wierd

[arron3]

i'm 14 and i started noticing my underarm hair growing in so i was taking a shower i was in there longer than normal and i guess my mom was wondering if i was masterbating so when i got out and went to my room to change she told me to take off my towel to she if everything was normal down there. i felt inbarist bc she was asking me that and also bc i my penis wasnt that big(about 2 inches erect) and i only had little bit amount of pubic hair. is that normal for a mom to do.

[Antares]

I don't understand. What did she do? Did she just look or did she stare or did she touch it?

I think it's not normal for a mom to touch your penis but I am not sure what she did.

[arron3]

she just looked at it

[pontiacdriver]

I don't think it was right for your Mum to look at your privates, and it would not be wrong of you to tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her looking down there. After all, you are not a little kid anymore, and you don't have to show anyone your naked body unless you choose to do so.

You are just curious about your body and development, and don't ever let anyone, even your Mum, make you feel self-conscious about your growing or normal male activities. There is nothing wrong with masturbating as long as it is done in moderation and is not taking up all of your free time.

[Muffins]

Hmm i think its Ok depending on your age, if your say around your age i would say your old enough and you should have privacy, I probable wouldnt be too embarrased probable abit but not much, Was your penis errect when she looked at it?

I personally would be abit annoyed but if i was younger i wouldnt care.

My mum still see's me naked sometimes [Not often anymore] sometimes my penis was errect but she didnt say anything [Its usually errect after showers thats usually when she see's me.] she probable knows im a growing Teen and stuff happens around now, she hasnt asked for ages, infact i dont remember her asking to look at all, she probable just looked i didnt care. :D


Its just motherly stuff they just want to make sure your ok and stuff make sure everythings normal [Even though it gets annoying] I would say maybe next time just say "Mum im old enough now" or something like that im sure she would understand your need for privacy. ;)

[Antares]

she just looked at it

Oh if thats the case and she just looked at it then it is not bad. It is not typical I don't think but it is not out of the ordinary. I think that it is okay and you should nto feel concerned but I will also say that not a lot of mothers do that.

If she touched it then that would be weird.

[Requin]

Well it's not what people call 'Normal'. But if she just acted in her best interests for her son then that's fine.
I wouldn't want mine to do that to me. And if she asks you again, tell her no, as this sounds a bit wierd the more she would ask you to do it.
I doubt that will happen, i'm just saying...never mind.
I'm not sure if i beleive this post completely anyway as it sounds a bit strange.

[byee]

I suppose everyone has their own definition of 'normal', what is 'typical'. Does your mom typically ask to see you naked? Do you typically experience her as intrusive? Is she nosey?

People are entitled to privacy, no matter their age. I think maybe that's what you're responding to, your mom, eventhough she's your mom, used her authority over you to have you do something that you really weren't comfortable with, exposing your naked body for her inspection.

I think, depending on your family and how it works, for the future, you might want to use this uncomfortable feeling when asked to do something that you're not comfortble with, as a signal that you should ask 'why', and maybe respond to whatever issue or question your mom has without necessarily compromising your pirvacy. If she was concerned about your development, for instance, if she just asked you, you could have responded with your words, rather than a show and tell.

Next time, ask her why and talk about whatever issue she has.

[Master Bait]

There is nothing illegal w/ what she did. She was your mother, and there fore have authority over you until you leave the household. But say know next time if you feel uncomfortable. It was an intrusion of privaacy, and you gain the right can stop her if you over 13 years of age, I think.