'stuff' inside that causes you to want to do some not so nice things, and watch for the warning signs that it's coming. Then, do something different, so you don't.

In short, use your awareness to control your urges.

Firstly no I don't take any drugs. except for Ventolin for asthma. And yea I will be aware I just was not expecting it. Still wondering what happened to my emotions though. and I have been hoping it passes since it started.
thanks for your replies though!

[NightHawksr71]

Sorry about the double post. but some time has passed. if you decide that this shouldn't be a separate post just tell me and I will edit into my other one.

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Thanks for the suggestions. but I've just gotten on with things its almost kind of good the whole lack of emotion thing, schools easier, though the lack of sympathy and empathy might get me called mean or something a lot more often. I certainly don't have trouble with teachers criticizing me anymore and I cant feel peoples insults anymore:P so its actually made it a lot easier. probably if it keeps up like this and if it severely affects my life I might talk to someone about it but atm its fine. though the lack of love emotion can kind of be annoying. but life goes on.

Thanks guys.