What can I do?

[zackF.]

Last night I was partying with some friends and ended up getting with this girl. We started having sex but she was like "wait...I can't do this" we stopped and we were laying there and she started crying. I asked her what was wrong and she said that I probably thought she was a whore and she is stupid. I don't think she is either and I like her a lot but I don't know what to really do. I also don't think she might not go out with me after what happened. What should I say to her?

[Rutherford The Brave]

Well, just tell her that you did in fact rush it and that she is not a whore. People make mistakes but I hope you made a protected mistake ;). Just ease her into it and ask her out tell her you'll wait.

[Nihilus]

Well, just tell her that you did in fact rush it and that she is not a whore. People make mistakes but I hope you made a protected mistake ;). Just ease her into it and ask her out tell her you'll wait.

Great post dude.::DRep+. when I can......

[byee]

Tell her you're really sorry, that you didn't mean to put her in a situation that would make her think this, that you really like her, and want to see her and get to know her and won't do this again.

A gentleman always apologizes for a situation that is awkward or unsettling or uncomfortable for someone else. It defuses the humiliation the other person is feeling, and allows them to let go of it and move on. In this case, as you've said, hopefully with you.