Need some advice

[raiders rule]

Im back for a rare visit, anyways, what i need help with is a girl, now im not afraid or anything like that what the problem is i like her she thinks im hot we talk everyday but shes got a boyfriend thats 16 and we are both 13 and she lives an hour away but i still get to meet her, so im just wondering should i lay back and wait till something happens with her bouyfriend or do something like i want to!

[Oblivion]

Wait, or ask her to break up with her boyfriend.
Never cheat with a girl, because the boyfriend will eventually find out. And in this case, hes 3 years older than you, and probably a lot bigger. [Meaning a lot of being beat up]

[theOperaGhost]

P101 --> r&d

[byee]

Im back for a rare visit, anyways, what i need help with is a girl, now im not afraid or anything like that what the problem is i like her she thinks im hot we talk everyday but shes got a boyfriend thats 16 and we are both 13 and she lives an hour away but i still get to meet her, so im just wondering should i lay back and wait till something happens with her bouyfriend or do something like i want to!

Brad! Welcome back.

If she likes you, and you like her, then you might want to talk about your feelings about eachother and claify what she wants to do here.

[raiders rule]

Well, i asked her out and me and my friend both agree but she didnt say yes or no she just said kinda like she was nervous or embarrased that she has a boyfriend and then i said oh is it ok if i call you or talk to you later and she said yeah so, dammit, id most likely have a girlfriend if she didnt have a boyfriend:mad:

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Let her work it out. She's probably thinking over her feelings for you, and she's likely confused that she could be crushing on you when she already has a boyfriend (which is fine, by the way, it's actual cheating that would be a problem); she might even be feeling guilty about it. Either way, you can't be with her until she's single, so don't let that bother you right now (or at least try). Keep hanging out with her as friends, and don't pressure her to break up with her boyfriend. She might take that as a sign that you don't care about what she wants, only what you want, and that won't go over well.

But remember, you're only 13. She's probably not going to marry this guy, and the both of you have a long time still to date people. Things could still work out, or you might find someone you like even more--who is available. Just wait and see.

[Sapphire]

I think that it would be best if you just carry on as you have been. There is nothing to suggest that they are unhappy in their relationship so it is probably best for you to just move on.

[byee]

Well, i asked her out and me and my friend both agree but she didnt say yes or no she just said kinda like she was nervous or embarrased that she has a boyfriend and then i said oh is it ok if i call you or talk to you later and she said yeah so, dammit, id most likely have a girlfriend if she didnt have a boyfriend:mad:

OK, Brad? I don't know the other guy, obviously, but I do know you, and I'd say she'd be some kind of fool for not jumping at the opportunity to be your chica! Give her some time, she'll come to her senses.

In the mean time, just be her friend, enjoy her as that. I think there's too much emphasis on this 'Going out' thing, it's just a phrase, anyway. Exclusivity isn't that important right now, just being her friend might work out better, it often lasts longer, anyway.

[raiders rule]

Omg im soooo close to dating her we would be dating right now but theres one problem, the boyfriend isnt the problem anymore its that she lives an hour away, if i can find a meet to see her sometimes like 1 or 2 a week we will, so anyone have any brilliant ideas?

[byee]

Gratz, Brad. A smart girl, too. With good taste, no less.

Distance is a complication, but it's not impossible. You have to coordinate schedules and travelling plans and the like, but it's doable. Work with her on making it happen.

[sports fan1]

Remember, the MOST important thing is to have HOPE. I know this sounds mooshy, but that doesn't mean it's wrong.