Am I Bi?

[Dubs]

Alright, I know you guys get a lot of threads like these, and I'm sorry about having to make yet another one, but I just need some opinion.

So, I don't really know if I'm bi. I'm def sure I'm not gay though, because I do like women a lot, and I stare at boobs, asses, etc. And I watch st8 porn.
But, lately, I've been getting even more confused if I'm bi or not.

My bi experience summed up, is this:

-I've always liked girls. That part, I'm sure of.

-When I was in 3rd grade, at a sleepover with about 10 friends, I kinda like, touched my friend's dick, and he mine, but, like since we were pretty young (8-9 I think), we didn't really know what to do, so we just touched each other.

-In 1st Grade, when I was taking a shower with a friend, we did the same stuff, and we kissed around in my house when hopefully no one was looking.

- I've always wanted to do something with my best friend, but I don't live in that country anymore (I'm not going to say where), and I can't really. MSN is the only form of communication we have, basically. And emails, but we dont email each other a lot. We were really tight friends, and we learned basic principles of ''manhood (lol porn, masturbating, etc)'' together. I used to sleepover at his house, like once a month, and we would always watch porn on the TV late at night. But, like, since his younger brother slept in the same room with us, I never really had the chance to just go, and touch him, or something. So, basically, nothing ever happen. But I've always wanted something to. =[

-I do not look at men, any type of men, and say: Oh, they're so hot. I don't even do that. It seems I only like doing stuff with friends. And I don't even appreciate, like man-models, or anything. Just those specific friends.

-I sometimes go on Chats, and do webcam stuff with other men.


So, what do you guys think.
And please dont respond with something like, pubert > gay, or whatever you guys say all the time.

Thank you for taking your time to read all that stuff, hopefully, you'll reply.

[BlackenedSilver]

Well.. to me it does just sound like a general case of curiosity and hormones..

[Serenity]

Am I Bi?

You tell me.

There isn't a single person on this site or indeed anywhere in the world who can tell you your orientation. You're the only one who can figure that out.

As for my hypothesis, it sounds like you're just a normal, horny, pubescent guy like alllll the other normal, horny, pubescent guys in the world. Have you ever wanted an actual relationship with a guy? Have you ever felt anything besides lust for a guy? You know the saying, "A hole's a hole when the lights are out." Your hormones are raging and your body is seeking pleasurable stimulation. Being gay, or bi, is much, much more than that.

[Dubs]

Have you ever wanted an actual relationship with a guy? Have you ever felt anything besides lust for a guy?

No, and no.

You know the saying, "A hole's a hole when the lights are out." Your hormones are raging and your body is seeking pleasurable stimulation. Being gay, or bi, is much, much more than that.

I'm not so sure I agree with the saying...

[byee]

Well, the stuff you did when you were really young is like playing 'Doctor', it's from natural curiosity as you begin to explore and realize about your body. This has nothing to do with sexual orientation. That's not just about what arouses you or what you want to do sexually, it's more about how you see and experience yourself and other people, and how they fit into your emotional needs, how attached you are to them, and what you look to them for. Without that, the stuff you're describing sounds like adolescent curiosity about just the sex part, and that disqualifies you from being much of anything right now, other than a sexually aware teenager.

It takes time to sort out and make sense of everything that you might be experiencing about yourself, give it time. However, I'd really caution you about having live sexual web cams with strangers as this won't help you figure stuff out and might put you at risk, as you never know who you're dealing with, and what you're still doing is very personal, and with strangers, no less.