Do you believe in..

[The Phil]

over seas relationships?

because ive met someone, who litterally is the most amazing person ive ever met.
just their name makes me smile.
However he lives along way away.
Visiting could be very difficult.
I tried not to become attracted to him, but i cant help it..
I need him in my life, and I know he needs me.
it could be along time yet before i see him..
Im willing to wait..im sure he is too..
but..what should I do exactly?

[thesphinx]

Long distant relationships can be difficult so both of you need to talk about it with each other and see if it will work.
Some people don't like Long distant relationships so see what he thinks of them.
My suggestions is to just ask him what he thinks communication is the only way you will know if it is going to work or not.
Good luck!

[Oblivion]

Long distant relationships can be difficult so both of you need to talk about it with each other and see if it will work.
Some people don't like Long distant relationships so see what he thinks of them.
My suggestions is to just ask him what he thinks communication is the only way you will know if it is going to work or not.
Good luck!

I agree.
Also, if you met this person online, there is no guarantee they are the same in real life, or even the same age, or ANYTHING.
It is extremely easy to lie online.
So be safe, and good luck!

[The Batman]

I believe that if both of you are willing to put forth the effort to keep the relationship going then go for it.

[The Phil]

ha thanks! (:
and ive seen him on webcam and stuff obv.
and he seems fairly genuine..
we've talked about it kinda before..
we both kinda..crave eachother really..
however he's kinda..with someone at the moment?
but scince he met me..he doesnt really like them that much

[Rutherford The Brave]

I can hardly deal being away from Noor any amount of time. Theres just something about the comfort I get when I go to bed. Still, overseas/long distance relationships in my opinion are too hard to handle.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yes they are hard but it can also be amazing :) :D and wonderful so i think you guys should go for it ;) good luck

[serial-thrilla]

I can hardly deal being away from Noor any amount of time. Theres just something about the comfort I get when I go to bed. Still, overseas/long distance relationships in my opinion are too hard to handle.
I agree, you kind of lose that intimacy when you don't see the person for weeks or months on end. Or at all in your case.

[zackF.]

Just talk to the guy and see how he feels about it then decide what you want to do. Do be careful if you just met them on the net cause there is a great possibility he is lying about himself (think dateline with those predators) it could work you both just have to be committed to making it work

[Rutherford The Brave]

I agree, you kind of lose that intimacy when you don't see the person for weeks or months on end. Or at all in your case.

Lately I have been with Noor alot so no making fun of me.

[doktored]

The pro's and con's of long-distance relationships;

PRO'S
Meeting them is more important and valuable
Time is more precious
They may live somewhere for a good vacation ;)
Often the love becomes stronger as you both have the feeling that neither wants to let one another go

CON'S
You will miss them often
Seeing them go is ALWAYS a sad exprience
Speaking over webcam isn't ideal
Time Zones means less time together
You never go out

Remember, love is the only thing that keeps people together, if you love him, you will stick with him, and sometimes that's more important than going everywhere with them.

[serial-thrilla]

Lately I have been with Noor alot so no making fun of me. My statement was directed at the maker of this thread.

[The Phil]

Wow (:
thanks for all your opinions!
indeed hes coming down soon.
so..Ill go see him..
hes deffiently..someone I cant let go at all.
and we both seem up for it..so where gonna go for it (:
wish me luck ;D