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jjmcray
September 7th, 2008, 11:43 PM
So this girl I like and who likes me wants me to eat lunch with her tomorrow... problem is there's another girl who eats lunch with her too. And that other girl just happens to be a girl that I asked to go out with me before and got rejected... What should I do? lol

byee
September 8th, 2008, 03:11 AM
Have lunch with them. The other girl said 'no' to you, she didn't bite your finger off.

Your interest in the other girl should be greater than your wounded pride. Be charming and delightful, as if nothing happened. Actually, go out of your way to be especially warm and charming to the other girl, make eye contact smile warmly, and let her know it's nice seeing her again.

At the end of lunch, assuming it goes well, tell your new friend how nice it was and make plans on the spot for tomorrow. "This was great! let's meet tomorrow!".

Good luck, just relax and be yourself, and remember that if she didn't already like you she wouldn't be meeting you. Her friend is there to make her feel a bit more comfortble the first time.

The Batman
September 8th, 2008, 09:28 AM
If she said no than it shouldn't matter that's she's there or not. Set your attentions on the new girl and keep your eyes on the prize. Just eat lunch, talk, and have fun. When it's done just say you're coming back tomorrow.

Nihilus
September 14th, 2008, 07:30 PM
nothing awkward should happen.

rsc4life
September 15th, 2008, 04:18 PM
Have some lunch, talk some politics, and don't talk about relationships!:D