i have a question and need some opinions..?

[tsjnseran]

okay so about 3 summers ago[which would make me 12] me and my boyfriend had a serious relationship going on. so one day my parents were not home and we were fooling around in my room in the basement.....


my boyfriend at the time didnt have any condoms so he decided to use seran wrap...

could this have been a bad mistake???

please respond.

-Julia

[Malcolm Tucker]

Yes it was. Never use any "alternative" methods of contraception, EVER. Remember that it could've been bad, you could've gotten pregnant.

[Whisper]

I removed you last name for your safety
Please be careful on the net hun

it wasn't the best idea
but if it was 3 summers ago and you've yet to see a major issue
I think you're in the clear
I wouldn't do it in the future

[tsjnseran]

but my brother had walked in on us [we didnt know he was home] and he told me boyfriend that seran wrap was fine and nothing would happen so we kept going at it...

i was only 12 at the age so i didnt know it was a bad mistake.. and after i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me..

was this a little too young to start doing stuff???

[Malcolm Tucker]

and after i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me..

was this a little too young to start doing stuff???

We can't answer this. Only you can know the "too young" question, no one else. But generally, yes it is too young. Well In my opinion it is.

[tsjnseran]

alright well i have another one...

i ahve been keeping this secreat from my friends since it happened.. should i tell them.. i think they know cuz my ex bf told everyone in my freaking school!!!!!!!! and i dont want them to be mad at me cuz i keep denying it.... HELP ME MICHAEL!!

[homerallii1]

Well, If your boyfriend already leaked the secret, chances are they know it happened. If you wish to keep denying it, that's your choice. But your friends most likely know what happened. I, personally would just say, "Yes, it did happen, but it was a mistake that i'm not willing to make again."

That way, they'll be more conciderate

[Neverender]

well if your boyfriend used saran wrap instead of a condom and it happened 3 years ago i doubt your pregnant unless your an elephant

[Master Bait]

Well, its your choice to keep denying it or not. If you dont want to, then I dont think screaming "So what?! Stop bothering me just because I have and you havent" is a good idea. If their your friends ask nicely. If you hate them, well... Thats something that isnt avoidable w/o getting caught by the cops.

Menchion, an elephant only stays pregnant for 2 years, not three.

[ktkurbst0mp]

You have to be very careful.
Without correct protection theres more than just pregnancy that can happen. You could get an STD that syptoms haven't surfaced yet.
There's things like HPV that could cause cervical cancer.

You just have to be careful.
And honestly, if you're not prepared, you're not ready. And it's best just not to do it.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

but my brother had walked in on us [we didnt know he was home] and he told me boyfriend that seran wrap was fine and nothing would happen so we kept going at it...



That's insanely stupid. Your brother (at the time) seems to have known even LESS than you two did about sex at the time (which was next to nothing). How old is he? I suggest that you don't take his advice on sexual questions in the future; he's in no way giving you proper or sound advice.

[HikaruTheHunter]

Question, at twelve, what the hell were you doing having sex? Not to be rude, but I think you should've waited at least. And as for the contraceptive, don't use anything but approved, 95% protective products.

[leptoon]

Plastic wrap is not a good idea at all. It can break and that wouldn't be good. The only reasonable substitute for a condom that actually works (to an extent) is latex gloves. If you have the right sized glove, just snip off the longest finger. It works better than plastic wrap because its not going to break when the guy ejaculates, but it may not fit so semen could still leak. All in all, its always a better idea to use a condom.

[YourFriend]

You shouldn't have sex at 12 and you should ALWAYS use condoms!

[BlackenedSilver]

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