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jjmcray
September 4th, 2008, 06:23 PM
Ok, so here's my story.
There's this girl that I really like. She was in a relationship with someone else when I started liking her, but then they broke up. Then I told her I liked her a few days after they broke up, and she said she likes me too. And apparently, she has liked me since before her and her ex-boyfriend broke up.
I can tell she wants me to ask her to go out with me. And don't get me wrong, by all means, I do WANT to ask her to go out with me.
But, my problem is, I think it would just look a little weird if we started going out like only a week after she broke up with her previous boyfriend.
Wouldn't you think it to be strange?
And the fact that I have never ever had this sort of attention before, or ever had a girlfriend before, doesn't help AT ALL. I used to be that fat nerd who sat in the corner... ya know?

What should I do?

Gumleaf
September 4th, 2008, 07:10 PM
well why don't you ask her out, and assuming she says "yes" as you expect, then just keep it between the 2 of you for a while until you feel comfortable telling people.

jjmcray
September 5th, 2008, 05:06 PM
I don't know if she would want to do that though...

jensmith
September 5th, 2008, 05:23 PM
Just ask her out!!! If she doesnt want to go out with you then she will say no. If she does want to go out with you she will say yes. Do not care about what everyone else thinks if you are fine with it and she is fine with it. If you dont ask her out then just move on and stop thinking about it. Good Luck.

byee
September 5th, 2008, 10:10 PM
Let me see if I got this. You like her bunches, and she likes you, too. She said so.

You want to go out with her, and she's currently available.

So, what's the problem here, what am I missing?

ASK HER OUT!

If she's available, she's available, quit counting the days she's actually been available. It's her availability that matters! Everyone will think you like her and asked her out, regardless of the amount of time since her last b/f.

Go for it, silly.

jjmcray
September 6th, 2008, 12:30 AM
Yeah but I just don't want people thinking of her as one of those girls that moves on from one boyfriend to another week after week ya know?

byee
September 6th, 2008, 01:36 PM
Ask her out, silly.