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SourSkittles
August 26th, 2008, 10:42 AM
alright
I uhh... experiment with my friend. I sometimes jack him off and suck him and he does the same...
what if I want more? what if I want actual sex is that gay cuz I'm not sure how I feel about wanting more but... I'm so confused!!
byee
August 26th, 2008, 11:16 AM
I don't know if wanting gay sex makes you gay (there's more to being gay than sex), but what you want certainly doesn't qualify as straight, and frankly I don't think it qualifies as 'experimentation' or 'curiosity' anymore, as you've done enough here to determine that you like it, you're doing it b/c you enjoy it, you've gotten your data, and you've made a decision.
If you continue with this, just remember that it means something, and you should be aware of that. And, also remember that there's another person involved who might have different feelings and expectations than yours, and you might want to clarify what those are before you proceed.
Master Bait
August 26th, 2008, 07:50 PM
It should be just raging hormones.
But there is a chance that you are gay. But dont take it to seriously if you are.
pontiacdriver
August 26th, 2008, 09:48 PM
alright
I uhh... experiment with my friend. I sometimes jack him off and suck him and he does the same...
what if I want more? what if I want actual sex is that gay cuz I'm not sure how I feel about wanting more but... I'm so confused!!
The minute that your friendship turns into something sexual changes the whole relationship between you and your friend. Personally, I think that nothing good can come out of experimenting as things usually end up becoming weird between you and the other person. I would avoid doing anything else with your friend unless you know for a fact that he is also gay and would not be repulsed by your request. Just be very careful about asking your friend as you don't want to end your friendship or other people finding out about what you two do to one another if you want to keep your activities quiet.
Neverender
August 27th, 2008, 02:49 AM
alright
I uhh... experiment with my friend. I sometimes jack him off and suck him and he does the same...
what if I want more? what if I want actual sex is that gay cuz I'm not sure how I feel about wanting more but... I'm so confused!!
hormones and horniness. not gay, curious
Requin
August 27th, 2008, 10:56 AM
Just wanting to have the physical side of relationship with your friend shows that it's most likely just hormones. You have to be physically and mentally attracted to the same sex to even be considered as being gay. As Sam said, there's more to being gay than sex, and it's just you being curious. THat's all don't worry.
But if you take it any further with your friend then it won't do your frienship any good. In fact it will ruin your friendship.
So either keep doing what your doing now, as long as you BOTH want to and no more.
Or stop, simple and easy, it's your decision.
homerallii1
August 27th, 2008, 03:22 PM
But, Since you've determined that you enjoy what your doing. And have apparently done it numerous times, That may make you gay, as IAMSAM said. You're No longer experimenting as much as something more... Sentual.
Although it COULD be raging hormones. You need to Determine whether you have feelings for this guy, OR whether it's just physical
Voleurz
August 29th, 2008, 01:59 AM
Wow, it must be nice, but you are just curious, i was to, but know i know wat i like...
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