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mkfigs
September 4th, 2008, 11:41 PM
ok so i just turned 15 in june and i dont know y im so different from all my friends. all my friends that r guys have gotten tall and their voice have changed but im still really short i sound like a girl and im so confused.i have more facial hair then them and i have under arm hair and they dont. im so confused.:confused:
Oblivion
September 4th, 2008, 11:44 PM
Everyone's body grows at different rates.
There's no set way a body should go through puberty.
Your fine :)
Mzor203
September 5th, 2008, 12:27 AM
If it makes you feel better, I am almost in the same boat as you, and I know a couple people in real life who are too.
I'm really short, barely growing hair anywhere but "down there", and my voice has just recently got lower. As Nick said, everybody grows at different rates, and you have until into your 20's to complete puberty, so it's most likely still quite a while until you're done. Patience is the key.
stotty
September 5th, 2008, 03:01 AM
There is no way of telling when or how fast you're going through puberty. Everyone developes at different rates. Some might get pubic hair first, or some might get more facial hair. In the end all will even out, time can only tell.
PS: I'm positive there have been posts about this before!
byee
September 5th, 2008, 10:34 AM
They've gotten tail already?! You mean, they're salamanders? The critters who get tails as they get older? Or am I thinking about tadpoles? Nah, they lose their tails as they get older and evolve into frogs. Your friends amphibians?
Probably not. More likely they're liars. If your friends are your age, and you haven't started puberty yet, that would make them, like 13?. Most 13 y/o are still virgins, albeit with vivid imaginations. Don't believe them. Besides, sex at 13 isn't supposed to be very good, anyway. Ya need the right equipment.
Listen, you'll get there, it's biology. Just relax and focus on other things, the things you enjoy and are good at and feel good about. And don't listen too seriously to the chatter about how much nookie they've gotten. Cause it's fantasy!
LoneWanderer
September 5th, 2008, 12:42 PM
If it makes you feel better, I am almost in the same boat as you, and I know a couple people in real life who are too.
I'm really short, barely growing hair anywhere but "down there", and my voice has just recently got lower. As Nick said, everybody grows at different rates, and you have until into your 20's to complete puberty, so it's most likely still quite a while until you're done. Patience is the key.
Im also the same but, you just gotta get things into perspective, i used to worry loads about it but now, if people make a comment, im just like, 'cant help it' if you dont make a big deal about it, people notice it less i think.
Neverender
September 5th, 2008, 10:44 PM
ok so i just turned 15 in june and i dont know y im so different from all my friends. all my friends that r guys have gotten tall and their voice have changed but im still really short i sound like a girl and im so confused.i have more facial hair then them and i have under arm hair and they dont. im so confused.:confused:
everyone changes and developes at different rates. maybe your voice hasnt cracked yet. and as for tall, you might not've grown yet. give it time
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