I like a girl but I'm embarresed...

[ObamaBiden08]

I like a girl and shes a bit older than me and i'm emberassed to ask her for her phone-number we talk on email all the time but im to emberassed.

What should I say?:confused:

[Kuervo]

well u and me both dude. i like this girl but im afraid to ask her 4 her email......wut i would do is gather my confidence and have the guts to tell her........il try that....
thats like the obvious thing to do...gather up ur confidence and tell her, hope i helped

[ssgliberty]

me to man me to

[ObamaBiden08]

you did and you should just ask maybe if you could have her email to chat or sumtin

[Kuervo]

well also do u know the girl?? if u do or not maybe try talking to her and get into an interesting conversation.. idk i need help on that.....anyway mayb when she knows u better u can have the confidence to ask 4 her #

[ObamaBiden08]

I know her well we met a few years ago but we haven't seen each other for a while, I just saw here a bit ago.

[thesphinx]

do you go to school with her? do you have anything in common? invite her over to do something or if you go to school with her ask her if she wants to study with you.
There are many opportunities to get to know people you just have to have the courage to ask them :)

[ObamaBiden08]

Well I don't go to school with her and we are both jewish.

[thesphinx]

well everyone likes movies ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something.

[Kuervo]

nice idea.......take her out somewhere. and remember to be yourself

[ObamaBiden08]

K, i'll try that
(thank you for that)
(i've never thought of that)

[byee]

Well, how much is the age difference? If it's more than a few months, if she's in another grade, it might cross that unspoken adolescent boundary that sorta forbids that stuff. As you get older, age differences don't matter, but now they do, so you might need to define your relationship in a way that doesn't make what you're doing not OK.

People of any age can be friends, you just have to define it in a way that makes it OK. If you can be her friend without making it too 'heavy', then it should be OK. Otherwise, you'd need to have a talk with her and see if she's OK with it.

[jjmcray]

Ok, here's one way...
Ask her to go somewhere with you, and if she says yes, just be like "Ok cool, well, can I get your number in case I can't find you or something?"

[ssgliberty]

Ok, here's one way...
Ask her to go somewhere with you, and if she says yes, just be like "Ok cool, well, can I get your number in case I can't find you or something?"

i like that idea i agree.

[jjmcray]

Yes, it works every time. You wouldn't believe how many girl's phone numbers I have gotten using methods like this... lol

You can do even simpler things, like one time, this girl asked me to help her with her homework over myspace, and I told her I could help her later because I was busy at the moment, and then I said "Well, can I get your number so I can call you in case you're not on?" and she gave it to me.

[ObamaBiden08]

I email her a lot and we have met before face to face.

[foof1]

Just ask her! Don't let anything hold you back!