My life

[Agenst]

Hey guys my parents broke up this year and i have just recently found out that my mum was having an affair with a teacher from my school i have not seen her in 6 months because im extremely mad . This teacher is also an evil man he has broken tons of families . i have left school because they didnt do anything about it he keeps trying to be a fatherly figure but i tell him to go away. Im currently living with my dad who has been trying to get all our lives back together . My mum and her side of this family keeps saying she was depressed for years but nobody ever saw it and is blaming my dad. I dont know what to do i need some advice:confused:

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Family and Friends

[antimonic]

there isnt anythingyou can do? its between your parents their dispute. and as for the teacher, i would suggest you go back, dont allow this to affect your education. even if you go to another school.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Hey guys my parents broke up this year and i have just recently found out that my mum was having an affair with a teacher from my school i have not seen her in 6 months because im extremely mad . This teacher is also an evil man he has broken tons of families . i have left school because they didnt do anything about it he keeps trying to be a fatherly figure but i tell him to go away. Im currently living with my dad who has been trying to get all our lives back together . My mum and her side of this family keeps saying she was depressed for years but nobody ever saw it and is blaming my dad. I dont know what to do i need some advice:confused:

You quit school? Oh dear....Please first off do not risk your future because of what your mother and that teacher did. You should try to get in contact with your mom, or maybe talk to your mom's side of the family.

[byee]

You know, there ae adult issues, and then there are kid issues. Too bad you found out about your mum's infedility, b/c it's an adult issue.

But now that you know, and it's bothering you, I think you might want to have a frank convo with both of them (seperately) to find out what happened and why. And to also let them know how it makes you feel and what your reaction to it is.

Those parental units are often very irrational and unreasonable critters, and although they're in charge, they often make some very weird decisions, and muck things up. I think they do this just to remind us that they're people, too, and maybe give us a glimpse to the future!

In all seriousness, I think there's 2 sides to every coin, there's a reason why things happen, even bad things, and it's important to get those reasons before (if possible) you react or make some decisions about what to do or how to feel. It might seem pretty clear now, or that there's a pattern, or someone to blame, but in real life it's most often not that clear. Especially with complicated adult things like relationships and marriage and such.

Have that convo with them and see what they say.