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The Batman
August 31st, 2008, 08:57 PM
I don't think I'm gay. I'm starting to really lose interest in guys and gain more interest in girls. It seems like I force my self to masturbate thinking of guys but my mind goes back to girls. It's weird because about a week ago I would have proudly said I was gay but now it's like I'm not. I know you guys are probably going to say that maybe my hormones are dieing down, or that I'm might be bi. But the thing is I don't think it was either. I think I was just confused and now that I'm thinking straightly I'm not gay. It's kind of a disappointment because I was starting to like the idea of being gay but now I wouldn't mind being straight. So what do you guys think?

Oblivion
August 31st, 2008, 09:03 PM
I think thats good for you right?
I mean we all want to clear the confusion ;)
And it sure will make life easier. [Which is unfair but true]

Maybe it was just confusion [maybe caused by hormones] and you thought you were gay so you kind of forced it on yourself.

Good luck Thomas :)

byee
August 31st, 2008, 11:22 PM
I think you're still an teenager, ain't it just grand?!

Aside from that, Professor, I think you're very wise to be open minded and willing to accept new feelings and stuff you have about yourself, even if it means changing your self perceptions. You're very aware.

I like the idea of you getting some new data, Thomas, some new experiences. I think this might be a very good time to explore a relationship with some very lucky chica out there and see how it feels for you.

Atonement
August 31st, 2008, 11:24 PM
Wow, you answered your own question. And I must say, I feel pretty close to the same way.

Requin
September 1st, 2008, 05:06 AM
There you go! You just had to wait and your feelings changed. That means your still a qualified teenager! And you passed with flying colours. :-)
I just wish more people would do what you did and just wait before commiting themselves.
I wish that everyone who feels like this should read this post, now!

The Batman
September 1st, 2008, 11:03 AM
Let's think about the odds of someone reading a thread that could answer a question that they have. Yep the odds are pretty low.

Antares
September 1st, 2008, 12:29 PM
Lets think about the odds of someone reading a thread that could answer a question that they have. Yep the odds are pretty low.

Don't forget your apostrophe! "Let's"
Also, I think that is totally great for you. If you feel like you are straight then so be it. I mean it is better to be more certain of one thing or another. So great for you, and you can always consider yourself Bi. if you start remaining attracted to guys.

sabin22
September 4th, 2008, 01:20 AM
chances r ur just a bit confused but it could also be hormones, but since u said u were proudly gay i think ur r like bi since u seem 2 lose interest correct me if im wrong

Atonement
September 4th, 2008, 06:58 AM
No matter if you're gay or striaght, I am happy you are hopefully ending the struggle that most of us face with our sexuality. You're a prime example of why people should wait till they grow up to decide their sexuality.

The Batman
September 4th, 2008, 09:05 PM
I'm so tired of puberty I wish it would jut end right now. I don't even care anymore what my sexuality is, I'll just be glad when it's over.