My version of "am i gay"

[justonequestion]

Alright, i know what you all are going to say. You can only be gay if you are EMOTIONALLY and PHYSICALLY attracted to both sexes, you'll know if you look into your heart, blah blah blah, all that jazz... But the thing is, i dont know whats in my heart. My mind (and yes, my cock) tell me that i am attracted to guys, but in my heart, i want to grow up, marry the girl i have a crush on, and have kids to tell stories to. I want a family, i want to live the life i've always dreamed of, but the only thing that stops me is that im not attracted to girls. I just need a bit of advice on where to go from here.

[The Batman]

So pretty much you like guys but you want to be with girls. Ok with something like this there is really nothing we can do. All of this can only be solved by you. Maybe you shouldn't date for a while and try and find what you really want. And don't just want something cause it looks nice on the outside.

[justonequestion]

I know you can't tell me if im gay or not but... is there anyone else who went through this? how did it work out?

[Axellance]

It sounds to me like you are gay but you want the dream family with kids and such. Don't worry homosexual couples can adopt and you can still have that life you want without living a lie.

[Neverender]

hormones. maybe. i have no clue. we cant help you. only you know if your gay..unless you can hook up a usb port to your brain and we can see it on the computer in big red letters.

[Sapphire]

It's probably just hormones. Let your body get through puberty and settle back into a regular rhythm before you start sticking labels on yourself.

[shikachunin]

Well, could it be possible that you're bisexual(you like boys AND girls)?

[Oblivion]

If you aren't mentally/emotionally attracted to men, It's most likely curiosity/hormones.
Keep in mind though being gay or bi is in no way bad.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

look if you want a family with a girl is going to be all a lie and not going to be all that happy and like people say you can adopt and have kids like a normal family and there is no difference

[Sean]

I know you can't tell me if im gay or not but... is there anyone else who went through this? how did it work out? yes i have except im only slightly atracted to guyz im not sure if im gay or not and i dont want to be

[MrTeen14]

im kida going through this now, and i say, just try both and see what you like better,

although i am still posting for help on this, this is what i would say to you, and i would use this as an answer for me but i wanna see what other people think about my issue

[TwilightMode]

Yeah you know what i feel the same way as you. Like i KNOW im gay but.. For my whole life i wanted what u wanted. But like I would have a relationship with a women, i love women but i wouldnt like have sex with them or anything.

[Requin]

I'm going through it too. Only i fancy a girl aswell as a boy at the moment so it's very confusing for me at the mo.

Personally, i think that if, people like us who fancy guys but want to have a marriage to a girl have a family etc. There's a chance that we're not gay. But we can't tell, we're just going to have to wait and see until our hormones have stopped playing with are minds and feelings.

And now i'm going to mention that 'physical and emotional' stuff you want us to avoid.
But honestly, if we can't imagine ourselves as settling down with a guy in the future, then honestly that means were NOT attracted to men emotionally.
That's my view on this anyway, it's a sticky situation so the best thing i think we could do is just wait, be patient, let puberty pass, and hope for the best.

BUT, and yes i'm not done. We can't change what we are, so if we do turn out gay, we're jsut going to have to accept it. But that's for another post.

[JonnyPDee]

Take a look at James Dean... Have an urge to masturbate? No = Straight Yes = Gay