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Undefined Hero
August 31st, 2008, 08:02 PM
Ok, well I'm a freshman in high school and I met this girl who's a grade higher than me. We talked and stuff and got to know each other better and a few times at the bus loop and the halls, she kissed me on the lips. Also, I kissed back... But the thing is, she has a boyfriend already. He's 19 and doesn't go to school anymore. I need help on what to do please.

Oblivion
August 31st, 2008, 08:54 PM
If you want to keep being with her, I would suggest asking her to break up with her boyfriend.
If you cheat with her, and her boyfriend finds out, it won't be good for either of you.

The Batman
August 31st, 2008, 09:01 PM
What you need to do is tell her that if she likes you then she needs to be with you and not the other guy. Just don't kiss her again because think if it was you that was being cheated on. You have to respect their relationship and try to keep a distance until she settles things with him.

byee
August 31st, 2008, 11:26 PM
You might want to ask her what the kiss meant. Maybe tell her how nice it was and how much you like her.

I really so like the idea of people being up front with eachother, and this poses yet another opportunity to do so. What she has with the other guy isn't as important as what she wants with you. Find out what that is, afterall she kissed you, that's personal enough to warrant a personal convo about it all.

Kuervo
August 31st, 2008, 11:49 PM
all the other guys have great ideas. ask her if she likes you, if she likes being with you. im really bad at this. but try asking her that. does she feel more comfortable than being with him , but ask her nicely. hope i helped

Antares
September 1st, 2008, 12:26 AM
I would suggest waiting.
Wait until they break up.
If you guys are really meant to be together something would happen and they would break-up which would give you a chance to go in for the kill.

Undefined Hero
September 1st, 2008, 07:52 AM
Okay thanks for all of your help guys. I'm going to go over to her house later today and talk to her about it. Again, thanks alot.

iceyfresh
September 2nd, 2008, 09:26 PM
tell her u feal uncomfortable and that she should break up with her curent bf if she wants to be with you