What do you think?

[Dude1994]

I tried this on yahoo answers. I maybe of bashed gay people a little too much, so I'm sorry, first off. I will try to write this better. At first hitting puberty, I was an average guy. Well I actually first jacked off to fake wwe diva wrestling cards, well when semen came out I guess, or I didn’t do it for “fun” like when I was little. I really don’t know why I said that, but um you know same old stuff. Thinking about girls, and other things. You know. But later on, it started getting weird. Right before masturbating, especially during and sometimes after I would think about "nailing guys". I mean at first that was girls. And I got really worried. No disrespect to gay's or bi's, and I’ll try not to sound so mean, as I was horrible last time [on Yahoo], but I really don't want to be bi or gay. Not that's there's anything wrong, or even because of my religion [even thought I love god lots] but I just don't want to be gay or bi. Can't really say. And sorry to any bi's or gays reading this, really. The thing was I could see a girl, star at her you know, and be happy. Look at a guys butt, and I wouldn't feel anything. All I thought about guys was "nailing" so to speak [before and during masturbating]. Not like girls, were at first I would think about "nailing", and how I could see a girl, and say wow she is cute, hot, or gorgeous. Maybe this sounds really weird, but that's how I felt. I guess you could say I stopped liking girls a little, but not really. Then I watched these 2 gay videos on youtube. To see what they would be, just to see, would I injot this stuff, did this mean anything if I watched, or even if I enjoyed it. Nothing major [the videos, what they were showing], not really, meh I don't know. I kind of felt something, but at the same time I didn’t. But I got really upset actually crying about maybe there being a chance not being straight. I sound like a wus, but I was upset, [and nobody hates gays or bi-sexuals in my family.] They are all nice people. It's weird I wouldn't think about them all day, but untill right before and during masturbating [if I did that day, which I probly did]. And maybe after, but I would just masturbate again [up to 3 even 5 times or more, maybe]. Then after I got the masturbating out of my system, I had no idea why I was thinking about it. Man it really sounds like I'm hiding up or hating gays. I'm not I'm trying my best, to make this passage not to be a hate post. Basically I thought girls were so cute [and nailing], but later on thought about nailing boys. Just nailing them, compared to really looks or anything. I'm not, 100 straight, nobody is I don't think [which South Park actually teached me]. Once in a while I can say that's a good looking guy, or even he's cute, I mean I’m not 100 percent straight. Now this is were some people are going to get mad. I thought that was out of this world just because, some people on yahoo were upset I was being mean, or what ever reason which is fine, were saying I was bye and to deal with it. But some really gave me help, saying I might just be curios, and it was all right to be confused. But I looked that up, and it said you are bi [being bi-curios, oh wait, is there a different between curious, and bi-curious?], just don't have a bog/girl friend. Meh I don't know. Then I came on here. I read people experimenting, and I said to myself, wow I never did anything like that or really plan to. I know some pole might get upset, but I felt that I would never do that. But I probly will so yeah, don’t mean to get any one upset, or to the poster. I thought to myself, that going to a physical, or taking a shower with guys in gym [not in high school], is just sick. I'm losing track here. But I would never want to do those things. Now I'm losing my point. I guess my point is, I would never want to take a shower in gym, or go to a physical [don' think I have, meh I don't know] but I get this weird felling about "nailing guys" even thought I still like girls, But I lost the feeling well maybe not, of making out with girls. I don’t know, I guess I am trying to get your options. Is this normal about "nailing guys" hormones, or is this not normal? Also 2 thinks, this thread is not for attention, and 2 like Yahoo, I am not bashing [or trying not to] or trying to hide being bi or gay. Oh I guess a third, please don’t reply saying, oh your bi, or huh, or just stupid things. You don’t have a give me a long answer or anything, but just something. And not a stupid post, like, wow your born in 1994, that year was gay. Thanks.

[waterplayer]

alot of people say its just raging hormones, and it probably just is, relax man.:yes:

[Oblivion]

First: I chose not to read the whole thing, because it was hard as there were no places where you pressed [Enter] :)

Second: Being gay or bi is a million times more than wanting to nail guys. You are a normal hormonal teenager, struggling with your hormones.
Of course we can't tell you your sexuality, but I can tell you you are probably curious, and will soon [or not so soon] decide what you like.

[Dude1994]

Thanks a lot. Those are 2 replies I wanted. That made me feel so much better. Yeah I guess I should off entered more. Really dudes, thanks. Also do you mean curious, or bi-curious. Is there a difference?

[CaptainObvious]

I would say that people bi-curious means you're a little bit farther towards the gay side of the spectrum compared to being curious - which many people are at some point.

[Oblivion]

Bi curious means absolutely nothing.
Curious is curious.
There is no more gay curious, or less gay curious, its all curiosity.

The only time you would be Bi Curious is if you were Bi, but also curious, which doesn't even make sense because you already choose to like both genders.

[Dude1994]

Bi curious means absolutely nothing.
Curious is curious.
There is no more gay curious, or less gay curious, its all curiosity.

The only time you would be Bi Curious is if you were Bi, but also curious, which doesn't even make sense because you already choose to like both genders.

I never said I choosed to like both genders, you even said that in your other post. I really just think its hormones, as I'm not near as worried about it, as before.

[Oblivion]

I was using you as in you the person that chose to be Bi, not you as in you you.
Sorry for the confusion :)

[Dude1994]

I was using you as in you the person that chose to be Bi, not you as in you you.
Sorry for the confusion :)

Sorry for lashing out, I should of read more careful, I haven't been able to sleep these last 2 days.

[Zazu]

Eeek learn to add paragraphs to your posts lol.

I personally think that it's just a case of hormones acting up on your body, making you feel things which don't feel right / normal to you. There's nothing to worry about with this, it happens to lots of people, it'll probably pass over time.

[OMGitsDAVE]

Although you may be objecting to the fact you are bi-sexual / bi-curious, this is more than likely the case. It is not UNUSUAL for men to have a certain kind of liking for others of the same gender, infact, it's very common.

At first, i objected that i was bi-sexual, but now, i've learnt to like the way i am, and i'm absolutely fine with that.

Good Luck.

[Requin]

But there is no such thing as bi-curious, or at least some people think so...it's confusing so i won't go there.
The hardest thing about being bi/gay is not the coming out but accepting it yourself.
It's a natural human thing, to want a perfect future, have kids etc. So don't worry yourself, accept who you are and stick two fingers up to those who think otherwise.

[Oblivion]

Although you may be objecting to the fact you are bi-sexual / bi-curious, this is more than likely the case. It is not UNUSUAL for men to have a certain kind of liking for others of the same gender, infact, it's very common.

At first, i objected that i was bi-sexual, but now, i've learnt to like the way i am, and i'm absolutely fine with that.

Good Luck.

Im going to have to disagree
Being Bi or Gay is so much more than just sex.
Sexual attraction to the same sex is extremely common in puberty, and no ones sexuality should be based on that.

[OMGitsDAVE]

Im going to have to disagree
Being Bi or Gay is so much more than just sex.
Sexual attraction to the same sex is extremely common in puberty, and no ones sexuality should be based on that.

I understand where you're coming from, but its around this age people start testing, he could well be bi-sexual.

[Requin]

Where did he mention it's just sex?
We (most) all know that to be gay you have to be physically AND emotionally attracted to the same sex.
Like you nick i couldn't be bothered to read it all, (no grammer, very hard)
But since he hasn't finished puberty yet, i'd say that he could be bi/gay but he'll jsut ahve to wait.

[Oblivion]

Truthfully anyone in puberty could be bi sexual, gay, or stright
But telling him its most likely doesn't make sense, because he really has done little on the side of liking boys
He has not shown any mental, or emotional attraction, thus making it unlikely he is gay or bi

@AxLr I ended up reading most of it, and saw he has never experimented, only seen gay porn, and thought about having sex with men.
He never mentioned wanting a relationship, or loving the mind of men.

[Requin]

THat's why I said he could be gay/bi etc.
But anyway since you said he's never had any mental attractions to men, it sounds most likely as if he's not gay.
So your right. 8-)