how do i tell?Please be serious..

[Travtheman95]

i really need to take advantage of this anomonys site and ask a very serious question, i truly think that i am bi, i love the physical site of a naked boy/man,
ive even dreamed of having a boyfriend..i also love to have gf, just as much as a bf,i dont want to go out and say im bi, theres this huge fricken thing at my school where every one says there bi, probly 25% of the population would say that they are at my school...the question is how do i tell?Please be serious.. also should i tell?

[Oblivion]

Your lucky that so many people say they are bi.
A lot of places hate/are against bi or gay/lesbian people.

Anyway, you are 13. Just starting puberty. That means your going to be curious, WITH raging hormones.

You could be straight, bi, or gay. You really just can't tell right now.
Because your curious.

[Gumleaf]

boys puberty > teen sexuality

[Neverender]

i really need to take advantage of this anomonys site and ask a very serious question, i truly think that i am bi, i love the physical site of a naked boy/man,
ive even dreamed of having a boyfriend..i also love to have gf, just as much as a bf,i dont want to go out and say im bi, theres this huge fricken thing at my school where every one says there bi, probly 25% of the population would say that they are at my school...the question is how do i tell?Please be serious.. also should i tell?


i agree fully with Arctic Fox. and your only bi if your Physically and Emotionally attached to men and women. but your 13 with lots of hormones. i dream of having a boyfriend too but i have no clue what my sexuality is. so im Curious

[SEVEN11]

Trave u are very brave if u are going to be proud of it and accept the fact u are bi, but personally i don't think u should tell ppl now. One kid in my class was a bi he got bullied laughed at even worse he was a knew kid so he never got time to make friends i was his friend but he became so hungry to become popularity he started listening to peer pressure and denying the fact he was gay so he fallowed a girl for a week and tried to rape her sadly he was also very weak and got beat up. Hope fully ur friends can be more understanding. Trave the school i come from is horrible my street is full of gang violence and petty theft of course every one afraid of there own shadow here, but its also dangerous so what im telling u is from personal encounters with the situation ur in, with peer pressure in a bad neighborhood. this is coming from all those things hope fully u wont be screwed over like that.

[Requin]

Your only 13. Hormones raging all over your body, confusing your mind and thoughts.
Just wait a while until you commit yourself to a orientation.

[Zan0ra]

You are like me but yeah. Your hormones are raging all over your body. Confusing everything.

[The Batman]

If you really think that you should come out then you shouldn't be worried about how to tell yet, you should be worried about who to tell. When coming out the most important thing is the person your telling because how they react can determine the future of the relationship. Once you figure out who to tell then you worry about how to tell them. http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=25667 I made this to help teens trying to come out so why don't you check it out.

[Requin]

But be absouletly sure what you are first. It wouldn't do you any good mentally or to your social life, if you decided that your not gay. There are people who like to consider themselves 'ex gays' who were gay but told themselves that there not and switched orientations. But if your 100% sure that your gay/bi then follow Tom's post and gain confidence to come out. :-)
Good Luck ~AxLr~

[TurboDieselBandit]

WOW, *I have the same exact feelings*. I really don't want my close friends to judge me or think I am weird (in a bad way). How to tell if some one is bi......talk about arousing things around him or her and ask them what they think them what they think about two guys going out or two girls going out. Also ask them how much would some one have to pay them for them to agree to do something sexual with the same sex.

***I would only tell my most trusted friends how I feel if I were you***

PS: To bad I lately have not had the courage to tell my close friends.

[waterplayer]

i think that you are experiancing raging hormones

[Whisper]

M7C dont bump old threads