I would like to ask her out

[zackF.]

There is this girl at my school I like. We have been friends for a while and hang out a lot too. Her last boyfriend is really hateful and I think if I tried to ask her out he would kill me. (yes literally kill me) I don't know if I should just wait for it all to blow over with him. (they don't go out if you were wondering) or should I just risk it. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

[ShatteredWings]

well

if her ex is that dangerous, i'd just be friendly with her... to be safe ya know

[serial-thrilla]

depends on what you wanna do. Risk getting hurt for someone you really like, or avoid being hurt and don't persue a relationship. Personally i would go for number 1. I've learned that once you conquer fear you will be alot happier in all aspects of life. The ability to fear no man is not an easy one to obtain but has great rewards when you acheive it.

[sabotaged111]

GO FOR IT lifes too short for this stuff, risk it for the one you love. Ive just found out it is better to act as soon as you can or you may lose it.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Woah! Wait a minute; he doesn't LOVE her; he likes her. Sorry, but there is no reason for you to die for some petty highschool relationship that would last a few months tops? That of course is only if he'd really "kill" you. How do you know he'd go that far? If he WOULD, then I'm sorry for the rest of you romantics here, you can't love someone when you're dead :D

[serial-thrilla]

Woah! Wait a minute; he doesn't LOVE her; he likes her. Sorry, but there is no reason for you to die for some petty highschool relationship that would last a few months tops? That of course is only if he'd really "kill" you. How do you know he'd go that far? If he WOULD, then I'm sorry for the rest of you romantics here, you can't love someone when you're dead :D Its about doing what you like, and not fearing what may happen. Life is too short to be afraid of things.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Um.... exactly. Life is too short; too short that you shouldn't want to DIE. I mean I doubt that he'd really kill him but if he's SERIOUS about that (I've seen some pretty mean ex boyfriends before) why the hell would you get yourself killed over some girl? I mean, if it was your FIANCE that would be totally different. But this is just some girl that he "kinda likes". Not worth it, unless he's SURE that this guy won't harm him physically. What's the point of being a "happy couple" for two days when he kills you on the third day? xD

[serial-thrilla]

Um.... exactly. Life is too short; too short that you shouldn't want to DIE. I mean I doubt that he'd really kill him but if he's SERIOUS about that (I've seen some pretty mean ex boyfriends before) why the hell would you get yourself killed over some girl? I mean, if it was your FIANCE that would be totally different. But this is just some girl that he "kinda likes". Not worth it, unless he's SURE that this guy won't harm him physically. What's the point of being a "happy couple" for two days when he kills you on the third day? xD
Because he wont kill him, sure he may try to fight him but so what? are you going to be afraid of people or stand up for what you want regardless? man or mouse? which do you wanna be?

[zackF.]

Because he wont kill him, sure he may try to fight him but so what? are you going to be afraid of people or stand up for what you want regardless? man or mouse? which do you wanna be?

I believe he could quite possibly kill me. He has had guns ponted at him and still beat the person up. But the girl is so nice and sweet

[serial-thrilla]

I believe he could quite possibly kill me. He has had guns ponted at him and still beat the person up. But the girl is so nice and sweet
Then the people holding the guns at him fail at life. Man its your call. Clearly my mentality is alot different then everyone elses. Just remember, pain is temporary. If he really wants to hurt you then give it all you got and if you lose, at least you tried. And continue to persue this girl. Don't let any punk ass bitch (because thats what he is if he attacks you for liking his ex) try to threaten you with violence.

[ILOVEYOU]

if i was you, I would fight with him, and in the end of the fight (which i've won the fight" i would say to him "I Dont Like To See You Around My Girl Anymore". thats the thing i would do. but if he is really dangerous, and Bigger than you, so get a gun of baseball bat or even a knife to defend yourself at the fight.
if you have friendly ways to get him off from your love, so friendly way is better. no one hurts.
i hope it was helpful, lol