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Patriot
November 2nd, 2005, 03:50 PM
HI, ive been going out with a girl for only about 4-5 weeks now, but i do very much like her and she feels the same way. After the first time we met we spent everyday together for a week or so and it was great. We both enjoyed spending the same amount of time together and we didnt once get bored of eachother, which usually happened with previous girls. But because of her senior exams she was unable to do anything much for 3-4 weeks or so.
We barely saw eachother throughout this time, which i can understand because of obvious reasons, but ever since she finnished which was acouple of days ago, it feels as if we dont have the same bond.
Before her exams we went to all extremes just so we could spend a little bit of time together, but now its just not the same.
We still talk a lot but i dunno....
Her seing another guy has crossed my mind but doesnt really worry me.
I find myself daydreaming about her all the time and waiting around for phone calls, I turn down friends offers to go out in the hope she will ask to do something. I want things to go back to the way they were, but im just not sure if im paranoid or if it is something to be worried about.

Any opinions or help would be appreciated :)

kolte
November 2nd, 2005, 03:51 PM
talk to her, thats all you can do

Patriot
November 2nd, 2005, 03:57 PM
I do all the time, and she seems to think it is going fine but i dunno, i think im just worrying myself to much. :?

Elokyn
November 2nd, 2005, 05:04 PM
talk to her and tell her that.....maybe somethings up...somtimes though the new just wears off and that's the way it is. Ask her.

blue_berry_icecream
November 2nd, 2005, 05:14 PM
it seems like she mabye is busy or she found someone new

Patriot
November 2nd, 2005, 05:24 PM
Hey we always talk about everything, its the most open relationship and already have asked her on a few occasions, she doesnt think anythings wrong and i believe her but its not the same as it was before her exams, i spose i jus have to take her word for it.

Would her on her periods cause her to act a little strange? (ladies?)

Elokyn
November 2nd, 2005, 05:26 PM
maybe, or she may just not be into it anymore. You can't just talk and listen to how she feels and what she thinks and take her word for it. If she's not gonna SHOW you, then forget it. You have to tell her how you feel also.

Patriot
November 2nd, 2005, 05:35 PM
Could there be the possibilty that she may not want to spend as much time together (we did spend a large amount of the day/night together)
Do you think spending a little less time together is a good thing?
Its just confusing, cause she always tells me that she thinks about me all the time and wants be with me all the time, but its as if she doesnt go out of here way anymore to see me, its as if she only does it if it suits her.