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deco
August 15th, 2008, 11:24 PM
ive read all the posts that other people have about late blooming... now i am a late bloomer but about 3 months ago i grew to about 5'8". i have all the hair and deep voice but i feel that im in some odd standstill in puberty because my penis and testicles havent grown at all.... about 4 inches while erect... has anybody else had this problem?? do you think they will grow? ive been always very insecure about my late blooming... lol

josh92
August 15th, 2008, 11:49 PM
dude im 16 and im the same hight and have the same length down there. lol i guess we are just late bloomers

deco
August 15th, 2008, 11:52 PM
really? ha thats funny... it sucks though cause im too scared to have sex with a chick cause ill just be embarrassed...

Jesse
August 15th, 2008, 11:58 PM
I'm in the same boat as you bro. 16 and 4" 'down there'.
Penis growth isn't always the first thing that happens, it doesn't always happen early, sometimes it will happen late. For you (And me) it's happening late, it's just something you have to deal with.

And at your sex comment. You shouldn't have 'sex with a chick' just because. You should have sex with someone you really love. And if you're with someone you love, and you truely love each-other, then she should be loving YOU, not your penis, but YOU.

mr.sexy_bomb
August 16th, 2008, 12:00 AM
dont be embarrest cuz after all you are who you are but you are probably going to get bigger just wait :)

deco
August 16th, 2008, 12:05 AM
And at your sex comment. You shouldn't have 'sex with a chick' just because. You should have sex with someone you really love. And if you're with someone you love, and you truely love each-other, then she should be loving YOU, not your penis, but YOU.

well im not just talking about any chick though... im starting to like her a lot but it seems she might be the type of girl that would make me embarest. ... so maybe i shouldnt like her

but thanks :) im glad that there are people in my situation.. that makes me feel a lot better.

homerallii1
August 16th, 2008, 12:38 AM
deco, im 13 and 3.5" erect. I know i'm younger and not a candidate for sex, but a blowjob might not be too far off... i'm embarrased too. but when she feels me up she teases me. Teasing is the point im making. She'll probably tease you a bit, playfully. but if she likes you, it wont matter

Maxismax123
August 16th, 2008, 01:32 AM
really? ha thats funny... it sucks though cause im too scared to have sex with a chick cause ill just be embarrassed...

once, i talked to this girl, who was eightteen, and she said her smallest was four inches. I made fun of her, but she said it felt better than a big one ;) good luck

stotty
August 16th, 2008, 04:20 AM
your going to grow, everyone does. Your probably just a late bloomer

pontiacdriver
August 16th, 2008, 12:19 PM
really? ha thats funny... it sucks though cause im too scared to have sex with a chick cause ill just be embarrassed...

I am sure that you will grow especially in light of your being a late bloomer. Keep in mind that puberty is a 5 year process for most guys, and you just need to be patient with your development especially if you started puberty later than 13.

As for the whole sex thing I can promise you that girls don't view penises the same way as guys and that the only person who is concerned about penis size is its owner. When you are in a relationship and if you are to the stage where you are sharing your body with someone else and if the relationship is a solid one, then your partner will accept you completely irregardless of any limitations that you may have.

kyle029
August 16th, 2008, 02:41 PM
im 16 and im 5'7" but my voice hasnt gotten deep yet :(

deco
August 16th, 2008, 08:21 PM
wow this actually makes me feel a lot better. :) thanks.

Master Bait
August 16th, 2008, 08:58 PM
Dont worry. Penis growth isnt the first stage.

Neverender
August 16th, 2008, 09:05 PM
feel your balls, if they're still the size that they were when you were 9 (about the size of a pea) then you might have some problems

shikachunin
August 16th, 2008, 09:49 PM
Well, puberty can last to your early 20's, so I would say that you still have a while.

devilsheep
August 17th, 2008, 08:26 AM
feel your balls, if they're still the size that they were when you were 9 (about the size of a pea) then you might have some problems

Your testicles aren't the size of peas when your 9 years old, stop giving false information.

Rutherford The Brave
August 17th, 2008, 10:14 AM
Your testicles aren't the size of peas when your 9 years old, stop giving false information.

Hush little one no need to start an arguement. You should be fine though being a late bloomer isn't bad.

xdeviancex
August 17th, 2008, 06:32 PM
haha im the exact opposite, im 7" erect, but yet, i have some armpit hair, and i dont really look my age, im 15 turnin 16 in november, i just have a boyish face i guess, i have peach fuzz for facial hair, you can't tell tho becuz its blondish. my voice is deeper than it was last year, but yeah, dont feel bad, atleast your penis isnt showing when your walking around, so you can wait for that, but when you look a year younger than you are and thats what people see, its a pain to wait.

iFap
August 17th, 2008, 10:38 PM
Don't worry! You are fine! I am 5"8' and only 14, and have a low voice but I was an early bloomer :D About your size. It should grow as you get older. But as was once said in my Sex Ed class... "Its not your size that matters... It's what you do with it" ;)

jaja
August 21st, 2008, 12:58 AM
im 6 and 1/2 while erect and im 5'6 and 14 but i wud just say late bloomage yo

CrazyGamer
August 21st, 2008, 08:45 PM
It's okay. I haven't actually gone all the way, but that's mainly because my mom would get suspicious. I know I've had two wet dreams though. I just can't find the time... It's annoying. I just wish I had some more time alone to masturbate and be able to cum. Another annoying thing is that we recently moved so there are too many boxes around to keep from getting anything on them...