i had a gay dream...

[MilkDud]

ok so i had this dream....

i was at a sleepover with me and my friend and we were sleeping in the same bed
so i was laying one way and he was laying the same way so we were kinda spooning but we werent touching
then i felt his dick touch me from behind and it got hard
so mine got hard tooo
so i turned over and he slowly put his hand down my stomach and into my pants then he started to rub my penis and then he licked it and it was really pleasurable


but then i woke up from the dream and i was grossed out but i sorta wanted it to happen in real life
so does this mean im gay?? or bi??

[Oblivion]

No, being gay or bi is a lot more than sexual attraction in a dream.
Even if that happened in real life you would not be considered gay or bi, just curious.
You can't control your dreams, so don't worry about it.

[Sapphire]

Sexual dreams don't always reveal "hidden desires" or anything like that, so I would doubt that it carries a meaning to it.
It is natural to be curious about experimenting sexually with both the opposite and same sex. Try not to freak out over this. Give yourself time before you try to label yourself.

[MrTeen14]

no dude, dreams are stupid, can't control them, you're fine

[waterplayer]

Dreams aren't reality you aren't gay

[The Batman]

I had a dream that I could fly but that doesn't mean I'm gonna sprout wings and start soaring. The reason I said that is because our dreams do not define who we are or what we're gonna do in the future.

[MrTeen14]

dreams are like collections of random thoughts that are used to keep you busy while processing information during REM sleep

[pontiacdriver]

ok so i had this dream....

i was at a sleepover with me and my friend and we were sleeping in the same bed
so i was laying one way and he was laying the same way so we were kinda spooning but we werent touching
then i felt his dick touch me from behind and it got hard
so mine got hard tooo
so i turned over and he slowly put his hand down my stomach and into my pants then he started to rub my penis and then he licked it and it was really pleasurable


but then i woke up from the dream and i was grossed out but i sorta wanted it to happen in real life
so does this mean im gay?? or bi??

Your dream was simply fantansy, and my guess is that your dream was prompted by you and your friend sharing the same bed and being in very close proximity with one another. I am sure that during your sleep cycle you and your friend positioned one another unconciously in a way that stimulated your genitals thus creating your sexual dream.

As for your desiring to make your dream reality, again, that does not make you gay but rather is evidence that your hormones are in overdrive and that you are looking for anyone, be it female or male, to stimulate your penis.

I would not read into your dream at all, and realize that being gay is not simply the physical aspect of sex between folks of the same sex but rather a desire of two people of the same sex to be in an emotional relationship as well.

[rsc4life]

It does not mean that! It is just hormonal stuff. etc.