Many questions! Please help me!

[Black Wolf]

I have lots of questions that I need answered:

1. Whenever I masturbate, my anus feels really wet. Is this normal? Why is this?
2. I can only ever orgasm when I watch porn. However, I feel guilty about watching it. What should I do?
3. I am obsessed with anal porn videos, yet I know I am straight. Why is this?
4. I masturbate once or twice a day, but for some reason I need to have 2 or 3 orgasms before any cum appears. Why?
5. I often masturbate again a minute or two after an orgasm and lots of urine comes out. Why?
6. I really really really like a girl in my grade that I have liked (almost loved) since term 2 yr 8 (It is now term 3 yr 10). However, I don't like her in any sexual way at all. Why??
7. I am nearly 15, yet I have come just once and I am not even sure if it was cum or urine (this was earlier today), my pubic hair has only just started growing, I have no armpit hair and my voice has not broken yet. I feel really bad at school when people pretend to imitate me at school and speak in really high voices. Why haven't I developed yet?
8. I was watching porn on the laptop in the office with the door closed when my mum walked in. We have two desks and mine is furthest from the door, but I don't know if she noticed or not. She hasn't mentioned it, but I am really worried that if she does catch me I will be in really big trouble. What should I do? As it is, i can barely masturbate unless I stay up really late and sneak the laptop into my room, or if my whole family goes out.
9. My family is very opposed to masturbation and porn, but I just can't help masturbating, which means I have to watch porn. What should I do?
10. I would like to experiment with masturbating with friends, but i don't even know if anyone else actually does. And if I asked one of my friends, it would go round school like wildfire, and the aforementioned girl would completely annihilate our friendship, plus I would face even more bullying than I get now. What should I do?
11. The girl I like (her name is Lauren), another of my friends and I have gone to plays on two separate occasions and plan on going to another one later this year. Lauren and I are quite good friends, but when one of my friends as a cruel joke yelled "HEY LAUREN, WILL YOU GO OUT WITH TRISTAN??" at lunch once, she stopped speaking to me for a while, as did Michelle (the other person who comes to the theatre with us), even though I explained that it was just Matt being mean to me. Whenever someone brings up the subject of me liking her, she gets very embarrassed and either finds someone else to talk to or just leaves. Does that mean she likes me?

Please answer these. Thankyou

[byee]

I have lots of questions that I need answered:

1. Whenever I masturbate, my anus feels really wet. Is this normal? Why is this?
2. I can only ever orgasm when I watch porn. However, I feel guilty about watching it. What should I do?
3. I am obsessed with anal porn videos, yet I know I am straight. Why is this?
4. I masturbate once or twice a day, but for some reason I need to have 2 or 3 orgasms before any cum appears. Why?
5. I often masturbate again a minute or two after an orgasm and lots of urine comes out. Why?
6. I really really really like a girl in my grade that I have liked (almost loved) since term 2 yr 8 (It is now term 3 yr 10). However, I don't like her in any sexual way at all. Why??

Please answer these. Thankyou

1) Hmmm.....I'm at a loss as to why your anus would be wet. Maybe the lube you use, or pre cum drips down there? The penis and anus aren't interconnected, so there's no reason arousal should lead to anal wetness. Maybe the normal fluids in there leak out?

2) Guilt can be addressed either by understanding it and doing something else with it, or by avoiding the thing that makes you feel guilty. It would help to try to understand (or explain to us) exactly what about porn makes you feel guilty. But generally, either you address the guilt so it's not there, or you avoid the thing making you feel guilty.


3) You seem to have some stuff with the anal region, the wetness, now the porn. There are lots of reasons people find things arousing, you can try to figure that out, too. But, what turns you on is not indicative of your sexuality, it's just a measure of what you find arousing.

4) Usually, the most ejaculate (cum) comes out at the first orgasm. If your saying that more comes out at later ones, I'd wonder if you're really having a full orgasm before.

5) The urine would come out on subsequent orgasms b/c you have to urinate. B'twn sessions, you might get up and go to the bathroom and empty your bladder.

6) Sexual feelings sometimes take a while to develop, esp. when we've known the person for a while in a non sexual way. So, if you've known this girl for some time, then you might experience her in that non sexual way still. Although we're conditioned by the media (TV and movies) that guys should always be ready for sex and want it with anyone, anytime, that is not accurate. What you're feeling is more typical.

[Black Wolf]

I don't use lube, i have never needed it. It just gets wet, nothing comes out, but it feels very weird. Also, nothing ever comes out before I orgasm.

Orgasms: After 3-4 minutes of masturbating, M legs get really tight and my penis I get a strange intense feeling, then my penis gets really sensitive and the muscles in it contract at about 1 second intervals for a little while

[Maxismax123]

11. There is no way of predicting the outcomes of the female mind...

[byee]

Ah, I see you edited your list since I answered.


7) Everyone develops differently, at their own rate. Hang in there, it'll all happen for you, Until then, try to ignore the rude comments.

8) If your folks are against porn, and your mum walked in while you were watching it and saw you, we have to assume she'd comment then and there. If she hasn't, be very careful about doing this in the future.

9) Why are your folks against masturbation? It is a perfectly normal activity that everyone (including them) does. If they've come right out and told you that these things are 'wrong', I suppose you have to make a choice for yourself about what to do. At the very least, if you continue, out of respect for their views (even if you do not agree with them), you should be very careful not to do any of this in a way that would bring it to their attention.

10) Given the issues and questions you've expressed so far, I think you might want to get more comfortable with all this privately, before you engage in it with others.

11) The only way to know for sure what Lauren feels is to either ask her, or wait for her to share it. People are usually pretty good at letting you know if they really dont like you, so maybe her response is just a discomfort with the teasing way others are bringing it up, no one likes to be teased. Continue to be with her and enjoy her and just take it for granted that she would have to like you to spend time with you, and see what develops.

With regards to your orgasm description, it sounds like you might be close, but not there. When you have an orgasm, you'll know it, it's a rhythmic contraction of that little muscle between the scrotum and anus, as well as a throbbing of the penis accompanied by a rather intense feeling of well being and relaxation, along with rapid heart rate and breathing.

[Black Wolf]

I am fairly sure My parents do not masturbate. Neither of them have the time. They do have sex occasionally (I once stumbled across a half empty pack of condoms in my dad's bedside table when I was trying to find something for him). I don't know why they are so against it, but I am too scared to ask. I know they are against it because my two siblings are quite immature and often make jokes about and pretend to masturbate, and mum nearly goes off her head.

[byee]

Your folks might not masturbate now, but since everyone masturbates at some point in their lives, it means they did, too.

People have different values, usually by the time kids are teens, they've figured out their family's values. If your younger sibs fake masturbating to get mum's attention, and she reacts, all this really proves is that you have very smart siblings. Her reaction doesn't necessarily mean she's against masturbation, just their oversexualization, since they're too young to be doing that, anyway, and especially in front of mum.


Regardless, though, you have to make your own choice. Sexuality is normal, and the urge to masturbate (and to do it) is biological, it's like sweating on a hot day.

[Black Wolf]

My sister is not that young, she is in yr 8, and she is the main perpetrator. I said immature not younger

[Black Wolf]

I have been thinking while away from the computer, and I think I feel guilty about looking at porn because whenever the subject is brought up in my family, my parents and siblings are very very opposed to it, which makes me feel bad about watching it.

I also have another question:

12. I really want to give myself a blowjob. Is that weird?

[Neverender]

1. Whenever I masturbate, my anus feels really wet. Is this normal? Why is this? i have no clue
2. I can only ever orgasm when I watch porn. However, I feel guilty about watching it. What should I do? Fantasize. Do not watch porn. its a vacuum that requires more and more with each session
3. I am obsessed with anal porn videos, yet I know I am straight. Why is this? Hormones?
4. I masturbate once or twice a day, but for some reason I need to have 2 or 3 orgasms before any cum appears. Why? Ummm. maybe your not that progressed into puberty that your balls are making that much sperm? or possibly a problem with your Vas Defrens
5. I often masturbate again a minute or two after an orgasm and lots of urine comes out. Why? Urine? I have no clue
6. I really really really like a girl in my grade that I have liked (almost loved) since term 2 yr 8 (It is now term 3 yr 10). However, I don't like her in any sexual way at all. Why?? -
7. I am nearly 15, yet I have come just once and I am not even sure if it was cum or urine (this was earlier today), my pubic hair has only just started growing, I have no armpit hair and my voice has not broken yet. I feel really bad at school when people pretend to imitate me at school and speak in really high voices. Why haven't I developed yet? Late Bloomer
8. I was watching porn on the laptop in the office with the door closed when my mum walked in. We have two desks and mine is furthest from the door, but I don't know if she noticed or not. She hasn't mentioned it, but I am really worried that if she does catch me I will be in really big trouble. What should I do? As it is, i can barely masturbate unless I stay up really late and sneak the laptop into my room, or if my whole family goes out. Stop Watching porn, Fantasize.
9. My family is very opposed to masturbation and porn, but I just can't help masturbating, which means I have to watch porn. What should I do? See above
10. I would like to experiment with masturbating with friends, but i don't even know if anyone else actually does. And if I asked one of my friends, it would go round school like wildfire, and the aforementioned girl would completely annihilate our friendship, plus I would face even more bullying than I get now. What should I do? Its normal behavior and many teens do it.
11. The girl I like (her name is Lauren), another of my friends and I have gone to plays on two separate occasions and plan on going to another one later this year. Lauren and I are quite good friends, but when one of my friends as a cruel joke yelled "HEY LAUREN, WILL YOU GO OUT WITH TRISTAN??" at lunch once, she stopped speaking to me for a while, as did Michelle (the other person who comes to the theatre with us), even though I explained that it was just Matt being mean to me. Whenever someone brings up the subject of me liking her, she gets very embarrassed and either finds someone else to talk to or just leaves. Does that mean she likes me? Not nessarily

[Black Wolf]

I have tried fantasizing on many occassions. I am careful to only watch free porn so I do not waste any money.