View Full Version : What age do you think its time to have sex?
daza1471
August 21st, 2008, 03:00 PM
What age do you reckon is the right age to have sex, NOT THE LEGAL AGE. but the age you think it right to
-or-
what age you think you will have sex?
soz i couldnt make my mind up lol
The Batman
August 21st, 2008, 03:02 PM
The age at which both people can responsibly deal with the consequences if anything goes wrong.
Oblivion
August 21st, 2008, 07:27 PM
Personally I would at 18-20+
Rutherford The Brave
August 21st, 2008, 07:32 PM
When your ready, and mature. Sex is a awful thing and shouldn't be tossed around as something you do every weekend with someone different. Sex is a gift, but you have to control it. It's good while it lasts but in the long run it can get bad, like cheese.
Neverender
August 21st, 2008, 08:39 PM
well you can have sex whenever your ready. its not like an age thing, you could be 13 and be ready to have sex or you could be 16 and not ready to have sex. its all up to the person.
Requin
August 22nd, 2008, 07:45 AM
Sex is not a thing you plan. You don't go, "Oh i'm going to have sex at 18"
You should save it for someone special and someone who you really love. That way, it's more special. That's what i'm doing anyway :-)
As the brilliant Frankie Boyle put it, "Teenagers shouldn't be practicing sports everyday, go to the park, drink some cider, have some disapointing sex"
Zan0ra
August 22nd, 2008, 09:14 AM
when both people are truly ready and comfortable with it.
Vermillion
August 22nd, 2008, 12:47 PM
What is the best age to have sex? ¿Qué-way?
Having sex isn't like getting a driver's license where you have to be a certain age, or "grow into" having it. Though I will say sex isn't always tied in with love (Nay, sex is usually never tied in with love), a lot of people that I know my age just have sex to just have sex.
Which is digusting, and makes them sluts but that's not my point. My pont is one is ready to have sex if both partners are ready, and if the male partner (In a heterosexual relationship) isn't a dumbass.
I mean really, there aren't too many women that I know of who would ask the male for sex. It's usually the other way around and a lot of times the female is persuaded into it.
So yeah, can't really vote. I would've chosen the 14-17 one (Because it seems when people turn 17 they MUST have sex) but 3 year is too large of a gap =/
(P.S. I kinda forgot to point out that, for me, sex is only for partners who truly love each other. Too many people use sex's pleasures just because they can. I'd want love kthx =P)
MoveAlong
August 22nd, 2008, 10:13 PM
I think by the time I am 18 and on I'll have my first relationship. I'm not planning on having any relationships till then, so I believe I'll be in college by the time I would have the chance to get a piece of man-ass
As far as right?...that's not my decision. But in my opinion, you should not be ignorant about sex, and you should both be close and ready to take it to the next, more intimate level.
The Batman
August 22nd, 2008, 10:24 PM
I'll date you in three years zach. That was actually my plan(damn you seleena), but when love calls it calls. I'm still a virgin though so that's good. Anyways sex is more about mentality than age. Once you get your mind ready for sex and think about all the consequences than I believe you are ready.
BeautifulSilence
August 22nd, 2008, 11:09 PM
I've not voted, for the reason that I feel it depends on the person(s)...
Oh, and there's a legal age because that's when we're supposed to be mature enough to consider everything etc. It doesn't necessarily determine when we're supposed to be ready for sex. Just wanted to throw that in.
Nihilus
August 23rd, 2008, 12:07 AM
well it should be 18+.
ZombieCrunch
August 23rd, 2008, 06:40 PM
Sex is not a thing you plan. You don't go, "Oh i'm going to have sex at 18"
You should save it for someone special and someone who you really love. That way, it's more special. That's what i'm doing anyway :-)
As the brilliant Frankie Boyle put it, "Teenagers shouldn't be practicing sports everyday, go to the park, drink some cider, have some disapointing sex"
Aaaaaah, You watched this weeks episode of Mock The Week I see :D .
Personally, I prefer Russel -
" Max mosley doesn't do Nazi themed Orgy's . . . But if he did, they would probably be the best Nazi themed Orgy's in the world "
Most of my friends have lost there virginity ( at least two at the age of 12 ) So I have mixed feelings on this.
I personally think that anyone 15+ Is completely responsible for there own actions.
I feel bad saying it But I think the only reason I haven't lost mine yet Is because Im the only Lesbian/Bisexual girl in my area.
. . .
And just because I like Frankie too -
" Dear points of view -
Watching " Queer eye for the straight guy " Made me think that If I made gay friends, they would give me fashion tips.
Actually, they fucked me "
Sean
August 23rd, 2008, 11:28 PM
What age do you reckon is the right age to have sex, NOT THE LEGAL AGE. but the age you think it right to
-or-
what age you think you will have sex?
soz i couldnt make my mind up lolwhen your ready its different for everybody
NextToNormal
August 25th, 2008, 02:23 PM
honestly, i think that people shouldnt have sex until they are really ready. some people think they are ready for sex but then get embarressed when they go into a store to buy condoms. if thats going to happen, then they truly arent mature enough to be having sex.
Shpadoinkle
August 25th, 2008, 03:56 PM
18-20 is the best time for it.
shikachunin
August 26th, 2008, 09:44 PM
I would say around 16 cuz thats about when most teens have the most hormones.
LuvTitanicxxJack
August 28th, 2008, 08:08 PM
When you love someone, and feel ready to do it with no regrets. Don't waste your first time with "just anyone". Do it when you're ready and so is the other person.
ssgliberty
August 28th, 2008, 08:41 PM
you have to be mature enough like walkin_contradiction you should beable to go buy a condom(or the pill) without getting emmbarressed. other than that i dont madder as long as your ready. and you have to love them.
scott327
September 2nd, 2008, 05:48 PM
I think it depends on the person. I'm 16 and a virgin but I don't think you should before 16 or 17. WEAR A CONDOM!!!
Ceilidh
September 3rd, 2008, 08:30 AM
When your ready, and mature. Sex is a awful thing and shouldn't be tossed around as something you do every weekend with someone different. Sex is a gift, but you have to control it. It's good while it lasts but in the long run it can get bad, like cheese.
lmao I loved that comparison =))
Anyway, I know some people who have lost their virginity when they were 8-13 years old o___0 and I think it's abit sick.
Obviously a child shouldn't be having sex because most of the time they're not emotionaly/physically mature.
Personaly I say about 18+ but I don't think it's wrong for a 16 year old or w/e to be having sex, I just think people should wait until they're abit older.
GRiM47ant
September 5th, 2008, 11:22 PM
well me and my best friend spend alot of time together and one night at his house we almost had sex, but im 13 so i dont know if im ready to be with him. we both love each other, but in public we act like football buddies. i dont know what to do. my body is telling me yes whenever im around him, but my mind is telling me no
TurboDieselBandit
December 5th, 2008, 10:30 PM
When they are married
Originally posted by "Dizco P1nK Lemonade"
...and sex shouldn't be tossed around as something you do every weekend with someone different. Sex is a gift, but you have to control it. It's good while it lasts but in the long run it can get bad, like cheese.
Oblivion
December 5th, 2008, 10:51 PM
This thread is 3 months old,
Please dont bump old threads
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