uhh i dont like family

[emecrazy]

Is it wrong that i do not like my family at all??
Like i dont hate them but i would chose friends over family any day
I Moved to Pa in like April and lately me and my mom have been fighting because i want to move back.... she said i am old enough to chose where i wanna live... but she said i can only live with family.. And i would rather live in Pa where im alone and miserable than live with someone in my family... I wrote my mom a note explaining how im not happy here and i wanna move back but with a friend... She said in 6 months we will talk and if im good she will consider it... Im having a hard time believing her.. i think she is tricking me.... Everyday i just wanna be a total ass hole to her cause she wont let me move back to Minnesota...
It was selfish of her to move me here because My mom n Stepdad had friends out here ..... right?
Im shy and my mom knows it so i have a hard time meeting ppl... really really hard time... i just wanna move back to Minnesota.. cause i found 4 friends that are life long .. and i could live with any of them.
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this was kinda a vent thing but

was it selfish of them?
Am i being to picky only wanting to live with friends? None of my family live in the city im from.. or even close... i wanna go to school where i been going to school for 10 years

and i cannot stand my brother n sister either.. like they are beyond annoying.. they will sit there and purposly annoy me and ahsdgvcla they piss me off


should i have hateful feeelings twords my mom?
or am i over reacting??

[jargon]

I may not be the best person to give advice, but here goes.
I think its ok to not like your family. You didn't choose them; it just turned out that way. I think its fine to prefer hanging with you friends and such to your family; you DID choose them. But I think that you should stick to living with your family. However, if your mom decides its ok, go for living with a friend. I don’t think you should be a jerk to your mom for the move because it will just add stress, making you feel even worse, and it will lower what ever chances you have with going back. Also, the whole moving thing; moves are serious things in which one invests a lot of money. If you feel really strongly about moving back, try and press your point, but in the end it will be your parents' decision. And as for whether it was selfish of them or not, I can’t make a decision on that because I don’t know the entire situation. You sure that the only reason they wanted to move was because there were friends in that city (not saying your wrong, just making sure)? And I have two little sisters, ones cool (but only because she is 5 years my junior and we generally avoid each other) and the other one is the instigator. I really don’t like her because of this. I’m sure it’s normal to have adverse feelings towards your siblings when they do things like that (instigation and annoyance, you know). Hope this helped a little, and sorry about the length.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

look if your family moved to a new place is for a reason and i just think you should get over that and live with your family cuz you can fight with friends and never talk to them but family will ALWAYS be there and step in to your mother shoes for a while and see how she feels, good luck

[MrPinnick17]

Your wrong;
I don't know why your family moved but families stick together and do what's best for each other. Your mom wants you to move back with family so she's sure that you'll be safe, with people who want you, and will take care of you and watch out for you.

If you want to leave that badly, you should take the chance you've got and get out of there.

I know how you feel though, growing up, I didn't like my parents, it seems like we always clashed. I felt like my friends were more important than my family, but then I meshed my GOOD friends in with my family. The ones who were the for me no matter what and things got a little better. Now I just realize that these are my parents and they're like this becuase they just are, and nothing I can do will change that.

You should try to build a strong relationship with your mom now, because later it will be too late. And whether you believe it or not, she will be able to help you in life in ways you won't be able to imagine.

I don't think your mom is tricking you by the whole six months thing, she just wants you to be there for a bit longer, and maybe something will change how you feel about the move, all she wants is for you to be comfortable, and it sounds like she's doing a lot to try to work with you.

It's just too much work to try to blame your mom for everything. You can start over now, and have a new life if you want. You'll see your old friends from time to time...

It might be a bit selfish of her to want to move without seeing how you and your stepdad feel about it, but in the end, they're your parents, and your going to have to do what they said.

Bottom line, just relax dude, try to embrace the six months as best as you can. Do everything you can to try and have a time worthwhile... And if later on things still suck, move, even if it's with family, you'll be back where you started.