Question For Gays

[jaja]

K uhh i dont know what i am right now cuz ive always been attracted to girls forever since the age of four tounge kissed her and everything i really really knew i was attracted to girls by the time i was 12 when i hit puberty never had 1 single thought of a man and loved women on a physical and emotional level these feelings continued through my 13th and 14th year until summer hit it was about July When I Found Out My Uncle Was Gay,but thats not what im here for but now if like i see a good looking guy on tv my heart will pound fast but i think thats becuase of the dilema im in about my sexuality in public i look at guys more than girls now cant even sit and have a simple dinner with my mom without being deppressed because i don't know whats going on with me i know most of you will give me the emotional thing but i don't know becuase sometimes i feel straight but i feel gay sometimes too everyday i wake up feeling awful because i cant answer this question.I also think of this girl i been liking since last year had a dream about her a night ago it was just me laying on her chest i woke up and felt great about that dream had no worries the whole day i don't think i could have a relationship with a guy i don't think i even wanna try i don't know im very confused is this puberty because when this stuff started to happen my voice was also getting deeper so yea. takes a gay to know a gay i guess so need answers..

[Jesse]

Welcome to puberty!

I'm gonna have to say that your attraction to males is purely raging hormones, and nothing else.
To be Bi/Gay you HAVE to have BOTH a physical AND emotional attraction towards males. If you don't have that, then you're purely curious. If you can see yourself 10 years down the road with another guy, then you're probably Bi/Gay. Only YOU can answer this question dude.

[Trademarked]

takes a gay to know a gay i guess so need answers..
hahaha, well... there are many types of people. yeah, there's the classic: straight, gay/lesbian, and bi, but then there are people who just like sex who'll do both, people who don't care and will be with whoever they feel most attracted to. only you can know what you really are, which might not be for a while. some people, like me, know really early. i knew when i was 13. but for others it takes anywhere from their late teens to full grown adult or older. if you're fine with being gay, and can gladly accept being seen with, sleeping with and having sex with guys, then you're either gay, or bi.

[waterplayer]

SAME PROBLEM, all i did was see which one turrned me on more(girls 4 me), i still have gay urges and respect gays alot more now, but forme i think its just all part of raging hormones and Puberty:cool: