am i gay???

[habone]

i have done all sexual stuff with a guy,

i have never done anything sexual with a girl,

whenever i jack off to porn, it's always gay porn,

i have looked at straight porn b4, but i like gay porn better,

whenever i fantasize, it's alays about guys,

i used to have sexual dreams about girls, but lately, i havenot, that i remember,

i do dream abot being with guys,

when at the beach, i find myself staringat hott guys, rather than girls,

i enjoy being on the "receiving" end of sexual encounters, though i'd prefer giving,


i dont want to be, but...



am i gay?

[Nihilus]

well first of all how old are you? You may want to wait until the end of puberty to say that you are gay. It may be a hormone thing so wait it out.

[Axellance]

Umm i hate to break it to you dude but I'm my opinion you are most definitely gay or at least bi. Many people here will tell you its puberty, but we cannot blame all our feelings on puberty. Mild attraction to men and occasional masturbation sessions while thinking about man can be explained by puberty. However. it sounds to me like you rarely even think about girls sexually. So now you need to work on accepting it. Please so not avoid the issue blaming it on puberty. It is really hard to admit it to yourself but in the end you feel alot better knowing who you are.

[Gumleaf]

boys puberty - teen sexuality

[habone]

i am 18 years old

[habone]

Umm i hate to break it to you dude but I'm my opinion you are most definitely gay or at least bi. Many people here will tell you its puberty, but we cannot blame all our feelings on puberty. Mild attraction to men and occasional masturbation sessions while thinking about man can be explained by puberty. However. it sounds to me like you rarely even think about girls sexually. So now you need to work on accepting it. Please so not avoid the issue blaming it on puberty. It is really hard to admit it to yourself but in the end you feel alot better knowing who you are.

i don't want to be gay...and i don't think im bi...i don't like the idea of both...

is there any way i can change myself?

[Mzor203]

Sorry, but if you do come out of puberty and you are gay, there is nothing that can be done about it. It's who you are and there's nothing wrong with it, you'll just have to learn to accept it. If you have to you could probably still go through your life and try to find a female partner you really like and try to act as if you were straight, but it might not work, and there's no way you can change the mental mindset.

Just remember, there is nothing wrong with being gay.

[Oblivion]

Usually I would say your in puberty, and its hormones, but since your 18 i agree with Axel.
You are probably gay or bi, since you enjoy it all so much.
But, you should never hide yourself.
Be proud of who you are!

But, there isn't really a way to change yourself unless you want to be unhappy for your whole life.

[iceyfresh]

you sound gay but you could be bi curious but also you need to know gay straight bi all that crap are just labels what realy matters is what your heart says and how you feel

[Ceilidh]

i don't want to be gay...and i don't think im bi...i don't like the idea of both...

is there any way i can change myself?
Well, no... you can't change who you're attracted to.

You're probably gay or bi curious, at the end of the day you're the one who knows who you're attracted to not us.

Either way there's nothing wrong with being gay/bi.

[Requin]

I'm afraid you cannot be what your not. I won't say about if I think your gay because everyone else has got it right.
But chin up! You'll have to accept what you are first. It's probably the most difficult thing to accept in sexual orientation, not the fact that you fancy the same sex, or what other people think (which by the way, doesn't matter).

It won't be easy, no one pretends that it is. Just remember, it's your life, no one can take that away from you (relatively speaking), so whatever other's think means total shite to you.
You'll get through it alright, so don't worry. Just take it as things go 8-)

[waterplayer]

no i don't think you are that is EXACTLY what happened (and still is) to me but if you aren't emotionally attatched to guy and you only want gay sex you are probably not gay:rolleyes:

[karabiner]

i don't want to be gay...and i don't think im bi...i don't like the idea of both...

is there any way i can change myself?

why would you want to change yourself? i know that often there are a few that will discriminate (you dont bother with them, btw) but if you are gay, then this is who you are! dont change for what others want you to be, and just accept whatever you are. trust me, it makes you feel a lot better if you accept yourself instead of forcing it out of your mind. if you know yourself, you don't need to worry about what others will think of you.

[habone]

it has gotten to the point where don't even look at girls anymore.

i find myself picturing me in the future...married to a guy...

i have had a boyfriend (secretly). that ended when he found it was only a test but i enjoyed it while it lasted...

i still am afraid and need convincing, though


am i really gay???

i nevr thought it would happen to me............

[Callwaiting]

Don't look at it as a bad thing, it's not something which is inflicted upon you.
There's nothing at all wrong with being gay or bi, seriously! People don't care that their friends are gay, if that's what you're worried about. I can understand that it would be hard to accept, but it really doesn't change anything except your choice of partners. You don't have to talk, walk or dress differently, you don't have to go to the Mardi Gras; you're exactly the same person as you were before, and from what you said you enjoyed having a male partner, so enjoy yourself!

[alsoknownas]

well try a girl and a boy and if the girl is no fun then im guessing homosexual

[habone]

im pretty sure of what i am...but i need more convincing...

i don't want to end up making therong decision and regretting it for life.


what do you all think?

[George678]

Are you attracted to boys emiotionally?

[Zan0ra]

Ok. To be gay you have to physically (on the outside) and emotionally (on the inside) love a member if your own sex. If you cant picture yourself ever being with them, loving them etc. Then no, your not. That is the very first decision you need to make. And we cant help you with that. Under your current circumstances I would say that you are probably gay. It sounds like you have no sexual, mental, emotional feelings for girls what so ever. But, like I said. Only you know who you are. Not us.

[chris__batman]

Umm i hate to break it to you dude but I'm my opinion you are most definitely gay or at least bi. Many people here will tell you its puberty, but we cannot blame all our feelings on puberty. Mild attraction to men and occasional masturbation sessions while thinking about man can be explained by puberty. However. it sounds to me like you rarely even think about girls sexually. So now you need to work on accepting it. Please so not avoid the issue blaming it on puberty. It is really hard to admit it to yourself but in the end you feel alot better knowing who you are.


I agree I think you should be working on accepting that you are not hetero, but you sound like you enjoy what your doing so i suggest you just do that and just enjoy it. :D