How?

[BlackenedSilver]

My parents are going away soon, for the weekend, and I wanted to ask my boyfriend round to watch a film or something.
But I dont want to ask him and he think I want to sleep with him.. because Im not ready for that yet.
How could I ask him with somehow implying sex?? :confused:
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[Oblivion]

Did you mean without implying sex? [Since you said not ready]

Maybe ask him to the movie theater instead of to your house to watch a movie, and then when you take him/he takes you home don't invite him in/don't go in.
That way you aren't really in a place to have sex.

[BlackenedSilver]

Yea I did sorry I have a habbit of not typing the out or nt on didnt.
Yea that will work! Thanks!

[Rutherford The Brave]

Why not tell him your not ready. If you don't want to have sex, do not jus tbecause he pushes you. Do not succumb to peer pressure. Tell him you would like to go to the movies and calmly tell him that you just can't sleep with him right now.

[The Batman]

Just ask him to come over and watch a movie and if he tries anything tell him no. I think you should get him use to the thought of coming over without sex, that way your parents can trust you and you don't have to do anything you don't want to.

[Antares]

I think should be relatively easy to ask and not uncomfortable as asking him out.
Just say
"Hey (insert pet name :P), are you gonna come over to my house (insert day)? I wanna see you."
If I were your boyfriend I would just be like
YEAH! :P but umm it should be that bad. I think that he will be able to cope with the question and it doesn't scream "I WANT YOU!" which is what we want to avoid.

Good luck :D

[byee]

Here's a big question: Is it Ok with your folks for him to come round while they're away? If it's not, then frankly, he shouldn't be over. That way, not only aren't you betraying your parents trust in you, but you also avoid a potentially uncomfortable situation with your b/f.

If it IS ok with them, I'm not exactly sure why he'd assume their absence might be a green light for sex? Availability/lack of parental presence is only one factor in guys decision to advance for sex. By now, doesn't he know how you feel about this, regardless of your parents presence? If he doesn't, then you guys aren't yet close enough and trusting enough to spend some unsupervised time alone.

[LoneWanderer]

just tell him your not ready, if he really likes you he should understand, remember Your body is a temple and only you have the key! =P

[BlackenedSilver]

I havnt actually asked my parents yet.. that might be something I should do.
I spent sometime with him yesterday and i dont think he is ready yet either.. but then again.. I dont want him to say no because he doesnt want me to come on to him or something.. I think I will just ask him to cinema for now.. lol
Thanks everyone!
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